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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

2ww buddies welcome!

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SaharaRoxy · 02/01/2020 21:59

TTC number two... still breastfeeding. I temped with Baby 1 but this time going on ewcm and rise in libido! Cycles are pretty regular but slightly long at 32-35 days but they've always been like that. Periods returned when my greedy EBF baby was only 4 months and have been like clockwork. Baby is now 18 months old.

Anyone wishing to join and just about starting the 2 week wait are welcome!

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Elly88 · 18/01/2020 19:22

@dizzy85 fingers crossed for you 🤞🏻
Yes I know lol, it's not bad yet, comes and goes but ds woke up at 12 and 4am last night (teething) and once I was awake I started feeling really sick so didn't sleep great, but it's all worth it :) I didn't have any symptoms at this stage with ds so isn't there a wives tale saying sickness if worse with a girl? Not that I mind what we have! Trying hard not to get carried away with telling family or buying things for new baby room 🙈 don't want to update you too much as don't want to sound boastful! Just praying all the scans and everything go well x

dizzy85 · 18/01/2020 18:53

@Elly88 Thankyou, I am gonna ask them all about it at my next appointment but I think just to be cautious I'll have to not try for this cycle because my appointment is after the fertile window, hopefully he tells me the surgery can wait and I can just carry on.
Aw I know all the shadows and stuff you had too, I was really hoping the frer was gonna show up properly ☺️ oh wow they've kicked in fast, keep us updated on how your getting on!

Elly88 · 18/01/2020 18:44

@dizzy85 so sorry to hear about your potential surgery and possible wait :( have you asked if it would be a complication if you were pregnant at the time of the operation?
Yes very surreal, it really is a miracle I was so convinced by the end I was out! Though already feeling the nausea and dizziness..!

dizzy85 · 18/01/2020 18:24

@Ktn35 hope af stays away for you 🤞🏻

dizzy85 · 18/01/2020 18:23

Hey @Elly88 how you feeling today waking up knowing your pregnant? 🥰 bet hubby was over the moon.

Hope everyone else is doing ok got everything crossed for you x

Well I've got abit of a spanner in the works...basically i found out I have a gallstone about 6 years ago had some bad pains ages ago and they said I might need the gallbladder out but I've just been just seeing how it goes as I don't want it out😬and now for a while I've been having constant pain but only mild but it's there and I think it's getting worse, I've booked a doctors appointment but it's not until the 6th feb, so anyway my OH thinks we should put trying on hold incase I need surgery, which I'm pretty sure they will tell me again, I know its the right thing to do but now it means I'm probably gonna have to go on a waiting list for however many months before this happens 😭😭😭 I'm 35 in November and definitely wanted to be pregnant before then...so yer feeling gutted now having to wait longer. 😫

Ktn35 · 18/01/2020 08:34

Everymonth I get pregnant is another £500 in the savings pot for Mat leave and another month with just my toddler. I guess it also means we won't have birthdays so close together. Just want AF to come now so I can get on with next month. I'm 37 ... feel like I need to get on with it!

Ktn35 · 18/01/2020 08:28

BFN this morning. I convinced myself I would get a BFP this morning as it is exactly 2 years to the day since I found out I was pregnant with my daughter. So stupid but 🤷‍♀️ 😭😭

Ktn35 · 17/01/2020 22:11

@Elly88!! I knew that was a positive test!!! Eeek! So exciting !!

Abbied69er · 17/01/2020 16:14

Hey ladies not posted on here in a while due to not feeling great and disheartened. However, i spoke to oh and we agreed to get our sex life back to enjoyment and start trying again. Ordered online from Ann summers to surprise him tonight Smile

Elly88 · 17/01/2020 15:51

@dizzy85 I know I was so sure at the start it was my month, had a feeling. Then with all the bfns I was sure I was out. Glad I can show others not to lose hope! Just hope it all goes well now 🤞🏻 and baby dust to the rest of you! Yes told hubby :) he's at home today anyway

dizzy85 · 17/01/2020 15:27

@Elly88 awwwww amazing 🥰 congratulations really happy for you. What a great end to the crazy tww you've had with all the shadows and stuff. Have you told your OH yet? xx

ablisha · 17/01/2020 14:06

Congratulations @Elly88 you've given me hope and lots of positive thoughts!

Elly88 · 17/01/2020 13:41

Thank you 😊

charlesthekudu · 17/01/2020 13:32

Congratulations @Elly88 so exciting!!!

Elly88 · 17/01/2020 12:43

Well that solves that one! Can't believe I'm the one posting my bfp. Please let this be inspiration to you all who get bfns at even 12dpo, this is 14dpo 🙏🏻

2ww buddies welcome!
Elly88 · 17/01/2020 09:11

@Ktn35 yes true! Got a frer, gonna hold in my wee long as poss then test again, and then again tomoro morning if necessary

Ktn35 · 17/01/2020 07:41

@elly88 I really think it is just a positive test! It's very common not to get lines until days after your period is due. It's only recently we have obsessed with testing earlier than our period!

dizzy85 · 17/01/2020 07:24

@Elly88 no don't be silly as much as getting af sucks I'm always really happy to see other people get their bfps coz I know how much it means, I really hope this is it for you. I'd probably hold it for like 4 hours just to make sure it's strong enough but that's a long time without peeing so as long as you can really. Ooh good luck keep us updated x

Elly88 · 17/01/2020 07:11

@dizzy85 thank you, sorry I know how annoying it is when you've just had af come nd then see other people's potential lines :( but I'm not convinced yet. I'll buy a frer today yes, how long shall I hold wee for? Already had 2 today 😬

dizzy85 · 17/01/2020 07:08

@Elly88 if I tilt my phone it looks like a line there, really hope it is 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻 can you get another frer today and hold wee?

Elly88 · 17/01/2020 07:08

@Ktn35 stop 🙊 but worried if that is the case whys it so faint on 14dpo and day I'm due on? I'm worried about a chemical as I've seen very faint lines for a week 😩 tho this is the strongest, though not sure you can call it strong lol

Ktn35 · 17/01/2020 06:58

@elly88 ... That looks positive to me!

Elly88 · 17/01/2020 06:48

Still not any the wiser! No af when due on today but she could just be a little late this morning. Got this with fmu, I can see a faint line (more so in real life) but surely it should be darker by now if it were positive? I've ran out of frers, only have CB digi left and if line if that faint doubt it'll come up yet anyway? Thoughts?

2ww buddies welcome!
ablisha · 17/01/2020 06:07

BFN ☹️ could just be early but I think I'm out this month

Elly88 · 16/01/2020 20:58

@dizzy85 yes me too, can't decide whether to do every other day (sounds exhausting just thinking about it 😂) or to repeat the pattern that we conceived ds on - only dtd 4 times that month! But obviously at the right time! Pretty sure I can feel the bloaty ache of af. Mini eggs and wine sounds amazing!

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