TTC after miscarriage - January 2020

@AlviesMam do you think yours are ovulating pains? According to my FLO app I'm not! I'm due on my AF in 7 days so I'm 3DPO but they were low chances of getting of getting pregnant. My highest date according to that was the 1st January! So frustrating!!!

I hope some of us do! Fingers crossed 🤞

You're absolutely correct, it does make us stronger! I feel it since being involved on this post! So thank you everyone!

@mlax I'm the same! I hate how similar all these symptoms are. Now I'm aware I'm ovulating (or at least I think I am!) I'm all of a sudden getting symptoms like feeling sick and low stomach pain and back pain which I would have never have noticed before TTC!
I hate that I obsess over every little symptom now and I feel your pain as it does bring you back to pregnancy symptoms 😔😔

I currently have pain in my left ovary and lower back pain. FLO predicted my ovulation for yesterday.

Hope a few of us get our BFP this month?! 🙏🏼

So happy I have this thread to vent to and to post my silly and TMI questions 🤣 makes me giggle and gives me comfort I'm not alone!

Sending love to the recent posters regarding your MC ❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼

I would have been 32 weeks and breaking up from work tomorrow, but instead I'm waving goodbye to my two colleagues who are breaking up for maternity instead. Hard times but it only makes me stronger 🤞🏼

@Bath2020 so sorry for your loss.

Has anyone ever experienced pains in the lower abdomen?? These started this morning and I've felt quite (sorry for TMI 🥴) constipated the last 2 days! Feel like every symptom I'm having brings me back to pregnancy related symptoms and it's driving me insane.. overanalysing far too much!

@Bath2020 I'm so sorry to hear your experience and that it is dragging on. Did they not give you options?

The body is miraculous and when it is all out finally your body will heal quickly. I had medical management on the 21st of November and had my first period on the 20th December ... it felt like an age but it wasnt really in the grand scheme of things.

Sending you love ❤❤

@Michette you are so right. I know I cant put my life on hold until we fall pregnant again and I should just relax until it happens, because it will happen at the tight time.💗

The timing of your MC was awful and I can understand why it would make you think that. But you will be a Mum. ❤💗 We need to trust our bodies.

Thanks so much @Mammacooks you’re so nice. Have a lovely evening xx

Thanks guys!
I'm so glad some of you spoon too 😂🙈
It's just easier when doing it regularly but wanted to make sure it's still a successful position 😂

Whoops forgot to attach photo @MilsCookie

@cruiser1 ahh perhaps just a confusing cycle after miscarriage then - yep get DTD!

@MilsCookie yep they looked like they were gearing up to be positive and then went back down. I have got this one tonight which looks like I could potentially be ovulating soon? I dont know haha. Not sure hubby can be convinced to DTD tonight, we both had a huge meal and are feeling sluggish 🙈 maybe I can compromise for a morning DTD tomorrow

@AlviesMam we usually spoon and avoid any girl on top positions🙈

@Anny27 my temp was 36.3 today 🤷‍♀️ I’m so confused
Also.... I got a very strong positive OPK today so I guess I didn’t ovulate last week and must be ovulating now 🤔

So we are back to the sexing again 😦🥵😂

@Bath2020 so sorry to hear you’re going through this.
So I had a missed miscarriage and my doctor gave me the option of if I wanted medical, surgical or natural management. Perhaps book an appointment as soon as poss to discuss your options. Hopefully as you’ve already been scanned you won’t have to wait too long either. They are usually pretty quick I believe. All the very best x

Hi guys

I just had a second scan and the sac is still there (nothing inside) but it’s 11 days since I started bleeding.

I had semi heavy bleeding for 7 days with a few clots but nothing scary size but the bleeding is light and brown for last 3 days.

Has any one experienced this? I was not under the care of an obgyn as this happened naturally/started bleeding end of December at a weekend and I have just seen a GP and got my scans as a “favour” as it was the weekend when I started miscarrying and I wanted confirmation that it was or wasn’t a miscarriage at the time.

I’m wondering if anyone let it happen naturally and the sac just remained inside and when will they give me the option of pills to just get this over with. It’s depressing me the way it is dragging on...

Hi all.
I had a mmc in October. 10 weeks but pregnancy stopped developing at 6+4. Started trying straight away again and have had consecutive chemical pregnancies. I'm certain that I need to have a break from trying but at the same time I don't want to waste any more time! So this will probably be our last try for a while so hoping lots!

@AlviesMam we just cover all of them around ovulation. But avoiding me on top as gravity is against us. But we also did it the month i got pregnant so not sure it makes a difference.
I just make sure i lay down after...

But agreed doggy allow to go deeper....

@stephyRose sorry to hear you are feeling that way. It’s a tough process and we really need to be patient and try to live our lives normally but i totally understand your feeling. Sometimes i also think life is basically telling me “nope not you sorry” and i get worried I’ll never have a kid.
I had a termination when i was 17 at 7 weeks and last month i MC at 7 weeks so sometimes i think it payback... i know it doesn’t work like this but cant hell get these thoughts and feel guilty

@AlviesMam The time I conceived before, he was behind. And we usually end up that way! Soz for the TMI 🤣🙈🙈 xx

@Michette

I am extremely tired but I'm not sure if this is just my hormones/being back at work/the January blues but I dont remember being this tired early on last time as my BFP came as a surprise.

I've also had tingly nipples and only ever had them in the TWW last time but then I did have them after my MC so I feel like again just hormones?

This TWW is making me miserable as I'm sorry to say ladies, I just feel hopeless. I'm not sure I can do this every month until BFP.

I just want to be pregnant again. I feel like someone is saying to me 'You dont deserve to be a Mum.' 😥

Hey ladies can't keep up with this thread its booming!
I'm wanting to ask a TMI question lol!!
Obviously it's been ovulation week... do you ladies have a certain position when trying? I've been spooning quite a lot and I know it sounds crazy but this process makes you crazy!! But I panic incase the sperm doesn't reach the egg if I don't do it missionary...but we prefer to spoon as it's quicker.
I know it sounds so stupid but I'm willing to try anything to make it happen! I've ordered some wheatgrass to drink apparently this is amazing for fertility and egg quality xxx

@Confused38 I’m so sorry you find yourself here 😢 I miscarried at 5+3 a few weeks back and it’s just such an awful shock isn’t it.
Sending love ❤️

Afternoon All,

Truly Sorry To Hear All Your Stories
I Miscarried My 5th Child On Boxing Day , I Was 11 Weeks And Its Been A Struggle. I Had To Have Surgical Management In Theatre Which I Was Expecting When I Was In The Ambulance To The Hospital As I Haemorrhage After All My Labours.

Any Ideas On When I'll Be Fertile Again Or How To Work Out When I'll Be Ovulating Again Before A First Period.

Good Luck To You All

@Confused38 I’m so sorry to hear what you’re going through. If you’re still having symptoms this may just because your hormones are a little up and down and your body is processing your loss. It does sound like a chemical pregnancy from what you have said. Rest lots and take a bit of time for yourself xx

@toomanyleggings hello and welcome. Really wanted to send a wave and a virtual hug. Really sorry to read about your loss. This is a good place to help the healing, it's open season for all the grief and all the joys and everything in-between. As well as the ubiquitous cervical mucus discussions as well 🤔.

Its never to early for a cervical mucus joke surly?

God this week is just going so unbelievably slowly, I can finally start the dance of the baby tonight as the Mr returns. I'm obviously now freaking out he'll have some kind of accident which will render his penis useless in some way. My mind is cracked officially but I'll sex my way to positivity o we the next few days.

✨🌈👣 To every amazing one of you , just a week and we might get our first positive test on here!

@toomanyleggings
I see. Thank you