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TTC after pregnancy loss - Thread 34 - huddle up and bring on the BFP's

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BunnytheBlueWhale · 23/01/2020 09:23

Welcome to the 🐧 huddle. This a safe place to give and receive support for everyone who has experienced the loss(es) of a pregnancy or baby. Pregnancy and child loss is one of the most difficult things we can experience and it can also be the most lonely time too. I hope you find this thread to be of some comfort.

I have found so much comfort from the lovely ladies on this thread and I’m hoping for lots of BFPs in 2020!

🐧🐧🐧🐧🐧🐧🐧

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Treaclepie19 · 23/01/2020 11:12

Thanks for inviting me over!
Just keeping my foot in the door because my bfp this morning is very early days.

Timeforanamechangeagain1 · 23/01/2020 10:42

Thank you @tortiecat I'm doing ok. Just at work keeping my head down. I really just want the bleeding to stop now. I was told 3-5 days at the hospital but I think that was very optimistic and lots of women say two weeks. It's really only spotting now, but still red and just feels like a constant reminder. I'm terrified I'm going to be one of those women whose periods don't come back after a d&c and I just want to get healthy so we can try again. I feel like time is running out.

tortiecat · 23/01/2020 10:23

Hi @Timeforanamechangeagain1 I'm very sorry for your losses. It is so hard after you had been trying for a while and your last loss sounds especially traumatic, you poor thing. I just wanted to let you know that you are not alone and that I understand that the early days are horrendous. How are you feeling today?

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BunnytheBlueWhale · 23/01/2020 09:56

I haven’t tracked this month but yesterday was the last day of FW according to Ovia. We didn’t manage to dtd yesterday as DH fell asleep at about 8 pm - maybe he was tired because we have been dtd every day for a week 😂 but I might try tonight too so I feel like I have FW covered.

If I’ve forgotten to tag anyone please tag them although link is on the other thread anyway

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Timeforanamechangeagain1 · 23/01/2020 09:42

Hello, I posted on the last thread under a different name after a miscarriage at just over five weeks in mid November. Went on to conceive on the very next cycle, thought it was some sort of miracle but had a bleed dead on eight weeks and at a scan the next day was told there was no heart beat. Medical management failed and I had to have a d & c last Friday a few days after my 40th birthday. Feeling very fragile traumatised and hopeless now. We tried for a year before the first loss and can't believe it will ever happen for me now

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BunnytheBlueWhale · 23/01/2020 09:37

@Russkispy @tmc14 @Sunflower1608 @morganmom @JuniperandRose @Seahawk80 @SunshineCrocodile @dublino

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tmc14 · 23/01/2020 09:36

Ah also, I’m now 40!! Have one son who’s 2, been trying for number 2 for a year. Had a miscarriage at almost 11 weeks in October, baby stopped growing at 8w4days. Currently struggling with performance issues so not getting much chance to ttc...

tmc14 · 23/01/2020 09:35

Hi all

Just marking my place. I’m on cd14. Managed to dtd on Sunday but got a strong not quite positive this morning on an opk. So think Sunday would be too early... need to try tonight if I’m in with a chance. Tried last night but DH couldn’t quite manage it. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Best wishes to all x

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BunnytheBlueWhale · 23/01/2020 09:33

I’m BunnytheBlueWhale, age 35, lost DD one I’m Feb last year at 39+6! She was perfectly healthy otherwise but was wrapped up in her cord and was stillborn.

Had a MC / CP in August 2019.

I’m hoping 2020 is a better year for all of us! And generally trying to be grateful for all that I do have and to focus on that! 😊🙂😊

@MrsMGE @LASandOtto @Treaclepie19 @SunStruck @tortiecat @Shefliesonherownwings @Avocuddles @MrsG3 @MissSparkles81

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