Hoping for a new year miracle!

@ceebee21 oh no I really hope that's not the case. I know the digitals aren't that sensitive though so it could just need longer? Are the non digital tests getting fainter then? I'm so sorry if it is though❤️ keep me updated and I'll keep everything crossed for you that it's not that xxx

@dizzy85 Think I am having another CP - had a couple of positives in the last couple days, but digital still saying not pregnant and just have a feeling you know.

really is sh*t

xxx

@ceebee21 aw I hope she stays away 🤞🏻 I know what you mean, i am a little bit worried tho if it will put us at increased risk but at the same time we've been trying for so long and this is probably gonna be around for a while so I don't want to waste my time waiting either, but it's definitely made me consider my options.

@dizzy85 thanks, still no AF.

To be honest, the whole virus is just another thing to add to the list of what can go wrong when pregnant.

I feel like I am just as at risk of something else causing complications.

And who knows how long it will go on for!!!!

x

@ceebee21 sorry for your bfn yesterday, I hope af stays away. I feel the same about the Christmas baby, I absolutely love Christmas but I'd prefer a birthday before or after ideally but mainly because i love making a fuss out of birthdays and Christmas and I just imagine it to be easier not actually around that time as in financially but yer I wouldn't mind obviously anytime.
How are you feeling about this virus and the idea of being pregnant?

@MrsCl19 Thankyou 😊 how are you getting on?

@MrsCl19 Thank you for this - I have seen a lot of people saying this, so it is making me feel a bit better about it.

It is 100% my favourite time of the year, I absolutely love it. We got married a few days before Christmas as well.

I guess the only one is actual Christmas day, that might be harder, but hey ho - can't choose these things can you x

Ahhh@dizzy85 fingers crossed for this cycle!

@ceebee21 I was born few days before Christmas and I love it! My favourite time of the year!

@dizzy85 another BFN for me today. So that's me out. AF usually arrives 11dpo, however managed to extend it last month by taking Vit B I think, so it arrived 12dpo, which is tomorrow.

I know that if I were to get pregnant this month it is likely a Christmas baby... not going to lie I was considering avoiding it as I would feel sorry for the child with a Christmas birthday, but then I thought it's us who would make the birthday special and beggar's can't be choosers right? How do you feel about Christmas birthdays?

I have also seen adults say they love having a Christmas birthday x

@ceebee21 hey, sorry for your bfn yesterday, have you tested again today? My af came on Thursday in the end, it's just finishing now.
Got everything crossed this is your month 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

@MrsCl19 hiya, I'm ok. 10dpo today, I tested yesterday and BFN. Trying to hold off until later before testing...although reckon I'm probably out! Hows things with you x

@ceebee21 how are you getting on?

@dizzy85 hiya, i'm ok thanks - have resisted so far, but still only 6dpo so would just be a waste to test atm.. come Friday it may be different.

Yes do, he seems to be very successful, but also very expensive!

Annoying about AF - when you have BFN, you just want AF to arrive and move on. x

@ceebee21 hey, how you doing have you resisted the urges to test yet? I've had constant bfns still, af was due today but no signs yet, I normally wake up to her but nothing so far🤷‍♀️

I shall definitely have a read, I do have psoriasis which is an autoimmune disease I get it quite bad.

@dizzy85 I'm fine, only 4dpo at the moment, I know towards the end of the week I will be desperate to test... at the same time, it is the time where you are ever hopeful that it could be positive!

Sorry to hear about the BFN's - it is so disappointing.

Yes, have a read about them, specifically Dr Shehata - I have booked in to see him, but am pushing the appointment back to summertime, to allow for my NHS appointments first, in case they can help!

Do you have any auto immune problems?

@ceebee21 how you getting on? Ive just been getting bfns the last few days af due Wednesday I've got to that point now where I'm sure I'm out.
I'll have to have a read up about the NK testing see what's it's all about.

@dizzy85 100% I don't think I will be able to afford a baby by the time I have one, due to the amount I would've spent beforehand.

I have looked into private NK cell testing, which is my next step I think in the summer if nothing happens on the NHS.

x

@ceebee21 I did another test and it was bfn again but I'm only 9dpo so still early. That's good your in the tww now! It does take forever but for me this time seems to have gone quick for once I think coz I started testing so early it's made it feel quicker coz I'm not waiting to test, but I have spent a fortune on tests though which is the only downside.

@dizzy85 Exactly the same.

Have you taken another test yet?

I'm now officially in the TWW - the first two weeks always seem to go so quickly, then this takes a lifetime x

@ceebee21 I know exactly how you feel, I thought after having the mmc that was just a sad unfortunate thing but maybe that would be it and everything will be fine but then after the CP it's really made me doubt my body, but I'm still trying to stay positive because we really don't know what's going to happen, it is hard but we have to have hope that it will happen otherwise we will get more stressed and that's not good. Xx

Yep, I don't really know how I feel. I really want a BFP but equally wonder if it will ever stick!!! We will see I guess xx

@ceebee21 yay to the positive opk!! I did a frer this morning and it was bfn which I expected as it's really early, will try again tomorrow I just bought some new tests to try their boots early ones says can be used 5 days before they were on offer buy one get one half price so thought I'd give them ago and save my last frer.

@dizzy85 got positive OPK this afternoon so count tomorrow as OV. I normally have a 10 or 11 day LP so will be testing around sun/mon week. I dont blame you, have you got an FRER x

@ceebee21 hopefully you get your positive opk tomorrow then. It is constant waiting this ttc business 😂 I'm gonna do a test tomorrow coz I'm bored of waiting now

@dizzy85 Still not got positive OPK on CB digital, although the test strips look pretty positive to me, so may well be tomorrow.

I do OV either CD15 or CD16 and today is 15.

So much waiting around!

@ceebee21 it is hard but I'm not gonna get excited until I see them 2 lines coz my bodies given me false hope too many times now. Is it ovulation day for you today?
Oh wow that was really quick for your appointment that's great, I look forward to hearing how they can help you. If I'm out this month then I'm gonna get onto my dr.