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Hoping for a new year miracle!

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Jonesbabynumber1 · 06/01/2020 15:50

We’ve had some beautiful success stories so hoping they continue.

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ceebee21 · 03/03/2020 20:09

@dizzy85 fingers crossed it is good news for you. It's hard not to attach yourself to every bit of hope.

I got my letter through today and my appointment is on the 16th March, cant quite believe how quick it is to be honest, finally a bit of positive news x

dizzy85 · 03/03/2020 08:54

@ceebee21 definitely fingers and toes and everything crossed for us both 😊 I am fed up with it all too lol. I have been quite relaxed this tww up until last night, I had some random spotting when I wiped so my brains automatically thinking implantation, I usually get pre af spotting that starts around cd 24ish and last night was cd19 so now I'm overthinking it and the madness has begun again 😂

ceebee21 · 02/03/2020 10:51

@dizzy85 I don't think I will OV until Wednesday, so won't be testing until next weekend! Fingers crossed for both of us.

Fed up with it all now haha

dizzy85 · 02/03/2020 10:30

@ceebee21 yer it's still worth trying whilst you wait. I think I'm gonna make an app with a lady dr instead of my usual man one then at least I'll know she will understand more when I talk about hormones aswell.
Hopefully we just get bfps this month though and we don't need to go through all that 🤞🏻 I'm gonna start testing Thursday/Friday.

ceebee21 · 02/03/2020 09:33

@Jonesbabynumber1 I'm so sorry about AF. Glad to hear about your holiday - it sounds amazing. Just take some time to relax and look forward to it!

@dizzy85 I am not sure yet, I am waiting for my letter, which should hopefully come this week.

I am back in fertile week, so still just trying and hoping for the best... If we don't try we will never know what could have been!!

I'm just glad to know that I will be seen sooner rather than later if you know what I mean.

Definitely worth speaking to your GP, I was really surprised that she was willing to refer me, but so glad she has x

dizzy85 · 02/03/2020 09:04

@Jonesbabynumber1 aw I'm so sorry af came. I hope your ok. How are you feeling about having a break? Your birthday holiday sounds amazing I'm jealous 🥳

dizzy85 · 02/03/2020 09:03

Morning all, just catching up had a hectic week.
@ceebee21 that's great they're actually listening to you and willing to help, I'm gonna mention this to my dr as I do have a couple of autoimmune disorders and see what he thinks. When is your appointment for the clinic?

@BabyB19 hope your feeling abit better now? I can understand that feeling of worry, hopefully that does go eventually tho and you can start enjoying it more. I'm def gonna try the acupuncture next month if nothing happens this month. I'm all good Thankyou, 4/5 DPO now hopefully this is the month lol

MrsCl19 · 28/02/2020 19:10

@Jonesbabynumber1 i really am sending you so much luck for the future! You deserve a good holiday! Please take some time for yourself and remember your self care and I baby dust for that bfp when your ready to try again 🥰

Jonesbabynumber1 · 28/02/2020 17:32

@ceebee21 I’m so glad they’ve referred you must be nice to feel that you may get some answers. Cycle 6 was another failure. I didn’t need to test AF showed up two days early at the wedding I was at. It was a big kick in stomach the one day I wasn’t thinking about it and boom a reminder. By the end of night I was an Emotional wreck not helped by the “when will you be having kids questions”. So today I’m hungover, emotional and Having some really bad cramps. Plus my cats having a reaction to his medication. It has been a shitty few days. I hate the person I’m becoming I’ve always been so positive but just feel miserable. So......I’ve booked the holiday to Mauritius for my 30th in May so my two month break starts now.

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BabyB19 · 26/02/2020 12:49

I read a lot on it before I got my bfp @dizzy85 and there seems to be a lot of positive stories surrounding it! I'm ok thank you, have had migraines for weeks so feeling crappy but the silver lining is worth it. Still not for passed the anxiety of worrying something is wrong like 🤷🏽‍♀️ how are you doing?

ceebee21 · 26/02/2020 12:46

@dizzy85 I have had two since starting in July.

I don't know about other Auto Immune issues, that was my main lead when I went, saying I know they test for others so is it worth testing for them on me, given my current one etc.

I have done a lot of research about it all and NK cells comes up a lot, although not really treated or tested for on the NHS - Dr Shehata in Epsom is the one I am looking at, and I may well go there if no luck with the NHS. x

dizzy85 · 26/02/2020 12:45

@Jonesbabynumber1 how you doing have you tested again?

dizzy85 · 26/02/2020 12:44

@BabyB19 hope your doing good. I was actually doing some reading about acupuncture last week and said to my OH it's something I wanna try.

dizzy85 · 26/02/2020 12:42

@ceebee21 ah that's good news for you definitely a positive appointment, I bet you much feel better. how many miscarriages have you had? That's good they're going to help. Do you have other autoimmune issues as well as the hashimotos? Just wondering as I have a few myself and wondering if it's playing a part in my miscarriages etc.

ceebee21 · 26/02/2020 12:07

Well some good news, I have managed to get referred to the recurrent Miscarriage clinic (I think) for further tests, due to my existing auto immune issues.

It is quite a relief as at least I can have some further testing and maybe some help for one to stick if I manage to get pregnant again.

The GP was very helpful and didn't hesitate to refer me at all.

x

MrsCl19 · 26/02/2020 05:47

@Jonesbabynumber1 mine was 12.5 last time it was checked I think the ok range is 20-130? Not 100% though

ceebee21 · 25/02/2020 22:36

@Jonesbabynumber1 no I haven't, so would be good to see one.

Myiron ferritin is 139 ug/L upper end of the scale

Xx

Jonesbabynumber1 · 25/02/2020 21:51

@ceebee21 glad your going to GP, have you seen any consultants about thyroid I think I read before you have?

@BabyB19 how you feeling? Yes very frustrating I don’t know how people do this for so long 6 cycles and I’m exhausted 😩. Af due sat and if the witch arrives I’ll be booking a holiday and having a 2 month break which will be hard but needed.

I had blood results back for iron ferrtin 33 from 9 but still doesn’t seem great but doctors said it’s normal. What’s are everyone else levels?

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BabyB19 · 25/02/2020 13:42

Hi ladies, I'm so sorry to read you are all feeling so down atm and no further bfp's. I know it's not for everyone but just wondered if any of you had tried acupuncture at all? My friend is trying it at the minute to get ready for when she starts ttc and she said it has made a massive amount of difference to her cycle already, her periods have completely changed etc. It can't do any harm to look into surely?! X

ceebee21 · 25/02/2020 12:54

@dizzy85 @Jonesbabynumber1 Thank you.

I have had most of the blood tests that the NHS will do, and tbh I really think it is something to do with my immune system; I have booked the appointment for April, but may well push it back to June depending on how I fell next month.

I just can't face waiting and waiting and potentially having more miscarriages when deep down I know there is something wrong; they can't seem to get my thyroid levels right at all, they are all over the place.

I am going to the GP tomorrow and just going to have a moan really and let them know it is really affecting me and I just feel like we are not getting anywhere with the treatment etc

Jonesbabynumber1 · 25/02/2020 12:46

Thanks @MrsCl19 @ceebee21 yes sorry to hear your having a tough time. I can totally relate this is the hardest thing emotionally I’ve ever had to deal with and the feeling of being alone is hard to get away. I have a stressful job which has been twice as stressful lately and now this morning my cat has a nasty UTI and a vet bill of £202. The vet said has anything changed which it hasn’t accept my stress levels so feeling guilty which is daft I know. I’ve had to call in sick to work for the feeling of being overwhelmed.

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dizzy85 · 25/02/2020 06:29

@ceebee21 sorry your struggling at the moment. Won't the drs investigate further into it so you don't have to pay private? Hopefully it's not that though and it's just the stress of ttc. Are you gonna try anything different this cycle?

@Jonesbabynumber1 sorry for the bfn yesterday I really hope it changes soon your definitely not out yet

MrsCl19 · 25/02/2020 06:16

@Jonesbabynumber1 fingers crossed 🤞🏼

Jonesbabynumber1 · 24/02/2020 08:32

thanks all but a BFN this morning at 10dpo so feeing deflated I know I’m not out just yet but I know chances are slim.

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ceebee21 · 24/02/2020 07:50

@dizzy85 I'm ok, struggling a bit tbh at the moment. I'm leaning towards feeling like mu hashimotos is causing problems and knowing I may have to go private to get it sorted.

Come to the end of af now, so will give it a few more months and go from there.

@Jonesbabynumber1 how did you get on xx