Ready to get crazy in January!! Who's with me!

@debbs77 I tried this. A boy, two girls and a boy apparently. Did it twice and it was the same both times 😂

For anyone feeling down about it, try this ring gender test. It predicts the babies you will ever have. I've done this over 25 times now, I have a large family, and it is exactly right every single time xx

2dpo today and woke up with mild cramps again still unsure why 🤷 and I've had a headache since yesterday that I can't seem to shift so who knows what's going on 🤔 How's everybody else getting on x

Wow a lot of errors in my post. Probably a result of staying up at 3am!

Hi ladies, mind if a newbie joins?
I’m a common visitor to these forums but I never post. Myself and hubby have been TTC since October 2019 and I was very naive about becoming pregnant on our first try (doh!). I had been on the pill for 11 years and my cycle is very irregular so MrFarmer is having a grand old time of it DTD every other day 😂
I recently discover my mum had taken fertility tablets in order to have me and my middle brother so I’m beginning to wonder if that too could be my fate?
I’m a serial POTS and need to stop! Emotions are also magnified after watching some of my friends announce their pregnancies with statements like “it just took one go!” 🙈
I’m a teacher, he is a farmer/concreter/plasterer and we love very busy lives! We are both relaxing this month. I have stopped taking ovulation tests, stopped tracking dates and just going with the flow to see what happens!

I am due to test Jan 13 th, I currently have very tingly boobs which hopefully means I did actually O as in the past ovulation has been very random for me, sometimes 14 months apart!!!

It was honestly heartbreaking, but it made us stronger together if that makes sense.

Definitely all on the same kind of schedule!

Thanks @Ginge35 🤗 it's a very tough time indeed, 7 years ago my journey was very different, I found huge comfort from online communities, and learnt a lot about being good to myself, being as healthy as I could, giving into my urges to google 'early pg symptoms' and not feel bad about it. Ttc is a tough journey and I have huge respect for every lady who is strong enough to put themselves through it. Baby dust to all 🥰

I'd love to jump on board too!

I already have children and was due to be sterilised in August after having my coil removed in march. 9 days before my OP I was still not getting my period and had a very shocking positive!!

Heartbreakingly we had a miscarriage at 12 weeks. That was the end of october.

After the initial shock of the pregnancy turned to excitement, which turn to heartbreak, we decided that we wanted to try for another baby.

It didn't happen last month but am hopeful for this month. I've always fallen first time every time with my other children so this waiting malarkey is new to me!

Due to our ages (I'm 42 and he is 40), we are limiting ourselves to only trying until May. Also, if we miscarry again then we won't try for another baby

I've ovulated last week, we had sex twice a day every day.

My partner and his ex wife took 5 years to conceive their daughter, so their could be an issue of his fertility but we will see. We obviously managed it last time, albeit accidentally!

Hi can I join too, I’m 38 and ttc #2, I have PCOS and had numerous attempts at IVF for my son along with 2 mc. However 7 years on and I seem to be seeing a dramatic drop in my PCOS symptoms so am going all out to optimise my chances of becoming pg again. According to my app I am 3/4 dpo today but who knows, PCOS is a bleeeeep and you never know where you are..... looking forward to chatting with you all :)

Good luck to @Ginge35 & @Flowerpot26 this wkend...my fertile window isn’t until the end of next wkend 😔 I hate the waiting game! My friends/family also have kids and I’m one of the last, but not letting that stop me 🤣 means I’ll have some babysitters in a few years.

@Ginge35 similar to me I was on pill from 16 and just came off this year at 39....fell pregnant first time we DTD without a condom in October and I had never wanted kids....only just came round to the idea when I miscarried. But it's made me sure I do want to be a mum now ☺️ I am not using OPK just going to trust the old fitbit as it was right last time!!

@HighlandMam1 I got my basal body thermometer in the post today 🙌 I can’t wait to get started tomorrow! They do say stress can mess up your cycle so if OPKs cause that there’s no point! I was also 31 day cycles until my mmc, last month was a bit closer to my norm at 33 days. I just want it to happen already!

Hey! Yes please, I'm the same dates as you op! Xmas day period, fertile days coming up, we're trying for our second, he's 20 months, im exhausted but also excited to enter this crazy adventure again! Good luck everyone xx

@Ginge35 I was on the pill since I was 18 until I was 30, but only really stopped as I felt my moods were so up & down!
I’m 32 and my OH is 37, we officially started ttc in June, and got my BFP in Aug, however it wasn’t meant to be as I had a mmc in Oct @ 11wks. This time last year I never thought I’d be that fussed about being a mum, however when it happens and you lose it you want it more than ever 😔.
I think you are far from too old!

I'm terrible with the abbreviations @Sammiantha2020 Sorry! I haven't been monitoring my basal temperature. I had been using ovulation sticks but found myself obsessing over them which made me quite stressed. I keep a track of periods and symptoms on my health app (iPhone) My cycles are 31 days so it feels like the longest wait in the world waiting to see if Mother Nature is going to visit me!!

I would love to join the crazy train with you ladies. This is our first proper month of trying.

I’m now wishing I hadn’t waited so long 😢.
Do you use opks, bbt etc? @HighlandMam1

Hi @Sammiantha2020

I feel old too but we're really not! 🙈 oh I'm so sorry to read that! Here's hoping for a successful 2020 for us all ladies!! 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼