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TTC after miscarriage - February 2020

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TerribleImagination · 16/01/2020 09:35

Hi to anyone reading 👋🏻

This is a thread for anyone TTC / testing in February, after a miscarriage.

I’ll start off with intros! I’m 37 and my first pregnancy ended in miscarriage at 5 1/2 weeks in December. I TTC straight afterwards, but AF found me, so here I still am on this crazy, frustrating, rollercoaster of a journey!

I joined the January thread after my miscarriage and it’s been amazing to go there and chat to other women who know how you feel.

So for anyone joining this, I’m so so sorry you find yourself here, but you’re in good company ❤️

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Anny27 · 19/02/2020 12:34

@Michette I can see it!

I am reluctant to give complete congratulations as I have had a convincing evap like that in the past. I reaaaaaaaaaly hope this is it for you! Retesttomorrow 🤞🤞🤞

ChampooPapi · 19/02/2020 12:26

@Michette I can see it! Oh my god I think you've done it 🙌 tentative congratulations and everything crossed it sticks. Do another test tomorrow and update us all ♥️✨🌈

Leok83 · 19/02/2020 11:51

@BS9790 that’s fantastic! Congratulations!!😁

@Michette I can see a faint line, hopefully you get some line progression!! 🤞

@MrsLBear welcome and also sorry ur here too. xx

BS9790 · 19/02/2020 10:22

Mine is really faint though at 11dpo and it was barely visible yesterday at 10dpo. The tests I use are the same sensitivity as frer.

You might not of implanted until 9 dpo or even 10!

Michette · 19/02/2020 10:00

@bs9790 ahhh you are giving me hope. The only thing is by 11dpo on a frer the line should be much better...
We will test on friday morning as tomorrow i have my driving test early 😅

BS9790 · 19/02/2020 09:42

@Anny27 it hasn't sunk in, I think I just darent believe it... And too scared to allow myself to feel excited.

I'm going to test each day until Sunday and then do a digital, this would be day after AF due. DH has bought be a digital from the pharmacy here... So I'll get it confirmed in Spanish 😂😂

BS9790 · 19/02/2020 09:39

@Michette I can see it, and id say that's what mine looked like yesterday!! Honestly I'd convinced myself it was evap/indent line
X

Michette · 19/02/2020 09:18

@BS9790 🥳🥳 congrats lovely!!!!!!
That’s definitely a positive no need for line eyes
Mine was like this at 15dpo btw last time so very good sign.

I tested this morning and the slighest faintest thing. I never had evap before but maybe that’s one. I tried to take a pic but can’t see so i took it out and took the pic. (Going crazy i know).
DP saw it too before we took it out but we are 50/50 on evap or faint. Also 11dpo is rather late to have such faint so we aren’t sure...

What do you think?
Can you even see it?

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Anny27 · 19/02/2020 09:16

@MrsLBear since June 2019 - conceived within 4 months in september and then had a MMC in november at 11 weeks. This is now my 2nd cycle trying after miscarriage and I am 2dpo!

Yeah it's crazy you never expect it to happen to you

MrsLBear · 19/02/2020 09:10

Thank you @Anny27 😘
So weird cos I never in a million years thought it would take this long or that this would be my journey.
I definitely find keeping busy helps.
How long have you been TTC?

Anny27 · 19/02/2020 09:08

Congratulations @bs9790 amazing!!!!!! Has it sunk in?

@Michette did you test?

@MrsLBear welcome lovely, sorry you are in the same boat x

MrsLBear · 19/02/2020 09:02

Congratulations @BS9790 😁😁😁😁😁

MrsLBear · 19/02/2020 09:02

Hi everyone 👋🏼
Hope I can join.
Been TTC since June 2018.
Fell pg December 2018 and has a mmc February 2019 and been trying ever since.
I'm 7 DPO and I came off mumsnet last summer as it was all driving me insane but really trying to stay positive.
And not to symptom spot cos I've now learnt that every single pg system I've also experience for af haha.

Refusing to test before af is due but don't know if I'll make it!!!
Sending baby dust to you all 💫💫💫💫💫

Ljm0101 · 19/02/2020 08:48

@BS9790 that's definitely a positive 😊😊 congratulations what amazing news xx

BS9790 · 19/02/2020 08:34

Tested again this morning, 11dpo. It's still extremely faint, but it is darker than yesterdays.
So terrified!

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Ljm0101 · 19/02/2020 08:07

@Kona84 that's great news 😊.

I just did a test and got a bfn so that's a bit of a knock back as I was beginning to convince myself. But also there's no sign of af so I suppose I could still have a little hope. I'm not very good at the waiting game 🙈. Xx

Kona84 · 19/02/2020 07:42

So I did another ovulation test this morning to see how faint the line would be.
But it’s the darkest one yet. This is definitely my peak. Unfortunately we didn’t DTD last night due to tiredness so happy we have another chance tonight

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Leok83 · 18/02/2020 22:04

@savethewales so sorry you are going through Mc too. It’s such a horrible time and just remember you haven’t let anyone down, unfortunately MC is way too common and completely out of our control, but nobodies fault. 💐xx

Leok83 · 18/02/2020 21:56

@Ljm0101 and @Michette best of luck to both of you testing tomorrow!!🤞there’ll be two more BFPs in the morning!!

Michette · 18/02/2020 21:47

@ChampooPapi so true about Tuesday... seriously. 😐
I am almost certain it’s a bfn coming but will do it tomo morning..

Thanks ladies @shhhhs @Annie0425
Hopefully by summer we all get a bfp!

and good luck to @Ljm0101 and @BS9790 x

Ljm0101 · 18/02/2020 21:37

Thank you so much @shhhhs I could really do with something going right at the moment. X

shhhhs · 18/02/2020 21:22

@Ljm0101 good luck 🤞🤞keeping everything crossed for you that you get that BFP when you test.

Ljm0101 · 18/02/2020 20:31

I've just caved and bought some Asda pt's for the morning. Xx

Kona84 · 18/02/2020 19:02

@Annie0425 yeah it was definitely my peak, tested just now and it’s fading.
Gonna do the deed tonight and hope for best.

@savethewales I miscarried on the 22nd (it started) I had a week of hope after the first scan at the EPU as it was just 1mm too small for them to say for sure it was a miscarriage. I had to go back one week later and the fetus was still there but was above my cervix and the sac had broken down.
It took another week my to pass the material and then my HCC levels pretty much went over night. I was 8 weeks at the time of the miscarriage. I counted the first day of bleeding as a period on my Ovia app. Cd1 I have now ovulated on day 29. I was dreading having to wait for another period before I would ovulate again so I am happy I’ve spotted it.

I wish you good luck that your miscarriage passes quickly

shhhhs · 18/02/2020 15:57

@savethewales, thank you! I miscarriaged at 8 weeks and had negative PG test about 2.5/3 weeks later and period restart within 28 days, so for me it was quite quick (although didn't feel it at the time). Hopefully things settle for you quickly too.

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