Hoping for a new year miracle!

@BabyB19 @dizzy85 yes, it is nice to have support and people to talk to.

We have made the decision to to tell anyone, no family or friends, I just would rather keep it to ourselves at the moment.

I am hopeful, but unfortunately just feel like the worst is going to happen - hard not to think that!

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@BabyB19 @ceebee21 Thankyou it's nice having your support ❤️ well I'm not gonna get any hopes up coz I know the harsh reality of what could happen but I do have a tiny ounce of hope still in me, as you have to. I used my last cheap test yesterday and there was a line but not as dark as the frers but then they haven't been before anyway as they're not as sensitive so once I have the frer today I'll just do it later and see how it's looking. So nervous to do it.
That's good your frer is darker @ceebee21☺️
If things aren't going wrong for me then I will definitely book an early scan too xx

@dizzy85 what @BabyB19 said, there are so many different symptoms, and they all seem to overlap between pregnancy and af.

I have had cramps, very similar to AF, so keep thinking something is wrong.

I took an FRER yesterday afternoon and it was a lot darker, so yes, definitely don't think time of day makes a difference the further along you are. In the first few days after implantation, it does make sense to do FMU as there is probably smaller amounts of HCG etc.

I have ordered one more pack of FRER and some CB digitals with weeks, then that is it, I am going to leave it and just see what happens.

I do feel I need to book an early scan - there is no way I am waiting until 12 weeks, if I were to get that far.
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Hi @dizzy85 I don't want to give you false hope for you to be more let down but I honestly felt like this for the first couple of months, constant spotting, constant cramps and constantly feeling like AF was about to arrive. I was convinced of it and it just never came. When did you last do a test? If it's been 48 hours then it should have darkened regardless of wether you wait until the morning and I think with FRER they're that sensitive the time of day never really mattered for me? Keep us posted we're all right behind you x

Hey all, sorry I've just replied, nothing has really changed since yesterday, I'm still spotting so day 4 of that. Feeling quite crappy today feel exhausted and headache and the past week I've been freezing cold! I dunno if anyone else is feeling cold but I do remember feeling constantly cold in my first pregnancy it's weird.
I couldn't get frers yesterday chemist was shut so gonna get some today and I've not called the dr yet as I wanna do the test first so I can tell him the results. So kind of just in limbo still. Do you think I should do the frer today after hold or just wait til the morning?
How's everyone doing? Xx

Hope you're okay @dizzy85 💕💕💕

Sending lots of support and hugs @dizzy85!

@dizzy85 yes, let us know how you are getting on x

Hi @dizzy85 I've got everything crossed for you that it turns out well. I hope you're ok. Any update since this morning? Xx

@ceebee21 no not yet, I thought I'd see how things go and call them when they open tomorrow. It is shit. I'm hoping if it is what is happening that it's just like a heavy period and I won't need to go to a medical centre at this scary time, I don't know what to expect as my 1st was different being 3months and second I only knew I was pregnant for 2 days then period. Would be a miracle if it's not but I have all the signs. It's a nightmare isn't it! I hope your doing ok xx

Oh @dizzy85 I'm so sorry. The whole situation is so shit. Had you already been in contact with your GP?

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@Tbug it's entirely up to you, if you feel ok and happy with just doing the two then stick with that❤️ The reason I keep testing is because of previous miscarriages it messes with your head and makes you want to keep checking.

Just an update on me, I do think I'm slowly miscarrying, as much as I'd love to be just being paranoid I think I can just tell. I've been spotting for 3 days now and think it's getting heavier and I can just feel it in my tummy like it's getting ready to go😞

Hope you're all ok. Thinking of you. I only did the two tests and wasn't planning on doing more? Do you think I should? Xx

@ceebee21 Thankyou, it's such a nightmare isn't it we should be enjoying the moment. I did one today but it's not a frer and I had my progression going on frers so feel I need to stick with them as you get different lines on different ones. X

@dizzy85 oh no, fingers crossed for you.

Its sickening really, I'm literally just waiting for something bad to go wrong. I have one left, but just keep ordering them as feel the need to keep checking.

When did you last do a test? X

@ceebee21 I know how you feel, have ran out of frers now though I'll be getting some tomorrow, although I think mine isn't going well, I've had spotting and I think it's getting heavier so my bad feelings have got worse.
Hope your ok though, it's such a worry isn't it with everything before but try to relax if you can x

@dizzy85 I'm ok, going a bit crazy with testing. Not seeing a line getting darker and just feel like it will be a chemical. I need to stop the testing haha

Awww it's come round so soon! 20/12 🙊😍

I'm due 23/08 @Tbug how about you? I'm losing track of when everyone got their bfps now there's so many 🤣❤️

Also, I just did these two and wasn't gunna check with anymore, is that okay?

When is everyone's due date?

@ceebee21 how are you feeling today? X

Thanks girls, fingers crossed for everyone, especially in these tough times when time drags xx

Yay @ceebee21!! So happy for you ❤️ @BabyB19 could you add me too please x

@ceebee21 everything is crossed for you lovely!