Hoping for a new year miracle!

Oh no @Jonesbabynumber1 keeping my fingers crossed ❤️ I've decided if I don't get pregnant next cycle I'm going to go to the doctor's cos I feel like I should defo be by now! Xx

@Jonesbabynumber1 sorry about the BFN, but fingers crossed for a BFP!!

I am CD4 now, and going to see the consultant tomorrow, so will see what happens!

x

I am on d16 so likely to be 4dpo knowing my cycle. Almost impossible that its pregnancy symptoms.

Hopefully you'll get pregnant soon and won't have any adverse effects 🤞🤞🤞

@TigerJoy I think some people can get more flare ups in pregnancy from what I've read but then everyone is different I guess, I def don't wanna wait that long I know that much, I am looking into diet changes and hopefully it helps. Hopefully the puffy feeling is a good sign how many DPO are you?

@Jonesbabynumber1 sorry for the bfn there's still time yet 🤞🏻

The fertility doc I saw said don't let it run your life. Make plans for ttc (and in that specific case ivf) around the other things you want to do. I think it puts too much pressure on.

I'm sorry it's not worked out the way you thought it would, I'm the same. Thought I'd just get pregnant immediately as everyone else in my family is insanely fertile and almost all babies were whoopsies!

What are your plans for your 30th?

I know. It sucks though.

I'm feeling really weird - boobs are really swollen and sore but I also have bad endo pain. Trying not to get my hopes up. It's pants being a woman sometimes!

Oh boo @Jonesbabynumber1

Still, fingers crossed until then...

I think I wouldn't hang about if I were you. Would pregnancy make it any worse? Could you manage it with diet until surgery becomes available / you have sprogged?

I'm ok. Feel really puffy. Boobs really sore, feel puffy all over - arms, fingers, cheeks.

@TigerJoy they've said in the past to remove my gallbladder if I get more attacks but it's been so on and off and few and far between that I've just been seeing how it goes, so possibly they'd just say the same. Just don't know if I should continue just incase but I think the waiting list is about 6 months for surgery and I really don't wanna wait that long. How are you getting on?

Gosh @dizzy85 that is tough. What's the treatment for gallstones? Do you think they might offer an operation? Can you live with it for now if you do get pregnant?

Afternoon ladies, hope your all doing good, sorry about af @ceebee21
I've been in a bit of a predicament lately, I have a gallstone and I've been getting pains on and off and not sure what I should do whether I should put trying on hold until I've seen the doctors but it's not until the 6th and I should be ovulating soon so it's quite a stressful decision to make as you know how slow things take at drs and I don't wanna waste time missing each month, so yer still don't know what to do for the best really. 🤷‍♀️

@Jonesbabynumber1 I find the whole booze thing really hard. I gave up completely for 6 months, then started again on a really bad period (periods seem like a safe time! And booze is a good painkiller).

There are a few times I'd really like a few drinks and I do wonder how much it can really hurt if its before you've missed your period. I'm taking a long flight next month and not sure how I'll manage without a few g&ts!

Thanks @Jonesbabynumber1. I veer between being completely obsessed and not wanting to think about it at all. Spent a lot of time the last few weeks crying. It was much easier over Christmas when I just told myself we were having a month off and i let myself have a few drinks! It's so hard to get that balance between not letting it be the focus of your life and also giving yourself the best chance

I've found it much better since I've stopped temping and opking as well. Like you said the most important thing is dtd and if you're doing that enough there's no need

@Jonesbabynumber1 thank you, yeah me too. Unfortunately as much as I love the NHS and think its great, I dont think they are great at this sort of thing, I am having to pay myself as they wont refer me to and endocrinologist, or to any fertility specialist until 3 miscarriages, and in their eyes my thyroid is being treated correctly! Xx

I'm out . AF has arrived this morning as expected, but that does mean only a 10 day luteul phase.

I'm seeing a consultant on tuesday about my thyroid; I have low progesterone which is probably caused by my thyroid and is probably causing the 10 day phase, hopefully she can give me something to correct it xx

OK so if 85% of people implant at 9DPO does that mean I am definitely not pregnant now?

I just ask as the pelvic pain has come roaring back, plus I went to pilates today, and I really fancy a really, really hot bath. But obviously I don't want to put anything at risk...what do you all think?

I feel a bit weird. I'd normally have pain at ovulation but didn't have any. Have it now, the day after. My boobs have swollen up and I feel quite puffy. Tbh, wondering if I'm pregnant but presumably I wouldn't be feeling anything now?