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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Kates21 · 13/01/2020 10:57

So, the subject says it all! Although I feel I may have more a chance this month.
I came off the pill December - last month we was out. But this month, I apparently ovulated yesterday 12/01/20. We did the deed twice 2 days before ovulation... so today Iam 1dpo.

Anyone in the same that wants to join?
I really want to try not symptom spot, but yesterday I felt the cramps - which led me to think it was ovulation.
Confused

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TangBloodyFastic · 14/02/2020 12:50

@LV1987 Whhhhhyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy would you do that to me, I feel you have dangled a carrot...a carrot which I knew about and I'm trying to ignore

(Their website says I can test from yesterday) 😂😂😂😂😂

polejunkie · 14/02/2020 12:33

@lv1987

I definitely did not just go on their website and check what day I can test ahaha!! I can text now... Eeeek have some arriving later from Amazon - Is that a sign lol. I really want to wait til AF on Monday though, shall we place bets on whether I can Blush

Good luck to everyone! x

LV1987 · 14/02/2020 12:24

Happy Valentines!

After reading the last few posts, I googled how early I can use my frer...they actually have a calculator on their website, if that's not persuasion, I don't know what is 😂 It told me that I can test from Monday, but I am going to wait until next Sat, unless the witch beats me to it 🤞

polejunkie · 14/02/2020 10:50

I started off saying I wouldn't this time round - Low and behold, did it this morning ahahaha!

We are all here for you!!

TangBloodyFastic · 14/02/2020 10:43

Don't judge me if I pop up on here before Tues telling you I've POAS 😂

polejunkie · 14/02/2020 10:30

I know what you mean and if that's what you feel will happen definitely hold off. I weirdly feel better for knowing today, it kind of pacifies me I guess even though it was neg, odd x

TangBloodyFastic · 14/02/2020 10:23

@polejunkie roll on Tuesday for us both then eh!
I've got tonnes to do this weekend luckily so won't be sat thinking about all this.
I'm so tempted to test but keep telling myself it's too early and a BFN will only make me want to test more and that isn't a cycle I want to get into it I can help it.

polejunkie · 14/02/2020 10:09

We are on a very similar timeline then! My AF is as regular as clockwork and then bam, 3 days early last cycle, which I must say really confused me... It is hard, but here I am again, abdominal pain for most of the week, way earlier than I would ever experience AF cramps, but what do I really know - Maybe I'm looking out for this stuff just because I want to be pregnant - We're all the same, don't worry!

With my daughter, I literally knew I was pregnant within days, before AF - Part of me is now even more confused by 'feeling pregnant' now because I feel exactly the same as I did then... But I'm probably not - go figure! Confused

TangBloodyFastic · 14/02/2020 10:02

*must

TangBloodyFastic · 14/02/2020 10:01

@polejunkie I have 3different apps Blush and all are saying Tuesday
I was loosely using 1of the apps last year purely to track my periods it was pretty much to the date most months

What's bugging me is I'm thinking "this is it, this is completely abnormal for me so much mean I am pregnant" and in reality it's probably just one of those things ☹️

polejunkie · 14/02/2020 09:49

I'm 11dpo too - When is AF officially due for you? I don't believe Folic Acid does anything to cycles, but I'm not well versed... x

polejunkie · 14/02/2020 09:46

@TangBloodyFastic - Thanks!

It does sound rather odd, and it certainly will be a test of wills - Just remember you aren't harming anyone by testing, sometimes I think we mentally need it (positive or negative) it's kind of helped me focus on other things again this morning...

I must say I take my hat of to those trying to have a baby who never POAS - I genuinely do not have that level of patience haha - Obviously got money to burn Grin

TangBloodyFastic · 14/02/2020 09:40

@polejunkie sorry to hear you got a BFN but, as is always said on here, you're not out until AF arrives.
Great news about your dad, hopefully this means a lovely, stress free, weekend for you!

I have absolutely no idea what is going on with me. Absolutely nothing today. It's so weird, this has never happened before!
The only thing that has changed is I'm now taking folic acid, does this have any bearing on cycle abnormalities?

I haven't tested yet as I only have a CB and a cheapy from somewhere that I don't think will pick up anything at the moment as I'm not officially late - I'm supposedly 11DPO but not sure what date I actually ovulated so could be either side of that i guess.

I don't want to become obsessed with POAS so will wait until the end of next week, if AF a no show by then, I'll take a test. I'm sure it's going to be a battle with myself not to test before then though

polejunkie · 14/02/2020 08:25

@TangBloodyFastic you are having a rough time - Have you tested??

@Kates21 I have had nausea too, do you usually get that?

I have officially tested this morning and in was negative, but I'm alright with that, certainly don't feel miserable like I did last month! I'm in the realms of AF now, so any symptoms I have can very easily be linked to that - Will await her arrival on Monday!

My dad is out of hospital too after a 5 day stay, so fingers crossed for a restful weekend!

Oh and happy Valentines day to you all xxx

Kates21 · 13/02/2020 19:12

Had a nice side of nausea tonight genuinely thought I was going to puke! Horrible

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TangBloodyFastic · 13/02/2020 16:18

Everything completely stopped again 🤯

LV1987 · 13/02/2020 12:59

That is super early @Brownbaby20... I know that you want to know right now, but I agree with the other ladies. You're best of waiting a couple more days to get a reliable result :)

polejunkie · 13/02/2020 11:52

@Brownbaby20

It's a good sign if you got a positive that early, but yes, best thing you can do is wait and test again (the waiting is very hard I know) I think pulling apart the tests is probably best avoided as it's not how they are supposed to be used and lots of people get evap lines etc so in some cases they can be missleading. Fingers crossed for you, but maybe use the same cheap test tomorrow with FMU? It might be that it's a better test, as in it picks up with les HGC?

I have read that a lot of clear blues continue giving negatives after others pick up on pregnancy, so maybe they just aren't very accurate x

TangBloodyFastic · 13/02/2020 11:44

@LV1987 I don't have an M&S near me 😭😭😭😭😭😭

@Brownbaby20 sorry there's no way of knowing. You need to wait a few days and test again. The 2nd line should get darker if you are pregnant

Brownbaby20 · 13/02/2020 11:40

Ladies I am completely new but need help!!

So I shall explain the best I can!!!

I am 8dpo and completely addicted to peeing on a stick so I took a test this morning and there was a very very faded line so I then went and bought a early detection clear blue digital test I then watched a YouTube video of a lady that’s got two faded double lines on a cheap test and not pregnant on a digital test which was the same as what I got but the lady in the video ripped apart the digital test to expose theStrip inside and she had two lines now call me crazy but I done the same thing and by complete and utter surprise I can see two lines am I pregnant help me I am going out of my mind

LV1987 · 13/02/2020 11:28

Not just any salted caramel cookies... Marks & Spencers salted caramel cookies 😂🍪

My sweet tooth is terrible at the moment!

Kates21 · 13/02/2020 11:21

@polejunkie

Oooooh really I’ll have a look!
We was planning peppa pig world but the weather isn’t going to be great, so I thought cinema & Pizza Hut! X

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polejunkie · 13/02/2020 11:19

@Kates21 - My kiddo loves the cinema!! Good shout, we always get her the little kids snack box, she bloody loves it Grin

Kates21 · 13/02/2020 11:14

Oh my gaaaaad salted caramel is my absolute favourite! I’m gonna have to get my bake on this weekend! Just planning a day out Saturday and actually might take my newly 3 year old to the cinema for the first time 😬

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polejunkie · 13/02/2020 11:14

@TangBloodyFastic - I just wouldn't be convinced it's full on AF based on that, still hit the cookie aisle though haha

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