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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Testing 9th Feb

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Sjp17 · 28/01/2020 10:55

Hey Ladies!

So many topics to filter through without dates so starting one! I'm currently CD21 & 2DPO, cycle 3 TTC#2, first cycle with accupuncture treatment so 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼

Feeling a bit crampy!

Who's close to same dates? 2 days down 12 to go 😫

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Lb603 · 08/02/2020 09:56

Hellooo, I tested yesterday. bfn on frer, AF is due tomorrow so will see what happens. Any luck for anyone else?

Trying2b · 08/02/2020 09:44

Morning everyone! So only 9DPO for me and I got a BFN on FRER this morning. I knew I shouldn't have tested, it's stupidly early but I got a faint positive this early in the past so the temptation was too much! I'm feeling a lot of symptoms though so keeping positive. Any BFP for anyone today? Xx

2020wish · 08/02/2020 01:00

It’s finally the day AF is due. Ughhh the wait

Stef92 · 07/02/2020 14:23

Everytime I go to the loo I'm almost celebrating that there's no AF - I've lasted a day longer than my cycle last month but still don't feel overly optimistic that I'll get through the weekend without AF making an appearance

Sdoo4 · 06/02/2020 22:49

@Sjp17 I’m now 15dpo. Just went to pee and had a tiny bit of brownish spotting so maybe AF is coming but still doesn’t feel like it. Will see in the morning as usually it comes on first thing if not then I might test at the weekend as I’ll be a few days late by then.

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Sjp17 · 06/02/2020 21:35

@Lb603 oh what a shame! It's such a tough road. I've since stated spotting as well which I always do day before af. So wierd I seem to get the full bleed start around 8pm on 13dpo so out for the month. How awful is being back at square 1 after a month of hope 😢

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Lb603 · 06/02/2020 21:27

@Sjp17 oh no I'm sorry to hear that, although you still have a few days so my fingers are crossed for you. I'm the same, we have tried this month and it's so disheartening. My oh is away on a training course for the next 8 weeks and based on ovia won't be back when I'm ovulating, so was really hoping we had managed this month.

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Sjp17 · 06/02/2020 20:39

Well I caved 12 dpo and bfn. I didn't use fmu though I had a bit of an upset tummy and some light cramps which made me think af will be coming in the next 24-48 hours and I just wanted to be wrong. I was so so so damn sure this would be our month. Absolutely devastated 😭

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Sjp17 · 06/02/2020 19:52

@Lb603 I'm taking everything under the sun some recommended by my accupuncturist.
Pregnancy and breastfeeding multi
Boost of folic acid
CoQ10
DHA
probiotic

Plus I'm eating all the beetroot, walnuts and leafy greens

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Sjp17 · 06/02/2020 19:51

@Sdoo4 sounding promising, how many dpo/when are you going to test?!

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Sjp17 · 06/02/2020 19:49

@hanelizabeth yeah if wait to test on Sunday 🤞🏼 no at and a bfp for you on Sunday x

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Sjp17 · 06/02/2020 19:49

@2020wish @hanelizabeth oh no! Not out till af shows those negatives are so frustrating such a waste of money, I'm 12DPO today, going to try with all my might to hold myself off I feel like seeing a negative test is more painful than af arriving. I have no idea how I'm going to make it to Sunday though!

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Lb603 · 06/02/2020 17:51

@2020wish I have been taking follic acid, my bf and I tried the vitamins in December but all they seemed to do was make his wee yellow haha. I have everything crossed for us all, but I really don't think it is my month unfortunately.

2020wish · 06/02/2020 17:28

@Lb603 me and my bf have been taking preconception vits. I feel like AF is on her way. She’s due sat. So disheartening not getting BFP when I DTD every day Grin

hanelizabeth · 06/02/2020 17:26

I have got my fingers crossed for us all testing over the weekend 🤞🤞🤞

Lb603 · 06/02/2020 16:55

Aw sounds like we are all in the same position, it really is so disappointing. I'm pretty sure I'm out for the month but think I will test on Saturday again if I don't feel like af is coming. Fed up wasting money on frers Angry. Is anyone taking any vitamins to help?

Sdoo4 · 06/02/2020 13:28

Still no AF for me today, I’ve had a tiny tiny bit of clear CM usually before my period I get some brown discharge but none of that.

hanelizabeth · 06/02/2020 12:28

Took a FRER this afternoon it's looking neg my wee was pretty diluted though. I'm on 12 DPO, AF due either tomorrow or Saturday should I wait to re test on Sunday with FMU?

Advice welcome x

2020wish · 06/02/2020 11:38

Day 12dpo and another bfn :( really starting to feel down

Trying2b · 06/02/2020 06:42

Thank you @sjp17 fingers crossed I can make it to the weekend without POAS! X

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Sjp17 · 05/02/2020 23:07

Welcome @Trying2b oh sorry to hear about your chemical. It's hard not to feel guilty ttc again I have one son and I feel so guilty like I should be satisfied with him with the disappointments from our failed months so far, but we always wanted a few kids and I'd love for him to have some brothers or sisters, good luck xx

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Sjp17 · 05/02/2020 23:05

Oh no @Lb603 & @lucymagoo not out till AF shows up. Also day 9 is the most common implantion date so still super early!! With my son I was around 13/14 dpo when got positive and it was still fairly faine! 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼

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Sdoo4 · 05/02/2020 22:32

I’ve been out for a few hours. Came home went to pee and the paper was a slight brown tinge when I wiped now my stomach is twitching like mad.

Trying2b · 05/02/2020 21:00

Hello! I'm 7DPO, AF due around 13th-15th Feb. My cycles are a little irregular but usually only by a few days. TTC baby #3, so we are already very blessed and never take that for granted! We've been trying a while and had a few chemical pregnancies in the past. I promised I wouldnt test early again but I received a week of positives (before CP) from 9DPO last time, so it's very tempting! I liked knowing I was pregnant, even just for a week. Wishing everyone the very best of luck xxx

lucymagoo · 05/02/2020 20:22

@Lb603 I just caved and did a FRER too with a BFN. 🙄
Possibly 9dpo but also have cramps, feeling unwell and EWCM so I have no idea what's going on tbh I'm all over the place

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