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Hoping for a new year miracle!

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Jonesbabynumber1 · 06/01/2020 15:50

We’ve had some beautiful success stories so hoping they continue.

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ceebee21 · 23/04/2020 13:20

@dizzy85 what @BabyB19 said! xxx

BabyB19 · 23/04/2020 12:53

How are you doing today @dizzy85 I keep thinking of you and hope you're doing ok? X

Tbug · 22/04/2020 17:22

Oh no @dizzy85 I'm so sorry :(, I really hope you're okay. Make sure you're looking after yourself xxx

ceebee21 · 22/04/2020 17:09

@dizzy85 yes, definitely speak to them. I got another referral and an appointment end of May, but I called the hospital and have now had it moved forward to next Thursday - basically explained that Ihad another positive, but after 3 MC obviously don't want it to happen again.

I had my results today, although they didn't test HCG or Progesterone annoyingly.

I had a full blood count which is all normal, plus some others which are all normal.

My thyroid tsh was 2.6, and it should be ideally under 2.5 for pregnancy, so I have gone back to them about that and asked if I should increase my medication (recommended for pregnant women to increase anyway).. hopefully that will bring it back down.

Yes, tests are strong at the moment, which is a positive, but I dunno, I cant say I am very optimistic about anything.

x

MrsCl19 · 22/04/2020 16:55

Ahhhh shit @dizzy85 sending lots and lots support and hugs your way 😩

dizzy85 · 22/04/2020 16:04

@ceebee21 Thankyou ❤️ it is extremely shit indeed. I did mention the second one so it's on record I've still not bothered to call them yet about this one as I've been all over the place but I will call them tomorrow and make sure he gets me referred. That's the only positive to come out of it all that they will look into it.
I was thinking earlier that I wonder if taking the pill for years when I was younger has messed things up, I've not taken it for about 5 years but I swear my hormones never returned to normal since stopping. I will have lots of questions for my dr hopefully I get some answers.
Just waiting for everything to pass it's the worst feeling I hope it happens soon so it's all over.

Hope your doing ok? Your test lines look super strong so that's a great sign for you. When do you get your test results back from the gp? Xx

BabyB19 · 22/04/2020 16:02

Oh @dizzy85 I'm so sorry that this is happening to you, hopefully if it is a MC then it will be over quickly for you and as @ceebee21 said you will be able to be referred for tests now. Big hugs to you ❤️ xx

ceebee21 · 22/04/2020 15:33

@dizzy85 I'm so sorry. Sending lots of virtual hugs.

I really hope there aren't any complications.

Did you ever mention your second MC to the GP? You should now be referred for more tests etc at the hospital.

It's all so Sh*t

dizzy85 · 22/04/2020 14:13

Hey all, so my miscarriage fears were confirmed got woke up at half 5 this morning to full on blood and now have strong cramps blood and small clots so it's definitely happening. I'm heartbroken and also scared incase of any complications and needing to go to hospital or anything but I'm hoping as it's early it should just be like a heavy period and over with straight forward. I don't feel shocked or anything coz I just had that gut instinct but I'm still completely devastated, 3rd miscarriage in 9 months there's obviously something not right going on.

Anyway I hope everyone is doing ok? Xxx

Tbug · 22/04/2020 08:37

Morning ☺️ yeah all good, 5+4 today ☺️ feel sick 😂😂 how are you? Xx

MrsCl19 · 22/04/2020 05:58

Morning everyone just thought I'd check in see how everyone is doing?

MrsCl19 · 21/04/2020 16:35

@dizzy85 I'd also agree still a strong line, stay strong and positive and take each day as it comes

BabyB19 · 21/04/2020 16:11

Hey @dizzy85 I know this is so stressful but please try to stay positive, as @ceebee21 said that's still a strong line. There's no question it's still showing positive. Is the bleeding still just spotting? How many dpo are you roughly? Xx

ceebee21 · 21/04/2020 15:47

@dizzy85 I'm sorry you aren't feeling great.

Have you got a comparison from your tests last week?

It is still quite a strong line, but hard to compare against anything else xx

dizzy85 · 21/04/2020 15:20

Hey sorry I've only just replied I feel like crap 😞 I'm still spotting and had bad headache for 2days and I'm sure my tests are getting lighter and I'm just waiting for the worst to happen now. Here's pics of tests the top one was today bottom yesterday.
Hope everyone is ok xx

Hoping for a new year miracle!
ceebee21 · 21/04/2020 15:05

yeah, I am 16dpo now.

I think I will constantly be anxious until at least 12 weeks.

But nothing I can do for now.
x

BabyB19 · 21/04/2020 15:01

So you are progressing nicely aren't you @ceebee21 I'm so happy for you. I hope you enjoy it and not spend the entire time anxious x

ceebee21 · 21/04/2020 14:49

@BabyB19 yes just done another FRER and it's just darker than the control now. Also got 2-3 weeks on a clear blue.

Had bloods done at GP today as well to check thyroid levels and something else, not sure if progesterone or HCG!

Hoping for a new year miracle!
BabyB19 · 21/04/2020 14:43

Have you done any more tests or any symptoms etc @ceebee21 hope you're doing ok too? Xx

ceebee21 · 21/04/2020 14:36

Yes ok here thanks, hope you are ok @dizzy85

Have you any update?
x

BabyB19 · 21/04/2020 13:51

Hope you're all doing ok with sticky sticky beans ❤️

BabyB19 · 20/04/2020 19:33

Have you got pictures @dizzy85 I would be inclined to say that if it's still positive it's still positive 🤷🏽‍♀️ surely it would be fading if not? Xx

dizzy85 · 20/04/2020 18:18

Well I did the frer but I can't really decide if it's lighter or not so I'm gonna do one in the morning and see coz I only held my pee for about 2 hours and I did drink quite a bit of water whilst I was walking to the shops and back so I can't say for sure so I guess tomorrow will be the deciding test 😬xx

ceebee21 · 20/04/2020 16:04

@dizzy85 Yes, that's a good idea.

Let us know how you get on with your FRER if you manage to get one xx

dizzy85 · 20/04/2020 14:34

@ceebee21 @BabyB19 I told my sisters the other day just so I could talk to them about it as they both have kids and yesterday I told my best friends as I've all of a sudden gone quieter and stuff on our watsapp groups and they said they could tell something was wrong so I feel better that they know what is happening. I'm not gonna tell anyone else until I know what's what though.
It is horrible and I wish we didn't have to feel this way but just got to have hope that it will be ok. Xx