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TTC after miscarriage - February 2020

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TerribleImagination · 16/01/2020 09:35

Hi to anyone reading 👋🏻

This is a thread for anyone TTC / testing in February, after a miscarriage.

I’ll start off with intros! I’m 37 and my first pregnancy ended in miscarriage at 5 1/2 weeks in December. I TTC straight afterwards, but AF found me, so here I still am on this crazy, frustrating, rollercoaster of a journey!

I joined the January thread after my miscarriage and it’s been amazing to go there and chat to other women who know how you feel.

So for anyone joining this, I’m so so sorry you find yourself here, but you’re in good company ❤️

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Andzelika1995 · 27/04/2020 11:58

Hi everyone 🤗 sorry about your losses 😓😭

Mu name is Andzelika im 25 years old . I have lost my baby at 6 weeks i had a natural miscarriage , very upsetting and the worse experience ever as me and my partner really want a baby :(

I did pregnancy test on 27/02/202 thats when i found out im 2-3 weeks pregnant few days after i had a bit of spotting i went hospital they have told me i have miscarried with out doing any test etc i was devastated :( ... and the way they went on about it like they didn’t care very heartless was horrible experience. they referred me to early pregnancy unit i had to be there every week although since then i was very stressed every day .. when i was about 6 weeks they seen the heart beat but wasn’t very strong a week after had to go back to see if the heart beat is there unfortunately there was no heart beat 😭 was the worse news ever,i have spent 2 weeks in bed just crying and sleeping couldn’t get my self up. Im feeling a little bit better as in i get on with the day but theres no day i dnt think about it and cry for a bit. All this process of miscarriage finished about 2 weeks ago and i have already got my period yesterday which i think its a bit quick but hopefully a good sign.. had anyone experienced similar?

I really want a baby with my partner, doctors advised to wait 3 months so i have my 3 periods and then start trying... im really scared i dont know what i will do if it happens again although im trying to stay positive 😭...

Have any of you had similar story and got pregnant after and had a healthy pregnancy or know anyone who had ?

I think hearing from someone or knowing someone who experienced similar and then had a healthy pregnancy would give me more hope ..

I hope all of you are keeping well 🤗
Thanks guys, looking forward to some chats x

Aleema30 · 27/04/2020 00:01

Hello Everyone, I am really sorry for everyone loss . I am lying down ,reading comments just to satisfy myself. I have 5 years old daughter . I have miscarriage 3 years ago . Since then no luck . We did all the test ,even private . All comes normal . We had no problem with the first pregnancy.After two years of gap ,I fall pregnant but miscarriage after 7 weeks and since then just waiting for the luck .The time is real killer .I even buying ovulation test from the past one year but still no luck . I am still hopeful for miracle, Doctor suggested IVF ,I said if everything is normal then why IVF ? I am 50 kg and hubby is 77 kg. Our weight seem fine . I am still hopeful. I pray everyone who is struggling have a healthy baby ,amen .

savethewales · 20/03/2020 13:14

I think I've had my first bfp after my February miscarriage. I am 8 dpo, and due for my period in 6 days. They're very faint lines and trying to not get too excited.

TTC after miscarriage - February 2020
TTC after miscarriage - February 2020
Nuggetlover27 · 11/03/2020 22:21

Thanks @Annny27 it's so devastating 😢 what's the link to that thread? xx

LITTLEPICKLES88 · 11/03/2020 21:11

@moominmiss do I see an update???? 😱

Annny27 · 10/03/2020 13:27

Sorry @Nuggetlover27 :( it's hard when each new period comes! We are over on the march thread if you wanted to join xx

Nuggetlover27 · 09/03/2020 19:05

AF arrived for me today 😭
Don't understand what I'm doing wrong 😢

Annny27 · 09/03/2020 14:48

Thinking of you today @StephyRose!

@savethewales do you know ovulation date? Otherwise it will date from last AF e.g miscarriage

savethewales · 09/03/2020 11:06

Hi all, just a quick question. How do you work out your weeks following a miscarriage? Just my last AF would January if not counting the miscarriage bleed?

Moominmiss · 04/03/2020 10:49

@FireflyGirl thanks for the link. I’ve head over 😬

FireflyGirl · 04/03/2020 08:18

Here is the thread for BFPs. It's a bit quiet, but hopefully now more of us have a bfp it'll pick up a bit.

AlviesMam · 03/03/2020 18:31

@Moominmiss Congratulations!! I'll be due 28th October... still doesn't feel real to me so also still lurking! I feel very positive though. My gut is telling me it's going to be all ok 🙏🏼 I need to not let worry consume me xx

Moominmiss · 03/03/2020 18:29

@AlviesMam I’m not sure if there’s a new BFP thread. I got my bfp over the weekend but can’t bring myself to to believe it’s going to be ok, so I’m still lurking on this thread and the March thread.
I did head over the pregnancy forum and there’s a thread for November 2020 due dates (which is where I’d be) but I don’t feel I fit in yet 😕
When would you be due? As there’s also an October due dates thread

AlviesMam · 03/03/2020 18:06

@Moominmiss thank you!

Have we got another thread for BFP I feel awful asking advice on my news when some of you are TTC ? Don't want to be annoying but probably have more questions along the way as I'm so nervous xxx

Moominmiss · 03/03/2020 17:40

@AlviesMam I found this online. Going by your levels it could put you at 5 or 6 weeks which sounds about right!

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AlviesMam · 03/03/2020 14:38

Hey everyone hey again @SunnySideUp2020 🥰

Soooo had my blood work back and they have came back positive and high. She said my levels were at 1800... I really don't understand this hcg business can someone explain lol according to my last period I am 6 weeks today but I didn't get my BFP until 9 days late which makes me think I could be a week behind. Can I work it out based on my hcg results of 1800?

TIA! X

SunnySideUp2020 · 03/03/2020 13:14

Just checked updates here (it’s Michette i changed my name)

@BS9790 @Ibaadsmummy congrats ladies and i hope it’s smooth sailing from now X

@AlviesMam congrats on the strong positive( i missed it!) do you know how far along you are?

@StephyRose hope you are feeling ok x

Snowflake2020 · 03/03/2020 11:20

Hello all, I’ve miscarried twice, the first one was in end of 2018 and the second was 7 months ago :( so I got pregnant quite quickly but unfortunately lost them both around the same time which is about 8 and half weeks, feels awful, I’m so sorry for all your losses.
I’m 42 and TTC naturally I know I’m crazy to think I can do this naturally! But I’m so scared to take the IVF route :(, Too many meds, just changed doctors I’ve been asked to take 5mg of folic acid, I did take this dose before but had bad side effects, any one experience this ? My previous doctor said not to take 5mg after doing some blood test, he says excessive Folic acid causes autism in children, any thoughts on this ?

Anny27 · 02/03/2020 22:13

Let's hope March is our month 💗💗 @sweetpeaormarigold @whiffle77

SweetpeaOrMarigold · 02/03/2020 21:52

@Whiffle77 Flowers

Whiffle77 · 02/03/2020 18:37

I'm out too. First AF since MC. Super painful already, great! Sorry you are here too @Anny27 and @SweetpeaOrMarigold

SweetpeaOrMarigold · 02/03/2020 16:11

Its not fair @Anny27. We don't want much.

Anny27 · 02/03/2020 16:05

@SweetpeaorMarigold sorry :( my AF is on the way (started spotting today) after I had a faint positive so either a dodgy test or a chemical. Also gutted 😪

SweetpeaOrMarigold · 02/03/2020 15:55

I'm sorry @StephyRose Sad, agreed it doesn't sound good. Thinking of you xx

I'm out. AF arrived yesterday. Gutted.

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