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TTC after miscarriage - end of January 2020 testing

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MilsCookie · 22/01/2020 10:20

Hey @Anny27 @ChampooPapi @BS9790 @Cruiser1 @mlax @ELM7 @SweetpeaOrMarigold !

I don’t think I’ve got everyone so please tag anyone else who is still in TWW/planning on testing from now - end of the month.

This is for when we run out of space on the other thread! Then from here we can move to the Feb group set up by @terribleimagination or hopefully a pregnancy thread 😊

On CD28 currently and did a test this morning - BFN. AF due CD33-34 so hopefully was just too early 🙈.

Baby dust to all! 💫🍀💖

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MilsCookie · 28/01/2020 21:06

@Cruiser1 that's amazing news!!! All sounds very positive given the sickness (although I'm sorry you have that!!) keep us updated with how you get on at the scan 😊 xx

I'm still sat here waiting for AF! She was due yesterday or today and no sign yet. Haven't tested since Sunday AM cos I'm too scared to see a bfn. Might test tomo am but my DP wants to wait until Friday!! 🤔

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Michette · 28/01/2020 15:13

@Cruiser1 such good news!!!! I was just reading To follow on the thread (having moved to Feb) and you were one of the only BFP so super happy to hear the levels are good and exciting for the scan next week!
Fingers crossed 🤞🏽 ❤️

Cruiser1 · 28/01/2020 10:14

Hi 👋🏼 @MilsCookie I’m doing ok, HCG up over 1000 I’d say today and the nausea has arrived 🤢 still terrified to get my hopes up though! Il have a scan next week so hopefully there will be a heartbeat

@kkr168 yes hopefully you had a second surge and you caught it! Test again in 3/4 days maybe? Hopefully there will be a BFP

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MilsCookie · 28/01/2020 08:49

@kkr168 I'm saving my frer too 🙈

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kkr168 · 28/01/2020 08:40

Hopefully it is the case that I had a 2nd surge later on, I stopped testing after the 1st. Luckily we've pretty much bd every other day still. I'll keep testing with my IC tests & save the frer for later

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MilsCookie · 28/01/2020 08:15

@kkr168 it could still be too early... hang on in there! (That's where I'm at at the moment... but too scared to take any more tests) on CD34 and af due yesterday or today. Just hoping she doesn't show and then bfp is delayed!

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MilsCookie · 28/01/2020 08:13

Hey @Cruiser1 👋 how are you getting on?! 😘

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Cruiser1 · 28/01/2020 07:24

Aww congratulations @Zoey36 fantastic news 🥰
@kkr168 I would add a week on to your AF due date after miscarriage (or there abouts)
I had a false LH peak followed by a real peak about 5/6 days later.

FireflyGirl · 28/01/2020 07:16

Congratulations @Zoey36

That's a good strong line! Fingers crossed for an uneventful next 9 months Flowers

kkr168 · 28/01/2020 07:15

I'm so confused, 12dpo, just got bfn on a frer.
Still no signs of AF coming anytime soon!
AF should have arrived Friday just gone but then this is my 1st since MC, so things clearly aren't back to normal.
I'm going to start using ovulation tests again just incase I ovulate again.

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MilsCookie · 27/01/2020 23:39

Congratulations @Zoey36 I'm so happy for you! Fingers crossed this is a sticky bean and you have a happy, healthy pregnancy 😘🙏🍀🌈 xx

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ELM7 · 27/01/2020 22:29

Yay congratulations @zoey36 that’s a fab line! x

Zoey36 · 27/01/2020 22:17

14dpo on a £1 Asda one.

TTC after miscarriage - end of January 2020 testing
kkr168 · 27/01/2020 22:16

congratulations @Zoey36 how many dpo are you?

GemLou88 · 27/01/2020 21:29

@Zoey36 That's great news!!!! I'm so happy for you. I've got everything crossed this is a happy and healthy pregnancy for you. That's made me so happy ☺️☺️

Anny27 · 27/01/2020 21:27

Yayyyyyy @Zoey36 :D

Do you have a picture? Congratulations lovely xxx

Zoey36 · 27/01/2020 21:23

I got a bfp this evening. Cautiously happy but those lines don't mean much to me anymore which is so sad!

FireflyGirl · 27/01/2020 19:16

@MilsCookie it is just so all-encompassing. Feel free to DM me if you want to chat.

I'm just stuck in limbo now, and that's the hardest part. I'm usually very pro-active so the waiting is awful - especially as I'm behind most other people on the thread! I'm just hanging around to hopefully move onto the graduates thread, or else the February thread...

Tried poas this morning, but it's a 20miu stick so unlikely to pick anything up at this point anyway. 4 more days...

Moominmiss · 27/01/2020 14:52

Thank you @MilsCookie I found that thread and posted in there too. I wasn’t sure at the time which was the main thread.
But thank you. It’s so comforting to speak to other ladies in similar circumstances, although I wouldn’t wish it upon anyone. X

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MilsCookie · 27/01/2020 14:48

@Moominmiss here's the link to the other thread 😘 but do keep us updated here- fingers crossed you get a bfp this month! 🤞🍀💖

TTC after miscarriage - February 2020 www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/3796903-TTC-after-miscarriage-February-2020

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MilsCookie · 27/01/2020 14:44

@mlax hope you're okay lovely. I've just PMed you.

@Anny27 sending you a big hug 😘 I cried so much last night as my DP told me it was all getting on top of him as it's all I seem to talk about. I was like FINE I WON'T TALK ABOUT IT THEN and we had a bit of a tiff 😔 I got so upset because I feel like I NEED to talk about it. He then said of course I can talk to him about it but I need to try and find things to take my mind off it because he's worried about me. 😞 I'm feeling a bit better today but wow I can't believe how much of an emotional rollercoaster this all is!

@Moominmiss hey hun, so sorry to hear of your loss, it's such a traumatic experience to go through. Sending lots of hugs 😘 you might be better off in the Feb 2020 TTC after miscarriage thread, I will try and link it here in a sec as most people are chatting in that thread now. But sending lots of love and luck to you in your TTC journey xxx

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Anny27 · 27/01/2020 12:00

I'll be sticking around to see a few more bfps hopefully!! :D

Cycle day 2 feeling really depressed about it all, I know 1 month is unrealistic haha! But it feels so much longer obvs because took 4 cycles before getting pregnant and then the miscarriage and now the wait.

Hopefully I can get over myself soon and focus on enjoying my life as it currently is

mlax · 27/01/2020 10:11

Only just popped on this after a crazy weekend. @GemLou88 @MilsCookie I'd love to stay in touch too xx

GemLou88 · 27/01/2020 08:43

Ah I’m so glad there’s more Ladies still to test. Hopefully this group is still in with a chance of a BFP. I’m not testing now until early Feb. Probably around the 4th. But I’m waiting to see if anyone gets their two lines on here 🤞🏻🤞🏻

Zoey36 · 27/01/2020 07:42

I'm still here too. I'm really hoping for a bfp as I didn't start spotting on Saturday but then there could be other reasons for that, and I'm scared to test so I haven't yet. I think I will tomorrow....but I've said that before! I'm a bad flake!

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