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TTC after miscarriage - end of January 2020 testing

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MilsCookie · 22/01/2020 10:20

Hey @Anny27 @ChampooPapi @BS9790 @Cruiser1 @mlax @ELM7 @SweetpeaOrMarigold !

I don’t think I’ve got everyone so please tag anyone else who is still in TWW/planning on testing from now - end of the month.

This is for when we run out of space on the other thread! Then from here we can move to the Feb group set up by @terribleimagination or hopefully a pregnancy thread 😊

On CD28 currently and did a test this morning - BFN. AF due CD33-34 so hopefully was just too early 🙈.

Baby dust to all! 💫🍀💖

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ELM7 · 22/01/2020 11:39

@MilsCookie sorry I’m Dorset. The image I now have of all us being in one place wallowing on the sofa with a stack load of chocolate! 😂

@ChampooPapi - I’m addicted to celebrity coach trip!!

ChampooPapi · 22/01/2020 11:39

I'm only on my third cycle since, and I have two children already so I need someone to basically shout some sense directly into my face at this point.

The miscarriage has just become to take over my entire internal life, it has become something that is actually beginning to define me.

It's not good, it's bloody ridiculous and terrible but I've total lost control this month. I am making some serious promises for month 4 if this inevitably doesn't go well this month.

ELM7 · 22/01/2020 11:35

Thank you @MilsCookie for keeping us all together.

Lots of us seem to be struggling at the mo guess it’s the Jan blues and all the tricks our bodies play on us plus hormones flying! Glad we have each other to get through it.

@Anny27 really hope it was implantation bleeding yesterday and that BFP is coming for you. 🤞🏻

ChampooPapi · 22/01/2020 11:35

@MilsCookie Devon I'm afraid, otherwise you could come wallow and watch coach trip with me in your pyjamas

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MilsCookie · 22/01/2020 11:31

@ChampooPapi oh noooo you caved!! 🙈 just like me!! Oh god I’m only on my first official cycle since the mmc. I have NO idea how women do this month after month. There are some unbelievably strong ladies out there 💪🏼 let’s hope we were just too early. 🤞

@Anny27 it all sounds very promising for you! I am so excited to see how you get on on Friday! 🍀💖

I also just feel a bit of a mess today. Stupid to do that test because it was a bfn and now I feel really down. Even though rationally I KNOW it’s too early. All I want to do is order a dominos and veg out on the sofa and eat a TON of chocolate.

Btw I was wondering if anyone was from Oxfordshire? I have just moved to this area after travelling and need some friends haha 😊

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ChampooPapi · 22/01/2020 11:14

@MilsCookie we love you!

Lord are we all a mess today or what?! I'm now full of another head cold lurg thing so I officially wave my white flag at the world. This week is shit 🙄

Thank goodness for you ladies, sure we'll re join on the February thread but I had to keep the hope until af arrives with you all

Anny27 · 22/01/2020 11:07

Thanks for setting up :)

The spotting that I had yesterday has gone now so dont think it was AF as temps still high so praying that it is implantation bleeding 🙌🙌🙌

Testing on Friday morning so we will see!

Still constipated, a bit baggy and full boobs

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MilsCookie · 22/01/2020 10:50

Of course @Littlegoth !! So sorry to hear of your losses 😔 you are an incredibly strong woman - don’t forget that! Sending lots of luck to you 💫🍀🍀🍀

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Littlegoth · 22/01/2020 10:45

Please can I join? 3 x MC, recent APS diagnosis. In last days of 2WW and restricted my testing to once a day

BS9790 · 22/01/2020 10:40

CD24 for me, AF due CD29. Same as @MilsCookie, did a test this morning and BFN. Hoping its just too soon, but not feeling confident x

BS9790 · 22/01/2020 10:36

waves

mlax · 22/01/2020 10:24

Thank you @milscookie.

Just writing on this post so it's on my 'watching'!! X

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