TTC after miscarriage - January 2020

@BecsterG congratulations! This is fantastic all these bfp! 🌈✨💜

Sorry mean the bottom one is positive!! Ahh so sorry I really need to proof read my messages.

@FireflyGirl waves, I'm in the two week wait, but I will still be baby dancing from today untill Sunday again just in case I haven't ovulated. Doing smep with some extra sex thrown in for good measure 🙄. My period is due the 28th from my last three cycles post miscarriage so I'll be testing on the 29th if it doesn't show.

And yes to all threads pregnancy or otherwise ♀️🔌

@FireflyGirl that’s a great idea for a thread.

Sounds like you’ve really been through it!

I agree it’s nice to live it with someone who’s going through what we are. X

@DisneyMummySince2010 sorry AF arrived :(

@terribleimagination thanks for setting up the Feb thread. Hopefully I wont have to join 🤞

Theres a lot of lines on this group! All you ladies are very fertile. Let's hope its catching 🥳🤣

4dpo for me today and 0 symptoms but not expecting any till about 7/8dpo!

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@FireflyGirl Yeah I totally know what you mean. I know plenty of people who’ve gone through losses, but they all have babies / kids / are pregnant now, so no one is living this with me in real life!

That’s such a lovely idea for a pregnancy thread too! Fingers crossed we all get to be on that together too 🤞🏻

You poor thing going through that with your son. I can only imagine how hard that must have been 😢 The emotional aftermath of a loss is such a rollercoaster! There are so many ways it can manifest.

@didslysquiddlydoo I think I can it too! Very very faint. This was me yesterday and I was 9 DPO. I took a cheapie and it showed more positive than a FRER. Take one again tomorrow?

I’ll test again tomorrow. Why not ya ha. I was up twice last night with my little boy so didn’t have a massive build up of urine. Ended up peeing when he was up at 5:30 as I couldn’t get back to sleep and I went to the loo at 1:30 before that so just 4 hours. Ekk all so worrying too after why we’ve all been through.

Have a lovely day ladies x

I agree with @TerribleImagination. The bottom one isn’t positive. Did you get a negative after MC?

@BecsterG I can see it!! Congratulations! 🎉🎉💗

@didslysquiddlydoo I can see yours too!! And the fact that you can see it at 8DPO is really a good sign. :D

I caved and took another one this morning and the line, though faint, is definitely there. I dont even have to try and find it now, I can just see it. Hopefully this is a good sign. 🤞

Is anyone else not into the TWW yet? I don't want to be sat here by myself in a week's time

I think that's a good idea, Terrible.

People IRL are sympathetic, and some of them have even been through it, but it's nice to have people to talk to who are going through it right now, iykwim.

I think it would be great to have a thread for those people who get a bfp, for the same reason, even though I'm not there yet. My first pg ended in MMC at 11 weeks, and I was so anxious throughout my subsequent successful pg with DS. I didn't bond with him until he was about 6 months old, because I was convinced he was going to be 'taken away', and it wasn't something I could discuss with anyone IRL (apart from DH, but he obviously wasn't experiencing it from a mother's point of view, where you can feel them moving inside you and you're praying your body looks after this one).

I think I’ve done this right?! Here is the February thread...

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/3796903-TTC-after-miscarriage-February-2020?msgid=93157221#93157221

In the nicest possible way, I hope none of you have to join! But if you do, I’ll have a virtual brew and hug waiting ❤️

@BecsterG that looks positive to me yayyy
@toomanyleggings are you first cycle after miscarriage? Could be left over HCG
If not then it’s definitely a positive yayy

@mlax the pregnancy test is so light though. Couldn't see it really until it had dried

@mlax I’ll have a go at setting one up! Never done it before, wish me luck 😆

@toomanyleggings if the bottom one is a pregnancy test, then that's a positive to me!? Therefore your ovulation sticks will be picking up for hcg hormone?!!! 😀

@BecsterG oh I'm not! I've tested for days 😂 but I've been testing too early with ERPRs! Now it's the day I feel like it would be more accurate.

P.S I can definitely see a faint line in the 2nd picture!!! Eekkk! 💗💗

@TerribleImagination I hope so! This thread helps me stay sane! X

Can't work out if I'm gearing up to ovulate? What do you ladies think? Bottom one is a pregnancy test, middle one is an ovulation test and top is a digital ovulation test. Feel like my bathroom is a science lab lol

Thanks for the love ❤️ This really is a lovely thread of people to go through all this with!

I’m consoling myself with an obscene amount of Nutella on crumpets! Hopefully AF will be done and dusted in a few days and I can get cracking with the OPK’s next week.

@BecsterG That does look promising!! Crossing everything for you lovey.

For those of us who aren’t lucky this month, are we doing another thread for Feb??

@mlax you are so unbelievably patient / sensible to have managed to hold out until AF due!! Fingers crossed for you xxxx

So sorry to those that are out for this month - hoping you get a bit of a break from the stress / anxiety in the first half of your cycle and fingers crossed for lots of positives next month!!!

@BecsterG can definitely see that line - it's looking good... everything crossed for line progression over the next few days!! Do you plan to test daily or every other day?!

I caved and took a test this morning... only 8dpo 🙈 positive is I could see a very faint line...
I don't know why I tested though as I already felt quite positive there was going to be a squinted (and it's a real squinter - I'll attach a photo but even harder to see in a picture) but I'm more worried about having my third chemical in a row.. I should have waited!! I'll definitely be testing daily now in the hopes of seeing that line progress!!!

Good luck @mlax You’re so patient waiting.

I’m not due until Sunday. I have zero patience.

@toomanyleggings fingers crossed. Not believing the tests I’ve done until I get a positive digital. Then only time will tell if this is a keeper.

I'm due AF today ladies, I'm still feeling dizzy/lightheaded which started again last night and have back ache. Backache is usually my sign of AF but never been dizzy/lightheaded before!! I'm going to buy some hpt today on my lunch. If i don't come on at all, I'll test tomorrow 🤞🤞🤞

@BecsterG yes I can see a faint line. Hopefully it's a keeper!

Thanks ladies. I’m only 10DPO so fingers crossed it sticks x