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Hoping for a new year miracle!

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Jonesbabynumber1 · 06/01/2020 15:50

We’ve had some beautiful success stories so hoping they continue.

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Jonesbabynumber1 · 19/02/2020 17:25

@dizzy85 @MrsCl19 that’s crazy how we are all low iron mine. Mine keep dropping then I get the tablets goes up and drops again. Have they given you a cause ? @ceebee21 yes that was a clear CP. I feel fine about it all at moment but that will change next week depending on outcome. I’m 5dpo it is going slow.

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ceebee21 · 19/02/2020 10:42

@dizzy85 I told the doctors about my CP... I already had a DR appt booked in, and knowing you get referred after 3 MC's, that was classed as my second.

I had a very clear positive test though for a about 5 days before I started bleeding, so was definitely a CP.

The whole thing is pretty SH*T, just fed up with it now and I know people try for so much longer.

xx

MrsCl19 · 19/02/2020 05:35

@dizzy85 @Jonesbabynumber1 I'm low iron aswell... ferrous sulphate is my enemy 😩🤣

dizzy85 · 18/02/2020 21:12

@Jonesbabynumber1 it's horrible isn't it. I also had a few symptoms too I didn't get my usual pre af spotting and I just felt weird and even said to my OH I actually feel pregnant not like the other months where I'd "think" I was pregnant but I had this gut feeling and then tested a few days later and then that. I think I'll mention it when I see my dr too. Oh I am anaemic too it's the worst I have to take iron every day their horrible.

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Jonesbabynumber1 · 18/02/2020 20:14

@dizzy85 what you describe sounds identical to my CP I had so many symptoms my boobs were beyond painful so for me it was enough to think it was a chemical although I only got the patchy line. No haven’t said anything to be GP. I’m having my bloods checked for low iron again and if they low I’ll have to see GP so will bring it up then and to discuss what happens if nothing happens. Hope your ok

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dizzy85 · 18/02/2020 10:12

Morning everyone, hope your all ok. My af just finished, I'm 90% sure I had a chemical pregnancy just gone as had really faint lines on frers then negative day af due then af was 2 days late. It's confusing coz the lines were so faint and slightest bits of pink in patches but I did 2 from 2 different boxes and both the same so I dunno if it could be faulty tests or very early loss.
@Jonesbabynumber1 @ceebee21 when you had your CP did you tell the drs about it? Also did you feel ok hormonal wise after or did you feel abit out of whack if that makes sense.

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Jonesbabynumber1 · 18/02/2020 09:48

@MrsCl19 I bet that was lovely to see.

@ceebee21 I’m on cycle 6 had chemical first but that’s been it. No idea why nothing else has happened but will just keep on trying.

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ceebee21 · 18/02/2020 09:09

@Jonesbabynumber1 well who knows!
1st Cycle got pregnant, but had MMC
then November 2nd Cycle
December 3rd Cycle - Chemical
January 4th Cycle
So this is the 5th?!

xx

MrsCl19 · 18/02/2020 05:50

@ceebee21 keeping my fingers crossed

@Jonesbabynumber1 I did and it's nice and clear, really put my mind to rest x

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Jonesbabynumber1 · 17/02/2020 21:43

@ceebee21 yes ok this side, 3dpo got a wedding next week so trying to lose a few pounds beforehand. I felt really nauseous this morning but sure it’s from ovulation. I’m even more eager this month to find out as if it’s not to be we are booking a holiday abroad. I know people go away for baby moons but I don’t think that would be for me. What cycle you on now? @MrsCl19 did you test with a frer?

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ceebee21 · 17/02/2020 15:02

How is everyone doing?

10DPo I think, and BFN on FRER so feel like I am out.
AF should arrive tomorrow... onto the next one!!! x

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Jonesbabynumber1 · 16/02/2020 17:21

@Tbug that’s so shit. Hope your ok. I’m 2dpo this is going to be a long ass Tww

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MrsCl19 · 16/02/2020 10:11

Oh sending lots of hugs @Tbug

Tbug · 16/02/2020 10:04

Of course AF came for the 11th unwanted time 🙄🙄🙄🙄😖😖😖😳😳😳😳

BabyB19 · 15/02/2020 15:30

It is super early so try not too worry so much (I know that's a ridiculous thing to say) I'm so excited for you ❤️ @MrsCl19 xx

MrsCl19 · 15/02/2020 14:37

Thank you @Tbug

@BabyB19 I'm a nervous wreck! I did another cheapie different brand waiting on my FRERs to arrive tomorrow/Monday but the line didn't look any darker still faint... I keep thinking it's a chemical but also keep telling myself it's very early still 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼

BabyB19 · 15/02/2020 13:57

Thanks @Tbug and good luck! Did you do any more yet @MrsCl19 or is it sinking in yet? Xx

Tbug · 15/02/2020 13:51

Omg congratulations @MrsCl19!!! And awww @BabyB19 ❤️❤️❤️❤️ I'm 13dpo today and due AF tomorrow so hopefully it doesn't show!! X

BabyB19 · 14/02/2020 20:20

We have to just try and give ourselves a break and really try not to put that pressure on. The dreams are the worst aren't they. Have you been trying the preseed? You're definitely doing enough. I think the Drs say a year because it's completely normal to take that long. I've been off the pill for a year now and I know I did get caught before but I think it was too early and my body wasn't ready and that's why it didn't stick @Jonesbabynumber1

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Jonesbabynumber1 · 14/02/2020 18:40

@BabyB19 that does sound awful sorry to hear that. Mine is about the fact I’ve just had no sign that it’s going to happen and there are so many people posting about it happening for them. I have regular dreams about positive pregnancy tests and waking up realising it’s not happened is difficult. After 16 years of being together it’s just a long time we waited and the pressure of whether we should have started sooner.

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BabyB19 · 14/02/2020 18:16

You think that @Jonesbabynumber1 but it's been so much harder for me personally.on this side of the fence I've been really quite poorly, recurrent nightmares having flashbacks to the MC etc. It's definitely the worst I've ever felt in my life.
It will happen for you, 6 months really isn't that long in the grand scheme it just seems that way when you're in the moment and it's so frustrating feeling like you'll never get there but you will I know it ❤️
Hopefully that calm streak continues on for you @ceebee21 and there is a nice surprise xx

MrsCl19 · 14/02/2020 17:32

@Jonesbabynumber1 cycle 4

@ceebee21 it's so hard to not think about it!

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Jonesbabynumber1 · 14/02/2020 17:25

@ceebee21 that’s exciting I’d live some more BFP. I’m hoping for a Late Valentine’s delivery but won’t be testing until at least 24th it’s going to be a long 10 days 😅

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ceebee21 · 14/02/2020 16:22

@BabyB19 Well I am 7DPO now, so will probably test Sunday / Monday....AF usually arrives 11DPO so I should know either way on Tuesday.

I really have tried to be as relaxed as possible this month and not thought about it... but now it is getting closer to testing it is hard to not think about it!!x

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Jonesbabynumber1 · 14/02/2020 15:47

@BabyB19 that’s lovely to hear. Right now I’d give anything for that feeling of worry rather than the is it ever going to happen feeling. I got peak opk yesterday so bd the morning and night and had bd every other day before and will bd tonight so think I’m covered. I feel every month we’ve managed to bd enough just will have to wait and see. I’ll bd tonight plus it’s Valentine’s Day 🙈 I have to remind myself 6months isn’t that bad but feels like forever. @MrsCl19 what cycle were you on?

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