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New thread for the crazy gang part 2!

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Ellsbells112 · 13/01/2020 17:34

Well since we are at the tail end!!

@Beau2020x @quiffy @Symptomspotter86 @BFP2020 @ange211

@Mumofboys17 no I think its from the pain, they aren't normally this bad and it's just making me nauseous 🤢 maybe it's from flying through different time zones ✈️🤷‍♀️

I know right it's so weird I'll even try to help it along but nothing works haha just can't finish! Xx

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Beau2020x · 16/01/2020 08:38

@BFP2020 @Symptomspotter86 good to hear from you both!! @BFP2020 and that sounds really positive for you - at least now you have some answers and you can work on a solution

Got my bloody peak this morning, dark as dark lines come and didn't manage to DTD last night I am fuming!! Last time was the evening of 13th. That's me out this month! I've hardly had any other symptoms either, like no EWCM and no cramping. Lets just pray ovulation won't happen until tomorrow so if I can DTD tonight I've got half a chance.

Mumofboys17 · 16/01/2020 08:37

@Symptomspotter86 I've still got 2 episodes left of season 2!! I'm so hooked haha

Thanks x I wouldn't be as bothered if AF had shown up by now. CD35 and still nothing yet. Literally feeling like torture at this point 😩 boobs are killing and got horrible heart burn. Still having crampy twinges so keep thinking 'right, this is it' and....nothing 🙁

Symptomspotter86 · 16/01/2020 08:34

@Ellsbells112 I watched series 2 in 72 hours haha. It was so good and addictive. Love a trashy programme like that.

@Mumofboys17 sorry to hear BFN. Bloody rubbish. But least we have you here with us a little longer...

I lost another 2.5 pounds this week which I'm happy about. Started opks this morning but assuming won't ovulate until next Tuesday at the earliest. I always feel better when fw is over a weekend and more time to DTD!

Me and OH are in the process of moving and buying our first house. It has been such a long stressful process as had to sell his flat first. It has a room perfect for a nursery...so I'm hoping we fill that soon!

Mumofboys17 · 15/01/2020 23:07

@BFP2020 That sounds so positive!! Good for you! I really hope this is the start of your happy ending ❤️

I'm still up binging 'You'. Not like I have work tomorrow and have to be up at 5am but whatever 🙃😂

BFP2020 · 15/01/2020 22:47

Update : Hey everyone I'll have to try catch up on the chat tomorrow didn't have a minute today. Very busy in work took a half day because I had my gynaecologist app. He has advised I have secondary infertility. He has also advised I need to get a laparoscopy and a dye test through my Fallopian tubes to see is there anything effecting the sperm meeting the egg! I have health insurance so I have to ring tomorrow and see will they cover it if so I could be getting it done as early as this month 🤞🏼 it will be something easy and that they can fix and I can get pregnant soon xx

Beau2020x · 15/01/2020 21:13

@Ellsbells112 oh honestly he's not getting away with it tonight! He's just a cranky fucker when he's asleep and won't let me touch him 😂😂😂

Yeahhh that's mine! He's from Brazil.

OMG YOU JAIAIDBFKEORBWWW IT GETS SOOO GOOD!

Mumofboys17 · 15/01/2020 21:09

@Ellsbells112 shhhhhh no spoilers!! I'm only on episode 7 of season 2!!
In regards to ovulation honestly I never have a clue when the exact day is, every app I have predicts a different day so I try and go by OPK's but if I'm not strict with them I can miss it completely 🙁 this is why it's so hard for me to get pregnant 😂😂

@Quiffy wishful thinking I reckon but thanks chick 😊 hopefully AF will show up tomorrow, sicky feeling gone but boobs are killing 😩

Ellsbells112 · 15/01/2020 20:47

We have a two bedroom flat but my son has the second room, we are currently looking at buying a three bedroom house. Hopefully by the end of the year 👌

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Ellsbells112 · 15/01/2020 20:46

@Beau2020x no no no!! Listen here misy you best give him the best head ever that'll wake him up! Where in South America is he from BTW? Im sure it was you who said their partner is from there??

Girls I just finished episode 9 of you season 2 and OH MY GOD I CAN'T BELIEVE WHAT IS HAPPENING! I KNEW THIS BITCH WAS CRAZY HAHA

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Quiffy · 15/01/2020 20:40

@Beau2020x aww that sounds perfect 😻😻 bar him being asleep.

Beau2020x · 15/01/2020 20:36

OH asleep again girls and he just went mad when I tried to wake him. That's me out this month!!! 🤬

Beau2020x · 15/01/2020 20:34

@Quiffy yeah we have 3 bedrooms - 2 larger (one our bedroom the other a dressing room) and a little 3rd room that would be the nursery. We only bought our house 18 months ago. The little room has been stripped and bare walls for about 6 months and we've done nothing with it 😂 to be honest we've been quite selfish using the second big room as a dressing room. We rarely have guests!

@Ellsbells112 @mumofboys17 a girl can dream ey! I just can't wait to share the whole thing with my OH.

Quiffy · 15/01/2020 20:27

@Beau2020x yes to daydreaming, it’s my current obsession 😹😹 I was actually looking at houses on rightmove today looking at ones where there could be a nursery. Despite the fact im not pregnant and we can’t afford to move into a bigger house atm 🤪

Do any of you not have a spare room for a nursery? We have two bedrooms but our spare room is set up with a day bed that turns into a double, desk for work and a large storage cube thing. We really need the bed as both sets of parents live 4-5 hours and come to stay and have no storage anywhere else.. I’m pretty sure we have enough room in our bedroom for a cot, but is this rubbish? Not that they’d even remember they didn’t have the perfect nursery!

@Mumofboys17 @Ange211 ahhh no! Could it be too early for bfp or is that hopeful wishing? :(

My DH has just informed me how tired he is. Tough luck sunshine we are dtd.

Ellsbells112 · 15/01/2020 18:49

@Mumofboys17 also sorry you feel like shit that's always crap!! ❤️

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Ellsbells112 · 15/01/2020 18:48

@Beau2020x awww I do exactly the same thing!!! I imagine being pregnant and showing my hubby when they kick 😍😍😍 that's mainly what I daydream about just showing him what it's like to have your own little baby lol hell be amazed. He's been around since my boy was 2 and hasn't really been around babies!! Ohhhh I can't wait!! Haha xx whoop whoop to him napping!! Hell be ready and charged up!

@mumofboys17 Aww!! Do you then ovulate at different times a month then?? Is it ovulation that causes the difference in cycle length? Xx

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Mumofboys17 · 15/01/2020 17:57

@Beau2020x you're not crazy, I used to do the same!! I think it's nice 😊 I mean as long as you're not going as far as to buy all the furniture and put it together 😬😂😂 maybe hold off on that for a bit!

Feel so sick and shitty tonight 😩 my nips feel so sore.. if I hadn't had my bfn yesterday I'd have assumed it was relevant haha, really hope AF shows tomorrow now!!

Beau2020x · 15/01/2020 17:45

YES GIRLS! Got home and OH is in bed having a nap so he'll be well rested for tonight's antics 😈

Beau2020x · 15/01/2020 15:48

@Mumofboys17 @Ange211 I'm hoping AF never ever arrives for you and it was just too early to test!

Anyone else daydream about being pregnant having a baby ALL THE TIME???? I have to sop myself looking at prams and nursery furniture. Last night I went in to our little bedroom (which we stripped ready to decorate) visualising where the cot would go etc and I sit here thinking about what it must feel like to be pregnant, how and when we'd tell people. It's crazy! I AM CRAZY!

Ange211 · 15/01/2020 15:40

Oops I've been posting on the other thread!
My body is playing mind games with me....cramp all but stopped some veeeeery slight pinkish spotting started yesterday.
Was starting to hope but alas bfn this morning :-(
@BFP2020
TTC #3
DS1 @ 11 DS2 @3
Been TTC since ds2 was born but lost track of how many cycles that is :-0

Mumofboys17 · 15/01/2020 15:30

@Ellsbells112 according to Ovia it's due tomorrow, we shall see! CD35 today 🙄 if I had a normal 28 day cycle I'd be well into the next fertile window by now!! Just so frustrating xx

Ellsbells112 · 15/01/2020 14:58

@Mumofboys17 Ahhh!! Sorry to hear this ❤️ that is so annoying, hopefully it comes tomorrow?? Did you say Thursday it could come? I hope it does just so you're out of limbo!! Xx

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Mumofboys17 · 15/01/2020 14:23

@Katie1109 deffo give yourself a night off if you can!! 3 days in a row over ovulation should cover it nicely! Are you also using preseed? Xx

Mumofboys17 · 15/01/2020 14:21

Afternoon all, just catching up with all the messages!

@Beau2020x @Ellsbells112 sorry to have read all that's happened to you. I agree it's strange when you get older it's like your brain goes 'oh I'm ready to feel fucked up about this now!!' 😬 I've always had a strained relationship with my mum. I didn't have her at DS' birth and she's never forgiven me!

Well AF has STILL not shown up 😩 getting really fed up about it now. Feel like my body's telling me this isn't gonna happen reckon I'm destined to just have the one child. Similar to you in a way @Ellsbells112 DH is desperate for a big family, unfortunately my reproductive system seems dead against it 😂😂

Katie1109 · 15/01/2020 13:07

Thanks girls x I might do just that unless be both fancy it x I haven't got that raging horny feeling just yet so maybe having a night off is not a bad idea x :)

Beau2020x · 15/01/2020 11:37

@Katie1109 yeah I'd have tonight off and then go for it Thurs, Fri and Saturday. I think you'd be more than covered that way!