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11dpo thread 🧡

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Sparkle2020 · 24/01/2020 09:33

A thread for anyone who’s 11dpo. Mine was a bfn today so kind of counting myself out, anyone else either bfn or bfp? X

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Donnat89 · 25/01/2020 08:12

@biscuit13 sorry to hear this least the wait is over though and you start thinking about next cycle

@SS123456 not over until AF shows

I've had PMT symptoms for a week now I'm too nervous to do my FRER as I know it's gonna be a BFN . Currently building Up the courage to do it . Got hardly any sleep last night too as so anxious 😟

biscuit13 · 25/01/2020 08:01

AF just turned up for me :( so disappointed. I've never had spotting before my period before

SS123456 · 25/01/2020 07:44

BFN for me this morning at 12dpo and starting to get PMS signs 😩

Donnat89 · 25/01/2020 00:06

@Chichi2020 thanks hun I hope so but I've got all the usual PMT symptoms so I'm
Not too hopefully as thinking the test is invalid as both lines are so faint !! Will have to wait and see

@Sparkle2020 yes I know what you mean my OH used to have a high sex drive but now he feels like too much pressure around it all so although he finishes he doesn't find it as enjoyable ! Awww big hugs for your loss too it's a horrible thing to go through it's took us a year to conceive the baby we lost so I knew it wouldn't happen quickly but this constant cycle is hard and I am really starting to struggle with the disappointment every month . I'm preparing myself for the same BFN tomorrow too ! Xxxx

Chichi2020 · 25/01/2020 00:00

Thank you @Donnat89! also congrats seem to be in order for you as I can see two lines on your pics!

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Sparkle2020 · 24/01/2020 23:59

@Chichi2020 ooh pics please! Congrats!! X

@Donnat89 I feel you! Loss in may 2018 for us After falling pregnant accidentally 🧐 and then had a gap and now on cycle 16 of trying properly, it’s tiring isn’t it. I just think it’s so damaging for relationships like if dh struggles to finish during fertile window bd I start crying sometimes it’s so bad 😅

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Donnat89 · 24/01/2020 23:57

@Chichi2020 awww congratulations!! Amazing news ! Xxx

Donnat89 · 24/01/2020 23:56

@Sparkle2020 same or I wake up randomly then struggle to get back to sleep . I then end up on google 🤣

It's been 10 months for me . We lost our baby in March last year and TTC Ever since pretty much

I said to my partner today not sure how much longer I can deal with this month after month . As it drives me mad

Back ache is back again tonight so pretty sure AF is on the way .

I just want to know now so I can move on and start Trying again next cycle !

Chichi2020 · 24/01/2020 23:56

Hi everyone, I’m 11dpo (I think) and I got my BFP today. The result was so clear, I was so surprised.

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Sparkle2020 · 24/01/2020 23:49

Yes me too I’m getting to sleep about 5am then waking up for work a couple hours later, it’s shit. It takes over your whole life doesn’t it. What cycle are you both on by the way

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peachypetite · 24/01/2020 23:36

I can’t sleep either. I feel like I’m going insane. How do women do this month after month after month? It’s so much worse than I thought it would be.

Donnat89 · 24/01/2020 23:21

@Sparkle2020 ohh I do hope so I'm struggling to sleep though !! I will defo do one first thing and update !

Yea the tweaked picture does look promising I just don't want to get my hopes up too much .

Xxxx

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Sparkle2020 · 24/01/2020 23:10

Looks promising when tweaked too @Donnat89

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Sparkle2020 · 24/01/2020 23:09

@Donnat89 id say do another one tomorrow and take a pic before you open the case! Fingers crossed x

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Donnat89 · 24/01/2020 22:28

@Sparkle2020 pics attached .

Not getting my hopes up as thinking an invalid test ?

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Sparkle2020 · 24/01/2020 22:08

@biscuit13 ooh fingers crossed it’s good news then!! And same for you @peachypetite !!

@Donnat89 post a pic!!

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peachypetite · 24/01/2020 22:06

I’m due Monday. Something definitely seems off to me. So far today I have had pale pink, a few spots of bright bright red and brown. It just doesn’t seem like a normal start to a period! I have a frer but busy tomorrow so I will definitely test Sunday morning if this doesn’t turn into my period.

Donnat89 · 24/01/2020 22:02

@Sparkle2020 I have been using the cheapy amazon ones last few days all defo negative . I have now bought first response to check first thing as will be 11DPO tomorrow morning

I will add the one I did earlier that didn't work I took apart with it the time frame and could see 2 very faint lines but not getting my hopes up just yet .

Amazon ones still saying negative .

Hoping tomorrow I get some good news will certainly make for a good announcement at dinner tomorrow evening ! Xxx

biscuit13 · 24/01/2020 21:58

@Sparkle2020 no if anything it was lighter 2nd time I went to the loo, and its only when I wipe. hope its not AF coming.... although it never usually starts like this its normally straight in with full blown heavy period.

@peachypetite well I tested this morning with a cheap boots strip and it was definitely negative. so now im thinking maybe try first response on sunday? i'll be 13 dpo by then. AF is due Tuesday.

peachypetite · 24/01/2020 21:52

@biscuit fingers crossed it is. Will you test over the weekend?

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Sparkle2020 · 24/01/2020 21:51

@biscuit13 if it’s not getting heavier I’d say promising!

@Donnat89 do you use the internet cheapies too? Or just fr?

@peachypetite hahah maybe it’s a symptom

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biscuit13 · 24/01/2020 21:44

Ive had some light spotting this afternoon and evening, like really light pink/orange CM. and had dull achey cramps for a couple of days... i'm hoping these are good signs. do you think it could be late implantation?

peachypetite · 24/01/2020 21:22

It is random that two of us have had stinky farts isn’t it!

Donnat89 · 24/01/2020 19:25

@Sparkle2020 I actually don't know tbh , I must admit I caved earlier did one of the FR tests it didnt work stayed completely blank so that will teach me !

Now holding out until morning ! Back ache seems to have eased up this evening but I'm soo irritable still 😩😩😩

My whole house is staying away from me and my smelly Arse so bonus plenty of me time haha 😂

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Sparkle2020 · 24/01/2020 17:58

Lol at yous having disgusting farts. Handy weapon to have against your partner 😂

Looking forward to seeing anyone’s tests tomorrow!! Does anyone know the statistics on how many dpo a bfn is likely to just stay a bfn? I read 13.5 is most likely day to get a bfp but I don’t believe it lol

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