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New thread for the crazy gang part 2!

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Ellsbells112 · 13/01/2020 17:34

Well since we are at the tail end!!

@Beau2020x @quiffy @Symptomspotter86 @BFP2020 @ange211

@Mumofboys17 no I think its from the pain, they aren't normally this bad and it's just making me nauseous 🤢 maybe it's from flying through different time zones ✈️🤷‍♀️

I know right it's so weird I'll even try to help it along but nothing works haha just can't finish! Xx

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Quiffy · 27/01/2020 14:31

@Beau2020x it’s very hard not to test early, the whole TTC process is too much. Try to take care of yourself today ❤️

Symptomspotter86 · 27/01/2020 13:49

@beau2020x I am so sorry. It sucks it really does. Don't beat yourself up about testing early, we've all done it and it so hard. Especially when you have the symptoms. Can you both just have a nice night tonight eating some nice food and maybe even a glass of wine? Xx

Beau2020x · 27/01/2020 13:33

Thanks girliesss, it's fucking horrid! TTC becomes obsessive, I mean constantly prodding your boobs to check that they sill hurt?! Never mind, I always said I wouldn't test early but it's soooo so hard not to!! Ah well, it happens, I'd weirdly almost convinced myself I was going to have a chemical. Just want AF to hurry up now, poor OH probably going to be in AF time on his 30th ooops.

How is everyone else feeling?

Ellsbells112 · 27/01/2020 13:29

@Beau2020x 🤗😟 I'm so sorry!!! Oh gosh these tests are murder I swear!! Argh babes ❤️ please look after yourself xx

@Quiffy Ahhh that's really annoying!! Argh I hope you talk him out of the Thursday thing hes going to! At least then there would be a chance if you dtd on Thursday morning xx

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Mumofboys17 · 27/01/2020 13:28

@Beau2020x oh darling 🙁 I mean it's still very early days. You're never completely out until AF shows up, try and stay positive until then. I know it's hard xxx

Katie1109 · 27/01/2020 13:05

@Beau2020x so sorry hun x I know it’s heartbreaking x lots of hugs to you x and don’t give up hope just yet x 11DPO is still early xx

Quiffy · 27/01/2020 12:47

@Beau2020x I’m so sorry :( is there any hope of trying with fmu tomorrow?

@Symptomspotter86 @Ellsbells112 he’d be leaving Friday morning unfortunately as they live far away. Worse still he’s meant to be staying away for a work thing the Thursday 13th so might not see him from Thursday morn to Sunday afternoon. And if he says we’re doing something they’ll just have it without DH and he’ll be the bad person who hasn’t met the baby yet and I’ll get the blame. I’ll ask him again tonight as valentines I can be sad about but ov is VERY important .

@symptomspotter86 hope you feel better soon ❤️❤️

Beau2020x · 27/01/2020 12:32

Girl, blazing BFN for me today 😥 I knew it was too good to be true. Boobs have been hurting less and less as the morning went on. Just did a FRER (granted it was a very 'clear' wee) but considering I had a faint positive at 9DPO I'd expect something darker today at 11DPO. Not even a squinter. It's heartbreaking.

Now just to wait for AF to start so I can move on to the next cycle

Ellsbells112 · 27/01/2020 12:17

@Symptomspotter86 thank you! Ahh sorry to hear you are poorly that's really crap I hope you feel better soon! Yeah, my cervix is still high so I'll BD tonight then call it a day 😂

@Beau2020x I know! I'm really excited for you and everything is crossed that it sticks xx

@Quiffy awww I totally get your frustration that would be super annoying! Is there any way he can change it?? If you ovulate on the 14th perhaps it'll be okay because that's a Friday right? So if you BD up to the Friday and Friday evening even you should be covered? Also I know this sounds mean lol but you guys should say you have something nice planned for valentines day so it'll have to be the next weekend?? Lol xx

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Symptomspotter86 · 27/01/2020 11:35

Morning ladies. I'm in bed ill this morning with a crappy cold and chest cough. Least it means it distracts me from symptom spotting as I felt sick this morning but can put it down to illness. I'm only 5DPO as well so who am I kidding.

@Quiffy oh bless you that sucks!! I'd be annoyed as well. Especially as it is estimated ov days.

@Ellsbells112 we only DTD day of the static smiley not the day after but I read that the day before is absolutely fine and has you covered so I reckon yesterday and today and tomorrow would be fine. It is 24-36 -hours after a static that you ovulate and then the egg is only there for max 12 hours so you basically have 48 hours to get BDing.

Quiffy · 27/01/2020 10:18

@Sunflower2019 glad you're doing okay. Very excited for you and cant wait to see the pics

Katie1109 · 27/01/2020 10:05

@Beau2020x thanks hun x I don't rally know what to think about mine. Its white, quite thick but at times a bit stretchy, snotty might be the right term lol x
Just seen my resting heart rate drop by 7bpm...implantation dip? I have just read that's what happens. I literally looked at it while typing this up, it was the same as yesterday until 30 mins ago! x also starting to feel a bit of a pressure like sensation down there, similar to af x

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Beau2020x · 27/01/2020 09:56

@katie1109 Absolutely do not worry about asking that, nothing is personal on here hehe! It's been very mixed to be honest! It's pretty dry at the moment but it has been lotion like and also 'snotty' at times. The last week hasn't really been consistent but the last 2-3 days pretty dry and snotty (ew). I heard a rise in heartbeat is a sign eeeeekkk!! I've not been wearing my fitbit but I'm sure mine would be something stupid like 1111000 beats a sec I am that stressed.

@Ellsbells112 I am honestly praying for this BFP, you all know what I mean when I say it would mean the world!! Plus OHs 30th friday and estimated due date my birthday, it just HAS to be doesn't it?

Katie1109 · 27/01/2020 09:28

@Beau2020x if you don’t mind me asking, what’s your cm like at the moment? 🤣😂 Gosh this is a very personal question 😂 mine seems to be quite thick but a bit stretchy at the same time x

Ellsbells112 · 27/01/2020 09:13

@Beau2020x but it may be that you drank too much before the second one?? Argh I'm really hoping everything is okay for you x

@Sunflower2019 hey girl awww that's so lovely ❤️❤️ I'm good thank you, only just about hitting the 2ww xxx

@katie1109 thank you haha I know I was so excited xx

Sooo my temperature are all over the place and from researching Google it seems that's what happens on letrozole. I was getting ovulation pain from the right yesterday and now I'm getting ovulation from the left. So I'm going to BD tonight again since I got the static yesterday evening.

Question, once you all get a static smiley how much bding do you do? We've done it every day since Friday and got static yesterday night? Would you dtd till Wednesday or do it this evening then have a night off then do it again etc?? Thanks girls xx

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Katie1109 · 27/01/2020 09:11

I have just looked at my resting heart rate. It has gone up by 4 beats per minute on Saturday and stayed that way till now x I wonder whether it actually has got anything to do with cycles x

Beau2020x · 27/01/2020 09:08

@Sunflower2019 eeeekk glad everything is going okay for you lovely!! Can't WAIT to see a scan photo

Beau2020x · 27/01/2020 09:07

@Ellsbells112 I was probably more excited about a static smiley than I was this (possible) BFP!!

Orders 2 more FRERs arriving tomorrow. Checked both tests again this morning, the one I did yesterday is definitely fainter than the 1st one :(

Mumofboys17 · 27/01/2020 08:25

Aww hi @Sunflower2019 ! Good to hear all is well 😊
I agree with @Katie1109 OMG you'd have to show us scan pics! The first little bump of the crazy gang 😍
I'm no where near testing yet haha only CD8 for me but sticking around for now! X

Ange211 · 27/01/2020 07:17

@Ellsbells112 I know exactly what you mean & I was super excited when I got a smiley last month, felt like a bfp 😂
I'm not bothering with opks this month can't handle the emotional rollercoaster
@Beau2020x still looks good to me 🤞

Katie1109 · 27/01/2020 06:59

Goooood morning ladies? How are we all? x
@Sunflower2019 hi there!! Glad to hear you’re all good x cannot wait for your first appointment so you can show us some photos :) x
@Ellsbells112 hoooray for static x fingers crossed for you x
I’m 8DPO today. Boobs ridiculously sore, but I actually slept well apart from when I tried to turn on my front 😭 head feels a bit woolly this morning and slight twinges on left hand side, very similar to O pains x other than that I feel ok x and of course convinced myself that it would be too good to be true x so trying to stick with that x

Sunflower2019 · 26/01/2020 23:02

Hey everyone, just checking in to see how you all are? I’m currently 6w2d :) midwife appointment not till the 10th feb I’ll be 9 weeks then, seems late! Already got a little bump and a little tired and sicky feeling at times but bar that well :)
I saw @Beau2020x had a line?? Keeping everything crossed 🤞
How is everyone else? Is it getting to testing time? Xxxx

Symptomspotter86 · 26/01/2020 22:36

@Langpants just looked at my app and af is actually due 4th feb too! I ovulated on CD16 though so looks like we are exactly the same. I'm also prone to craziness in this 2ww. I'm hoping this week will go really fast. We can help each other hold out as long as poss.

Langpants · 26/01/2020 22:34

@Fredthespider - hello! I might hold out to test on the Saturday... hopefully you, me and @Symptomspotter86 will get our bfps around the same time. 🤞🏼x

Langpants · 26/01/2020 22:31

@Symptomspotter86 - mine is due the 4th of Feb! 😝 Not sure if I can wait that long to test. My first pregnancy I got a faint line at 9dpo and a definite line at 10dpo.

I have ZERO patience. 😂🙈 I'm definitely one of the crazy ones during the 2WW. 😂🙈

Looking forward to going through the wait with you. I'll tryyyyy to hold out as long as possible. x

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