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11dpo thread 🧡

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Sparkle2020 · 24/01/2020 09:33

A thread for anyone who’s 11dpo. Mine was a bfn today so kind of counting myself out, anyone else either bfn or bfp? X

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peachypetite · 26/01/2020 12:36

I feel very very down :(

Donnat89 · 26/01/2020 12:33

@Sparkle2020 how awful I hope
You are on the mend now and at least they are looking into it and they can help you soon

peachypetite · 26/01/2020 12:04

Definitely not Normal and could well be endometriosis

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Sparkle2020 · 26/01/2020 12:01

@peachypetite thank you! Me too. Tbf it’s probably a good thing as I’ve often had painful periods that I have to miss work for and I just thought it was the norm but apparently not 🧐

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peachypetite · 26/01/2020 11:58

Oh my god sparkle. Hope they get to the bottom of it quickly.

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Sparkle2020 · 26/01/2020 11:56

My af is so so bad I ended up in hospital last night as I was in so much pain I threw up and was curled up on the floor for hours. and have to go in for scans cause they think I have endometriosis. Would explain a lot really.

I think that test is probably negative as I had a lot of dodgey one steps recently :( good luck though!

Anyone else testing today?

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Donnat89 · 26/01/2020 10:12

@peachypetite no I haven't tested again I'm trying to hold out until Tuesday day before AF is due .

I would say FRER is reliable enough but I'm
Not sure I trust them anymore !

I'm literally just sitting and waiting for me period to come I've decided to ignore the tests and treat them as negative until I'm proved otherwise

@bethj123 I can see very very faint line maybe test with another test in a few days .

Xxxx

bethj123 · 26/01/2020 09:56

@peachypetite yes next step is ivf for me! Yes it's a pregnancy test x

peachypetite · 26/01/2020 09:17

@bethj123 four years - have you been referred for testing? Is that a pregnancy test in your photo?

peachypetite · 26/01/2020 09:14

Hi Donna it’s due tomorrow, but twsted with a FRER so definitely not pregnant. Also cramps have just started kicking in again. Just had a little cry. This whole process is exhausting and mentally draining. Have you tested again today?

bethj123 · 26/01/2020 08:30

Hi girls hope you don't mind me joining! Been trying over 4 years!
Have been getting the v v v faint lines for 2 days now, I'm thinking it's just faulty tests , 10dpo today!
Also I did get bit of blood when I wiped yesterday sorry tmi

11dpo thread 🧡
Donnat89 · 26/01/2020 08:04

@peachypetite when is AF due ? Xxxx

peachypetite · 26/01/2020 07:44

Just did a negative test.

Donnat89 · 26/01/2020 00:19

Awww ladies thinking of you all and big hugs but least you can get back to trying .

I wish mine would show up tbh , back ache seems to have gone tonight but very very dry down there sorry for the TMI . Which usually mean AF is due any day . Also skin starting to get a little break out .

No signs of cramps yet .

Still half heartedly hoping my tests where correct but don't want to get my hopes up to much .

Xxxxx

SS123456 · 25/01/2020 22:31

Looks like I'm out, AF has just shown up 😩. Good luck ladies! 😁🤞🏻

Namechanger0800 · 25/01/2020 19:58

I'm not sure about it always being 14 days but I'm pretty sure I ov on CD9 going by how I felt and I have had positive opks before when feeling that way. That being said it'll still be early if comes soonish. I'm usually 26-28 days still with early ov on day 9 or 10

Pretty sure it's af - I do spot like this before a period and when pg not had any spotting in 2ww

Wish I could just chill about all this!

Chichi2020 · 25/01/2020 19:28

Hi Sparkle yes I think that is correct. xx

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Sparkle2020 · 25/01/2020 18:28

@Namechanger0800 thank you! Sorry for you too if yours is af. Do you know by the way, I read that there’s always 14 days between ov and af so if period is late you ovulated late, does that mean if period is early you ovulated earlier than you thought too? Cause I’m 3 days early :/

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Namechanger0800 · 25/01/2020 17:33

So sorry sparkle - at least u can move on to your next cycle now though and start afresh.

I was just coming back to say now have a bit of pink discharge which prob means af on way as it def starts this way and is most probably a super short cycle for me this time.

Will try savers in the future but Im not testing this early again - the slight line I had on 2nd test really got my hopes up but looking at the reviews onboots website there's loads of recent reviews saying people got false positives with these tests. Even one where they dipped in water and a faint line came up.

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Sparkle2020 · 25/01/2020 16:56

Onto bloody cycle 17 I go 🤬

Defo worth getting one, I hate to think how much I’ve spent on frers over the month and they were there the whole time!

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Donnat89 · 25/01/2020 16:31

@Sparkle2020 no I've never tried them but have heard of them if I can will see if I can get into town tomorrow to grab one

Ohh no that sucks I'm still waiting and honestly feel crapier and crapier as the day goes on . Xxxx

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Sparkle2020 · 25/01/2020 16:22

AF just arrived. Fuck sake :(

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Sparkle2020 · 25/01/2020 15:52

Have you both used answer tests before? They’re £2.99 from savers and literally are just first responses. Like open them you will be shocked cause it literally is just a first response. Might help you both!

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Donnat89 · 25/01/2020 15:23

@Namechanger0800 I would wait until Monday / Tuesday . Earliest if your only CD21

My cycles like your can be as short at 26 but never more than 29 on average my cycles are 27 days according to FLO

I would disregard the boots tests that you checked outside the waiting time .

FRER I would say usually pretty good but as you can see from the day I've had I'm not sure anymore

My AF is due Wednesday so I am going to wait until Tuesday to test as that should by then give me a pretty accurate result if it's a BFN which I've decided to expect then il just wait for AF as maybe she will just decide to be late this month !! Xxxx

Donnat89 · 25/01/2020 15:18

@Sparkle2020 I'm holding until I can't anymore . I am needing to wee a lot today and even though I haven't done anymore tests and I'm not drinking loads I'm still
Needing to go .

I'm gonna try hold out until Tuesday rather than Monday by then if AF is coming i will start getting the usual tummy cramps .

Xxx

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