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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Ellsbells112 · 13/01/2020 17:34

Well since we are at the tail end!!

@Beau2020x @quiffy @Symptomspotter86 @BFP2020 @ange211

@Mumofboys17 no I think its from the pain, they aren't normally this bad and it's just making me nauseous 🤢 maybe it's from flying through different time zones ✈️🤷‍♀️

I know right it's so weird I'll even try to help it along but nothing works haha just can't finish! Xx

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Mrslane2019 · 31/01/2020 15:12

@ellsbell112 thank you i’m willing to give anything ago
do you get your other half to try anything ?

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Ellsbells112 · 31/01/2020 15:01

@Mrslane2019 take the evening primrose oil from the start of your period, first day. I think it's the same for agnus castus but you stop both the day of suspected ovulation. I've actually got agnus castus myself but I don't want it to mess up my cycles lol

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Ellsbells112 · 31/01/2020 14:57

Yup I normally know I'm definitely out like 3 days before af because I PMS like a bitch. The world is against me and God normally I can take it but couple that with wanting a baby and everyone around me is collateral damage lol ffs
I dunno trying for a baby isn't enjoyable, maybe for some people but not me lol (and not for you guys) I can't help but think of the abortion I had every single day @Beau2020x like you I am the same. Its so hard to force it out of my head when the thought comes it's strong. I've fucked myself I can't get pregnant anymore because of what I did. Mehhhh it's really shit 🙄 but I guess here we are. We are gonna cry every single month and feel like shit every single month that af comes or its a bfn. That feeling isn't going to stop unfortunately. The hours of searching Google during the 2ww desperate for a sign that you're pregnant 😣 it's depressing.
But we have each other!!! Thank FUCK for you lot because I swear I would have gone insane already if I couldn't message you my ramblings!! Hahaha ❤️❤️❤️ love you guys

When we get our bfps, because we WILL GET OUR BFPS!!! They are going to be SO special, compared to people who fall the first month (I mean I fell in 2 with my son same thing) and they don't appreciate it. I certainly did not appreciate it how I would now!!

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Mrslane2019 · 31/01/2020 14:55

so i went got some @Quiffy i know you said you take up to ovulation but when do u start using again ?
is primrose oil the same as well ?
sorry for all question

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Katie1109 · 31/01/2020 14:04

Thank you x
Usually 1-2 days before af I am popping painkillers like candy because cramps are quite strong. Today I feel nothing but on and off slight pulling on left side, similar to ovulation pain and no usual pre-af backache. I just wish I could speed up the time until tomorrow to see if af arrives.

Symptomspotter86 · 31/01/2020 13:47

@Katie1109 you are not! It is normal. It is such a stressful time and so hard when it is out of our control and we have no idea what our bodies are doing. Also your hormones are probably all over the place if it is before AF or a BfP so it will play with your mind too. Sending you hugs.

My weird cramps have gone today. No other signs though and no sore boobs so I am sure I am out this month. 9DPO so will test Sunday or Monday (who am I kidding it will probably be tomorrow lol)

Beau2020x · 31/01/2020 11:44

@Katie1109 you are NOT a looser!!! I'm so sorry you are feeling like this! You and me, we got this next cycle 💪🏼💪🏼

I'm off to Manchester to celebrate OHs 30th tonight. I suppose I can get absolutely legless now that I have a BFN 😂 looking on the bright side and all that! Hope you all have a good weekend 💕

Katie1109 · 31/01/2020 11:04

Don’t know what I would do without you my ladies x I just feel like such a looser. I’m sitting here staring at tweaked photos of my IC this morning, keep re-tweaking them and thinking I’m seeing things. I have also convinced myself I’m feeling nauseated. I’m pathetic 😭

New thread for the crazy gang part 2!
New thread for the crazy gang part 2!
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Ellsbells112 · 31/01/2020 10:53

@Mumofboys17 😂😂😂 cool I'll try see him one day. In the mean time I have a jungle weekend in Amsterdam coming up 😂 so yasssss time to feel young again xx

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Ellsbells112 · 31/01/2020 10:51

@katie1109 ahh I hope you enjoy your weekend. Its really shit tbh every day I think I'm out and I'm getting so down about it too, can't help but think there's an issue with me. You do it at the right time every month and nothing. Its mind boggling tbh

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Mumofboys17 · 31/01/2020 10:49

@Ellsbells112 he was amazing!!! Deffo recommend. Pleased I've seen him now as I'm not sure I could go through the stress of trying to get Ed tickets again! Saying that MCR was just as busy as well! I was shaking from the adrenaline (can you tell I don't get out much these days..... 🙃😂😂😂)

@Katie1109 that sounds like a good idea. I know it's easier said than done but try and stay positive. It WILL happen for you eventually xxx

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Ellsbells112 · 31/01/2020 10:47

@Mumofboys17 ohhh fingers crossed!! Love Ed Sheeran too, how is he live? I never go to concerts! My sister just went to see Elton John she said it was amazing I think this is his last ever tour though. She saw him in Oz.
I'd love to see Tina Turner!! Lol xx

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Katie1109 · 31/01/2020 09:41

Thank you girls x I decided not to test anymore...or at least I'll do my best not to!
Family visiting over the weekend so I'll do my best to enjoy it. If af arrives so be it, I'll have another reason to get drunk. If it does not, then it might be my last drinking session!
I'm trying to stay positive, but I think I'm just lying to myself to stop myself breaking down completely.

Mumofboys17 · 31/01/2020 09:08

@Ellsbells112 I like your taste!! 😉😍 I did see them about 14 years ago (god that makes me feel old!) so there was no way I was going to miss them coming back!
I was actually about 20 weeks pregnant with DS when I went to see Ed Sheeran haha, maybe it's a good omen of things to come 😬🤞🏻 xx

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Ellsbells112 · 31/01/2020 09:05

@Mumofboys17 😂😂😂 Ahhh I used to love a bit of my chemical romance!! That will be wicked 😁

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Mumofboys17 · 31/01/2020 08:59

Lanky?! Definitely meant hanky panky 😂😂

Mumofboys17 · 31/01/2020 08:58

@Katie1109 I'm really not sure, I couldn't say for certain but I agree with @Ange211 I think I can see something.... 🤞🏻 xx

@Ellsbells112 I sometimes get one itchy nip 🤷🏼‍♀️😂 probs not relevant though haha!

I felt a bit shit myself lately, so went and splurged on some tickets to see My Chemical Romance yesterday in June, the 14 year old emo teenager in me is ecstatic 😂😂 decided I need some things to look forward to this year else I'll lose my mind!!

FW starts next week 😬 already pre warned DH absolutely no hanky lanky now until the OPK says so 😉😂😂

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Ellsbells112 · 31/01/2020 08:39

@katie1109 if your af is due today I say use a first response it will tell truth whereas the ineternet cheapies aren't strong at a x

Question, anyone ever just have one sore nipple? Why does that happen? Obviously it's to do with ovulation as I'm only 5dpo but why does only one hurt? Lol weird

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Katie1109 · 31/01/2020 08:24

Thanks girls x I will try not to test anymore unless af does not arrive by Sunday evening.
Last 2 cycles were both 27 days and af arrived on CD28 and now my average cycle is 27 days not 28 x
I'm CD28 today, normally day before af I've got terrible cramps. My af always arrives on time, the only time it was late was when I did get pregnant and had a MC. Ovia is screaming at me to test, because my af didn't arrive today yet as Ovia predicted it. Other apps say tomorrow x I don't feel like af is on the way, but that's probably because I don't want to x

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Ellsbells112 · 31/01/2020 08:16

@katie1109 I'm sorry I don't see anything 🤗 you should do a first response so you know for sure x

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Ange211 · 31/01/2020 07:08

@Mrslane2019 sorry AF has arrived. It's absolutely gutting but loving your pma X
@BntTowers so sorry for your loss. I do think it's cathartic to let it out and have a good cry though ♥️
@Katie1109 I think I see a sliver of something on the inverted one 🤞
As for me my hopes are fading fast. Couldn't be arsed DTD last night & DH working tonight.. fw closing rapidly. Acht well should make tww easier ;)

Katie1109 · 31/01/2020 06:55

IC from this morning. Is there something there or I’m wishful thinking? 11/12 DPO today, af due Saturday according to my apps x

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New thread for the crazy gang part 2!
BntTowers · 30/01/2020 21:02

@Quiffy it's so good to see your lines getting darker! Congratulations!

@Katie1109 I feel you, I'm the same. I can't stand not having control and the fact this is all taking so long is driving me insane as well. I had a full on melt down at the weekend because of it and longstanding grieve for a bereavement. It all got too much.
I'm sorry you are also feeling it. You are allowed to be angry, annoyed and upset. It's normal to feel like that, just try to get into a more positive mindset once you are onto the next cycle. We will all get there and I know at this point someone random on the internet doesn't feel like anything, but it will happen.

Katie1109 · 30/01/2020 19:49

I honestly do not understand why my body has to be that way. I’m sitting here now with a hot water bottle because I’ve got sharp stabbing pains down low, feels almost like it’s inside my lady bits...I’m bored with this crap now!

Mrslane2019 · 30/01/2020 19:17

@Beau2020x thank you for your kind words we here for each other i love the support 😘
@Katie1109 i hear you to 🍸here to weekend aiy 🍸

i’m going to get some angus canthus , primrose and try concentrate on slimmingworld try lose a like bit of weight this is my goal 💪not going to stress a hopefully so baby dust with sprinkle

we can do this girls