TTC after miscarriage - January 2020

Yes @mlax I’m afraid to get my hopes up but the sore boobs is very unusual for me. Then I read a while back that early symptoms can mean a chemical pregnancy - not sure how true that is!
My nerves are gone!!! Wake me up in 2 weeks 😩

@StephyRose awful isn't it. The human body SUCKS!!

My AF is due either Wednesday or Thursday so very soon 😌 that's providing my cycles have gone back to every 28 days!! I hope so, the wait would kill me 😩 when are you???

@Cruiser1 feeling your pain. Sore boobs is a weird one though isn't it!!! That's usually my first sign of being pregnant but none of us want to get our hopes up ☹️

Awwww @MrsB16 I’m so delighted for you 🥰 keep us posted on progress

These sore boobs are so unusual for me it’s starting to convince me I’m pregnant which as you all know is dangerous in our position..... false hope leads to devastation if AF arrives 😔
I have prescription for progesterone to take as soon as I get a BFP as my progesterone has been very low on both miscarriages. So I’v already tested and of course BFN ..... I’m gonna year every morning until AF I think

Internet cheapies so at least it’s not costing me a fortune!

The TWW is awful

Ballache @mlax, love that expression!! 🤣🤣 And that is exactly what it is. I could've written the list you have just put up myself. Eugh, hate this. Stupid MC making us do this all over again!

I think I only want one baby now 👶🏼💗💙, cant be doing this again. A baby and a dog. 😋🐶

Next month for you 💗❤🤞 when is AF due?

Ahhh amazing news @MrsB16!!! 💗💗💗 congratulations!!!

I'm in the same boat as you @StephyRose, although I've taken 2 early tests now and both been negative but had so many symptoms of being pregnant and now I'm just like I have to now deal with the fact that 2 weeks before my AF, I will suffer with dizziness, lightheadedness, backache, urinating during the night and more frequently, stomach cramps, shooting pains in stomach and back, tiredness. Just a ball ache.

Roll on the next month 😌

Amazing news @MrsB16!! Lovely to have our first BFP ... gives us all something to look forward to. Wishing you so much love ❤

My app says AF due in 5 days so either Fri or Sat. At this current moment I'm over the TWW after having got myself in such a frenzy symptom spotting last week. I'd just like to know either way now so I can move on to next month ... it's awful isn't it? Makes you wish your life away. And I feel like I just imagined those cramps now anyway. 🤷🏼‍♀️

Not sure to test or just to wait for AF. 🤔 We are staying with friends this weekend in Newcastle (other end of the country to us) and so I think it wouldn't be a good idea as if its BFN I'll be in a bad mood and we are meant to be going out on the town. Torn about what to do.

@MilsCookie hopeful for you for ovulation soon 🤞🤞 might be just around the corner now. 💗❤

@Anny27 you have made a sterling effort, well done!! 🤣🏅 let us know it you spot any symptoms. 💗❤

Thank you ladies! I’m still in shock! My EDD is 23 September 2020. Digital confirmed this morning!

Everything is all happening at once so I need to find a house before I end up pregnant and homeless!

I’m over the moon though. I recently had a diagnosis of PCOS and was incredibly worried that my last pregnancy was just a fluke but the very time my husband and I relaxed and dtd 3 days in a row just for fun was the very time I got pregnant!

I will keep my fingers and toes crossed for everyone else on this thread. Keep the faith and when you least expect it, it can happen!

@toomanyleggings I had that too at your stage - I DTD just Incase but then the OPKs went negative for about 3 days then I got a strong positive around day 18 so DTD again

I think the early ones were just left over HCG from miscarriage even though my pregnancy tests were negative while OPKs were still positive

Anyway my point is .... keep doing the OPKs because you could ovulate later in the cycle

Good luck 😊

@toomanyleggings ok so no ovulation is not positive it’s the hcg being picked up :/

@Michette glad you're feeling better today 😊
We are actively trying this month, straight after MC in December... haven't waited for first AF.
Not feeling like it's gonna be the month for us, and that's OK. When we fell pregnant last time, I just knew!
AF not due til 31st Jan using pre MC cycle length, it feels like a lifetime away... 😂

Actually I've just done a pregnancy test and it is still positive although fainter. The pregnancy test I did yesterday must have been rubbish as I could barely see the line on that. Top one is an ovulation test bottom is pregnancy test. Hmmm how confusing

@MilsCookie he has children already and I have one dc. We don't have any together yet but I'm hoping

@Michette funnily enough the month I conceived my daughter was the month I had no ovulation pain

@toomanyleggings it looks positive to me. And when my opk was dark the ovulation pain started shortly after so perhaps you will feel the same. Keep testing three times a day if you can to see the peak :) and obviously enjoy the BDing !!

I counted 8 so far actively trying so hope to see more BFP by the end of the month 🐣

@MilsCookie for opk i use Femometer of amazon it s cheap and lots of them for daily testing :)

@MilsCookie we have DTD every day for the last 3 days, exhausted haha! I have had quite a lot of EWCM -much more than usual weirdly! I ovulated a few days later than i usually would so perhaps yours might be delayed slightly? Hopefully not!

@toomanyleggings then I would say very nearly positive, either tonight or tomorrow I would say it will be peak :)

The bottom darker line is the test line. I don't feel much like I'm ovulating though

Sorry I wasn't clear. That's an opk today. I tested with a pregnancy test yesterday and that was only a ghost of a line

@Michette this is my first cycle ttc, after 16week mmc in September.

@toomanyleggings if you are only 10 days past MC then it could be that the OPK is picking up hcg as well, or you could be ovulating soon after, its not unhesrd of. If that is an OPK then it's very nearly positive :)

@MilsCookie I ovulated today so tww starts tomorrow (need to confirm with temp rise in the morning though!) Hope you ovulate soon lovely xx

To me that’s a positive pregnancy test if that’s what you’ve used!!

Ladies, does that look like a positive ovulation test? I tested with a pregnancy test and only a ghost of a line but I'm not sure. Surely I can't be ovulating this early. I'm 10 days past erpc