Trying to concieve 11 thread for October!! For us Unlucky ones on 10

tessiebear- you said you got alot of it on cd 22, i had my positive reading yesterday, and we bd 5 x's yesterday. do you mean you did it more then one time on cd22? he was an animal last nite, he's 43, and i never had a guy be able to do it more then once or twice in one "session", i should be happy, but i don't know now. iam afraid too many cums from him hurts my chances, and/or has depleted him. still gonna bd today anyway, but i wonder if too much sex on one day is bad or good. sore to, ouch good luck to all!

Thanks tessie bear. Doctors app on thurs should clarify a few of my endless questions... They should make a book about your first time (actually trying that is!) lol. Congrats on the P test.

M.

SHELY,

Click on active conversations - it's on the last 50 conversations board!!!

how do i get to the new thread ladies?

Just to say - before I go over to new thread - huge congratulations to all our lovely success stories and many thanks to everyone for making this such a friendly and supportive thread.

tessiebear
minnie1
Hugs to all whose afs have arrived and best of luck to all those due to test soon.
Congrats to all graduates from this thread. I am now moving on to the new one!

Good morning girls i have started the new thread. hope it brings us luck.
Thank you MrsWednesday for thinking of me you are very sweet.
Glad i can make you laugh Jeddah.
Minnie you vent all you like thats what we are here for hope you are feeling better today. ((HUGS))
See you all over at the next thread

Munnzieb - you get the "eggwhite" CM a few days before you OV - so you should BD every day / every other day for a few days as soon as you get the EWCM. This month i got loads of it on CD22 - i BDed on CD23 and a busy weekend meant that we didnt have chance to BD again after that .... and i have just got a BFP! I also got a slight bit of EWCM a few days before my AF was due. You should have a look on Fertilityfriend.cm - it has some useful info on CM. tbh i never ever noticed the mucus on the months i conceived my 2 DS's - it was only chatting on mumsnet that made me aware of checking it.

tonights the night so wish me luck !!!!!!

we are going to watch hex first though.

tania2 you really do make me laugh can't wait for you to start a new thread....I agree......very quiet here!

Wilbur....sorry to hear about your dh and his accident........you must have beenso frightened....not to mention him!

Minnie1....sorry matey!

off for a long bath now....then watching michael paline.........cd3 today very heavy af! contractions every 5 mins!.....very odd!

hi hester........hows things??

beckif.........whats your stats....say you are pissed off and will wait for ivf.....whats your story?????? all details....sorry but I am very interested so sorry about another BFN ...iys such a bummer!!

onamnbreakbut...have you tested???

Hay girls,

Do you always have to have the egg white disch. to b ovulating? (cos it feels more er.. u know! in that area around CD9 9-16ish) does this mean I ovulate?? this also happens thou about 3 days before AF.

(think i'm goignt o stop trying to track every thing cos it's getting really confusing!

Thanks Wilbur - i feel over the moon at the moment!
So sorry to hear about your DH - thank goodness he is ok - it could have been a lot worse! As for the Bding - i always find that men can always somehow manage it however much they are reccuperating p.s if i were you i wouldnt test for a few days - i tested 3 days before my BFP and got a BFN

Big hugs Minnie1, I've been popping to see how you and Tania2 were getting on. I'm so sorry AF has arrived.

Thinking of you.x

Just catching up but huge congrats tessiebear - that's so exciting! How are you feeling? Big congrats to other BFP's too, that babydust must be working somehow.

Sorry to hear there's no good news for you yet BeckiF - I'm sure it will happen, hang on in there.

CD25 for me and I'm tempted to test tomorrow, but really I think there's no chance. My cycle still seems pretty weird and I don't think dh and I bd'd enough on the right days as we were travelling. It doesn't seem that important at the moment anyway, as dh had a nasty accident at a wedding we were at last weekend. The night before the wedding he fell over a very low wall onto a set of stone steps about 10 feet below and has cut his scalp very badly in about 4 places. He's okay now, all bandaged, but we had a night in hosp and an MRI scan and were discharged just in time to make the wedding with about 10 mins to spare (dh was best man). All very scary and emotional as dh could easily have broken his neck, anbd he's going to have terrible scars (his hair is receding and several of his cuts will be totally visible). So I don't think we'll be bd'ing for a while now and I'll have to be an honorary member of this thread for a bit. Good luck to everyone else though, and I'll join you on the new thread soon.

VENT ALERT!!!!!

AF arrived in full swing sat morning!!!!!!!!!!aghhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Really pissed off cause its a right heavy one like the last.. So i went out on the tiles last night and had a shi% night, Then to top the whole night off an old school friend said to me i though you were PG!!!!!!!!!!! NO I M/C !!!! I never told anyone i was pg........
Its not even my af that pisses me off its so heavy and my DP is away (just aswell)
Sorry girls but i needed that vent...

BeckieF- (((((((hugehugs))))))))) getting bfn's all the time is really disappointing. I decided not to test anymore after about 20 months ttc. The process of getting ivf was slow up here and as everything appeared almost normal it wasn't an option for at least 5 years of ttc. We gave up on the idea of our own babies shortly after i stopped testing - then i feel pg ....refusd to test and didn't even tell dh i was late!!
anyway I hope that the ivf doesn't take long to come along- and that taking out the stressful bfn's will speed up the waiting and take away some of the pain (I know it's easy for me to say that as I have a ds).

When you getting married??? that is a really exciting thing to be organising.....if you need any ideas to make the wedding really personal I have a few good ones up my sleeve.....(didn't get the chance to use them myself!)

Geordie

Thanks Georgie you brought tears to my eyes. that was really sweet.
Sorry Becki this is really hard isnt it hopefully ivf will get you that bfp soon. (((((hugs)))))
Good night girls
blowing a big kiss when leaving the room*

Did another pg test this morning and got the usual BFN ... not gonna test anymore. Just going to wait for the IVF.

Night Tania,

(((hugs)) Hope that tommorrow is as good a day as it can be. I know that when I look at my ds- I see lots of resemblances to my grandad who died just before christmas four years ago now- I love remembering him- he was soo lovely to me. I am sure that there will be lots of rejoicing in heaven when you finally get the chance to share your news with him!

sleep well
Geordie

Quiet here today think i might have an early night tonight had a big day. Had some friends from the us in melbourne today did the tourist things with them ds was so tired by the end of the day couldn't keep his eyes open.
Feeling a bit low tonight its my grandfathers birthday tomorrow 1st since he past in march we were very close (more of a dad) taking my nanna to visit him in the morning was really hoping that i could tell him i was pg on his b'day. never mind i might be able to tell him in a few months that iam pg and due on his birthday!! that would be nice.
Will see you girls on the new thread in the morning!!!

Hi Jeddah,
Ok when i get up tomorrow i will start the new thread mmm what to start it with i will have to rack my brains tonight and think of something special...
Hay its you 11th month ttc too maybe we will get lucky together in the same month.
Had a little bit of blood on tampon this evening after a full day very strange for af to only be here 2 days dont know what to make of it may have to ring my natrapath tomorrow and ask some questions. still hanging onto the hope that i could be pg with a strange af as i could have oved late????? i know iam just being hopeful silly i know.
Just found out that My dh's SIL's SIL is 7 weeks pg first month ttc. cant help to be gutted. was told that they thought "oh we will just give it a shot and see what happens" [face icon with tounge sticking out].

good morning girlies!!!!!!

Back from barcelona which was fantastic!!!!!!!!
Just trying to catch up on all the news!.......
Tania2....starting a new thread sounds great!! I know the time difference is a prob..... but if you start it your mon morning (our sun night)......then when we get up mon morning we can run with it????

Am I right in thinking that we have a couple of bfp already!

tessiebear
bagpus30
Brilliant news........anyone else testing today??

crazylegs enjoy the hols!
beckif.......chear up matey!!!! at least you are not on your own, my 11 month ttc! (getting sick of it now!)

She's just come back, very weird, I wonder wether she'll go again tomorrow. I'll definately put this one down to a failed attempt, so I think I am now on CD4 ? off we go again.

Funny feeling, in a way relieved as when I first thought about TTC No.3 again, I thought I would prefer to have the baby after September as the thought of giving birth and having 2 kids around for a whole 6 weeks holiday wouldn't be as easy.

Hello Tania im not sure because im always all over the place so its really hard for me tc. I had test at doc's and they said i do ovulate every month but the cant do antthing to regulate me at the moment, they just told me to keep trying. but i had af about this time last month so guess af will be soon if its coming.

Good Morning Girls Sunday morning here. Hope you all had a great Saturday night.
Golds - i got af with ds cant remember if it was a odd one just remember saying to a friend my dates cant be right i had af?? my friend at playgroup had the same thing too. I feel i had a strange one this month came on Friday a bit heavy and crampy then yesterday not really that much then when i got up this morning nothing??? My af's never last only 2 days so iam not sure either will have to wait and see.
Twiga thanks for the vote on me starting the next thread its funny how a few girls saying i should start the next one has made me feel special. The spotting sounds strange doesnt it maybe just keep testing??? Have fun with your neice that age is a real testing age iam sure she will have fun with you too and be spoiled no doubt!!
Georgdie Happy bding babydust
Crazylegs sorry af arrived early look at it this way you didnt need to waste money on the test and she didnt keep you waiting to get too excited about the poss of being pg.
Welcome pandagirl what cd (calander day) are you?