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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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ttc after mc July/August 2007 - shiny new thread as the other was full

756 replies

winemakesmummyclever · 30/08/2007 11:29

Hi,

I hope nobody minds me adding a new thread, but the other wouldn't let me reply.

LadyLush - Sorry to hear about your loss . In answer to your question, I thought I was around 11-12 weeks pg, but the scan said the baby was around 8-9 weeks. When I'd had the ERPC, the gynae reg said the uterus was around 14weeks and the baby was still 8-9 weeks.
I'm sure things do get better with time, but things are still pretty raw and new for me. I'm glad things are getting back to normal for you (and hopefully for others too).

OP posts:
Triggles · 13/09/2007 21:16

Lcy - thanks. I was struggling with that one, from a wording standpoint.

katendmom · 13/09/2007 21:16

Sending all my mumsnet friends virtual drinks and chocolates~

Triggles · 13/09/2007 21:15

cricri - when we were waiting for m/c to start, the evening it started, i had a glass of wine with dinner figuring it wouldn't be a problem, and then when I had to go into A&E that night I was SO embarrassed when I had to mention I'd had a little wine. Felt like such a horrible person! I didn't need prescription painkillers, but I did take paracetamol regularly for a couple days to keep that baseline of pain relief there. It's once the pain has really taken hold that you end up needing stronger. Just be sure to take something BEFORE the pain gets too bad, and it will work much better.

Lcy · 13/09/2007 21:14

Glad its not just me triggles

Cricri - thanks - i hope you are ok, it will all be over soon!

Sunshyne - this is a thread for trying to concieve after miscarriage. So non of us are pregnant at the mo - but hopefully soon

Triggles · 13/09/2007 21:11

Lcy - same here. I'm usually not really fussed over a drink, but it's when you can't have it that it's looks good, isn't it?

cricri · 13/09/2007 21:09

I have lots of wine and chocolate too, but the former is possibly not recommended under the circumstances!
Thanks for all your messages of support once again.
The hospital didn't give me any painkillers and I didn't think to ask. If it gets too bad I'll get DH to go and get the strongest over-the-counter ones possible but at the moment it's fine.
Lcy - sorry to hear you're having such a crap day. I did wonder where you were as you usually post regularly. Hopefully tomorrow will be better.
I'll let you know how I get on...

Sunshyne · 13/09/2007 21:09

What is a 2 week wait Lcy ?

Lcy · 13/09/2007 21:08

I am not drinking wine because on 2 week wait - i miss it!!!

Sunshyne · 13/09/2007 21:08

Sorry Triggles I didn't even think to ask how many weeks are you ?

Triggles · 13/09/2007 21:07

Can tell I'm feeling blah and tired - watching Hells Kitchen, so I can WATCH someone with wine and chocolate. It's the closest I'm going to get right now.

Sunshyne · 13/09/2007 21:06

Shame North Wales is a bit far for chocolate I am sure there is a Spar closer. I think we should all get together and have a mumsnet party everyone on hear sounds so nice. It is lovely to be in the company of such fun supportive people.

Lcy · 13/09/2007 21:04

North Wales!

Lcy · 13/09/2007 21:03

Lcy on Thu 13-Sep-07 21:02:00
Eeek - try again: I have no wine but do have chocolate - if only we lived on the same street!

Sunshyne · 13/09/2007 21:03

Lcy - what a party we could have I am in Cardiff in South Wales are you far away ?

Lcy · 13/09/2007 21:02

I have no wine but do have chocolate - if you we lived on the same street!

Sunshyne · 13/09/2007 21:01

Hi Triggles,

I cant' believe how many people are on here tonight is it always like this ?

Cricri - Have you been give any Tramadol by the hospital/doctor. I found that really works to stop the pains.

good luck x

Triggles · 13/09/2007 20:56

Welcome Sunshyne. No wine or chocolate here either, much to my disgust. I'm not sure I can put together the energy to move without one or the other.

Sunshyne · 13/09/2007 20:55

Hi there everyone. I'm new here and trying to find my way round after a glass of wine to try and cheer myself up as there is no chocolate in the house

Triggles · 13/09/2007 20:54

I think cricri was referring to the doctor being in theatre as in surgery/operating room.

sweetkitty · 13/09/2007 20:53

cricri - don't panic, if it is starting naturally theres nothing much you can do about it, get some good painkillers and loads of sanitary towels. Spend tomorrow in bed if you can and want to, or on the sofa with some good movies. Get your DH to spoil you. Mine started naturally and it wasn't pleasant but I got through it even with two toddlers to look after and you will too.

Lcy - sorry you are havning a crap day, have an early night and tomorrow can only be better. take care x

EllieG - great news about the bean keeping everything crossed for you x

WMMC - will you just STOP NOW you are making me so with tales of swanning off to bars!!!

kateendmom - glad the D&C went as well as these things can, time to put your feet up for a few days now.

Triggles · 13/09/2007 20:52

Lcy - sorry you had such a bad day. Hope you're feeling better soon.

cricri - we were told that gentle exercise (like relaxed walking) would help move things along for natural m/c if you're looking for that. hope it all goes well for you this weekend.

katendmom · 13/09/2007 20:50

Cricri, wait a minute - did I read it right? The on-call doctor was where? In a theater? Are you kidding me?!

This is ridiculous! I don't know where this place is (taking in UK?) but after reading so many complaints about it I think it should be reported! They're just not safe!

Ok, I am not making you feel any better but listen - you're doing the right thing by relaxing. Many-many women experienced nothing but uncomfortable cramps. Make sure you have pain medications handy and your DH/ DP near by, just in case.

It's not a scientific fact but my guess - taking the pill MIGHT make symptoms/ pain a bit stronger than going a true natural way. I think that since the pill MAKES the body to progress faster - it's worsening the symptoms. I have heard from many girlfriends who had their labor induced that contractions were much-much worse than the ones that naturally occur. With that said - I am keeping my fingers crossed for you and keep me posted ok? (I am in USA so it is only 3:48 in the afternoon - keep posting if you need somebody to talk to and I will be keeping an eye on you).

Do go to the hospital if you get uncomfortable, don't wait until you are in a lot of pain. Not saying that you will be, just saying IF!

Lcy · 13/09/2007 20:45

Sorry cricri, we crossed posts i hope you are ok. Sorry for being a misery!

Lcy · 13/09/2007 20:44

Hi everyone - I am having a rubbish day. Woke up feeling really low and day just got worse. Work was really stressful and nearly cried on numerous occassions. Now i think i have (TMI) thrush - i havent had it for 5 years! Also getting really achy pains - but ovulated four days ago - rubbish - think i may just go to bed

cricri · 13/09/2007 20:41

Well, how about this - I was sat at the hospital waiting to see the doctor for my bloods and was starting to get desperate for the loo and once in there I discovered that the process had started naturally! I never did get to see the doctor as after 1h30mins of waiting I was told that there was a change of shift and that the on-call doctor was in theatre so they didn't know when I'd be seen. Don't you just love the NHS! So I decided to come home and call them later.
I've just called them and they said to see how things go over the weekend (!) and to give them a ring on Monday, but obviously before if I have any concerns. The ERPC is still scheduled for Tuesday morning, but I'll be assessed on Monday to see if I still need it.
I'm panicking a bit after reading your posts about natural mc, but at the moment it's OK. Just a bit of bleeding and some cramping.