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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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ttc after mc July/August 2007 - shiny new thread as the other was full

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winemakesmummyclever · 30/08/2007 11:29

Hi,

I hope nobody minds me adding a new thread, but the other wouldn't let me reply.

LadyLush - Sorry to hear about your loss . In answer to your question, I thought I was around 11-12 weeks pg, but the scan said the baby was around 8-9 weeks. When I'd had the ERPC, the gynae reg said the uterus was around 14weeks and the baby was still 8-9 weeks.
I'm sure things do get better with time, but things are still pretty raw and new for me. I'm glad things are getting back to normal for you (and hopefully for others too).

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sweetkitty · 07/09/2007 10:41

That's exactly like mine goingfor3 it's started with a bang so to speck straight to bright red blood unliek normal where I would get spotting for the first 1/2 day.

I feel better if it truly is CD1 for me at least I can get on with things now.

goingfor3 · 07/09/2007 10:33

Sweetkitty my period started about 1 1/2 weeks after my m/c bleeding stopped. My period was also bright red blood, there was no old blood for the whole duration of it either which is unlike me.

sweetkitty · 07/09/2007 10:29

thanks for the messages

Poor iliketosleep will go and post something for her in a bit as if it is of any use is it just me or is there far too many of us from the Due in March thread had mc's

pipsqueeke - keeping everything crossed for the tests today for you

WMMC - waves a big hello

Well I need your advice ladies I think I have started my period well I don't know that makes me sound about 15 doesn't it.

I had my big bleeds as I call them Sat/Sun/Mon 11th/12th/13th of August so thats less than 4 weeks ago. mc bleeding stopped about 2 weeks after that, this is fresh new red blood (sorry if TMI) but the end of the mc blood was old and brown.

So it must be AF then???? So I was ov-ing whilst still bleeding from the mc, the female body is a weird thing for sure.

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winemakesmummyclever · 07/09/2007 09:31

Oh no Lcy, poor iliketosleep, shall pop over and see how she's doing. There really are too many of us March ladies here already - so sad.

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winemakesmummyclever · 07/09/2007 09:29

Morning, hope everyone is ok today.

Justjules & Shagsalot - great new names .

Kensgirl - I know that this is an expecially difficult time for you . Hope you are ok.

SK - so sorry that you had a bad day yesterday, but great news about the promotion - hopefully that will help to ease the worry and stress for you guys.

Lissie - good luck with the house move. Get take out for the first night in the new house - far more civilised than trying to hunt down all your kitchen goods .

I have a budhha of children on the hall table - I shall give his belly a good rub for those of you hoping for bfp's this month.

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shagsalot · 07/09/2007 09:10

oh kitty i'm so pleasd for you. have my results at 9.40 today so will report back/catch up after.

Lcy · 07/09/2007 08:38

CONGRATULATIONS to you DH Sweetkitty - thats great news. I hope today is a better day

Can you remember iliketosleep from our March antenatal thread? She has just found out her baby has died (10+4) i feel so sorry for her - she is posting on the Miscarriage board

Morning to everyone else - looks like its gioong to be a sunny day here - yipee

sweetkitty · 07/09/2007 08:07

pmsl at shagsalot

hi justjules like the new name

hello lissie hope the dreaded 2ww goes by quickly

Had a terrible day yesterday couldn't stop blubbing.

But had some great news, DP got a promotion at work and it's such a big jump money wise that it means the world to us no more penny pinching for a bit. I've spent so many sleepless nights worrying about money and how to cut back on everything and how the hell we were going to afford Christmas and now we can. The boys done could especially as his interviews were right in the middle of my mc.

After blubbling all day I actually had tears of joy last night.

No I want to splash some money on some new baby clothes eventually.

Lovely Friday to you all xx

shagsalot · 06/09/2007 22:06

should be wannashagalot but it's too long

lissielou · 06/09/2007 22:04

love the new name!

shagsalot · 06/09/2007 22:02

hi all quick stop for me todayu have found you again,

will update properly tomorrow just wanted you to all know I also have a new name for various reason.

(pipsqueeke)

kensgirl · 06/09/2007 20:51

just saying "hi"!

Hope everyone is ok today, a lot of moving ang thoughtful posts. Catch up properly tomorrow xx

lissielou · 06/09/2007 17:08

lovely, we shall have a garden!

they did that to me too. my last appt i will be getting clomid and they moved it from the 30th july to 8th oct. they did want me to go in on the 1st but that is the edd of my ep so didnt want to do anything fertilty related iykwim

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lissielou · 06/09/2007 17:02

very definately frazzled. considering we arent actively ttc im still stressed about my 2ww, add to that the fact we move in less than a week and youve got a v loopy lady!

jules at your hosp. they really are crap! so when is your appt now?

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ronshar · 06/09/2007 16:42

Hey Lissie how are you. Still sane or slightly frazzled round the edges??

lissielou · 06/09/2007 16:41

like the namechange!

ronshar · 06/09/2007 16:41

Justjules is beautiful. I was wondering if that was your age?

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herbaceous · 06/09/2007 15:26

Just to add, the three before that weren't tested as at that stage no-one gave a toss.

Talking of sexes, the last one was a girl, and the one before that was a boy. It's odd, but I KNEW what sexes they were while I was pregnant. So in some ways it makes it worse to have it confirmed. Confirms the bond.

herbaceous · 06/09/2007 15:24

My last m/c baby was tested and had a trisomy (13), and the one before that had trisomy 18. In between the two, me and dp had our chromosones tested to make sure we didn't have any problems, translocations, etc, and we don't - the trisomies were entirely random, and probably due to me being old and clapped out.

Try not to worry - random bad luck is far more common than chromosone problems between the two of you...