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How long did it take you to conceive? 36yrs old

63 replies

AshleyLr · 21/12/2019 19:02

Hello,
I'm looking for some personal experiences and would love to hear your stories.

I am getting married in April next year. I realise at 36 I will be classed geriatric Hmm
We want to try and get pregnant as soon after the wedding as possible. I want to know how long it took to conceive if you're an 'older' mum?

My implant was taken out in sept, I have very regular periods....if that helps.

Should I start trying now?

Thank you in advance x

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holly40 · 22/12/2019 14:51

13months to conceive, both DH and I aged 28-29. Baby2. Due next month!!

Roselilly36 · 22/12/2019 14:36

First month both times, early30’s, good luck OP.

Dbrook · 22/12/2019 14:28

I’ve just turned 37 and have been trying for the best part of two years, including a missed miscarriage in January of this year. All our tests have come back normal and the doctor said my egg reserves are good for my age. But it’s just not happening.

Don’t delay trying is my advice.

shivbo2014 · 22/12/2019 11:15

30 - first month trying
35 - 3rd month trying but ectopic
35 - 2nd month trying

GinUnicorn · 22/12/2019 10:22

1st an accident at 36 and second first attempt at 38.
Good luck

Whyhaveidonethis · 22/12/2019 10:21

I got pregnant immediately with my 3 children, this time I started ttc at age 39, I'm now on cycle 17. Don't wait.

Ludways · 22/12/2019 10:05

At 37 I got pg on month 2. Good luck!

MaryShelley1818 · 22/12/2019 06:52

You're definitely not more fertile after having one and it's not easier 2nd time unfortunately.

I got pregnant with DS (age 2) in 4mths at age 39, been ttc for number 2 now for over a year, very common scenario sadly.

Good luck and hope it happens quickly for you x

user1483387154 · 22/12/2019 06:16

39 years old. 1st child ..... 3 days after coming off the pill

pumpandthump · 22/12/2019 06:04

First month at 32, first month at 35 (ended in miscarriage) 2nd month at 35.

Crazymummyto3 · 22/12/2019 00:10

I fell pregnant first month of trying with our three children when I was 24, 27 and 32 years old. I'm now 35 and on cycle 5 of ttc number 4, however work and illness got in the way the last couple of cycles and this is our first month of 'properly' trying.

DisasterHome · 21/12/2019 23:42

You may want to consider buying a whole bunch of ovulation tests. I bought them from eBay (but they are hospital grade CE certified) and so they do not come with any fancy plastic holder thingy. They literally are just the paper strips, individually wrapped. This way they are much cheaper and you can buy 50 or so and test every day outside of your period for the months you are trying. Well worth it. We conceived without the guess work.

ConstanceL · 21/12/2019 23:30

Took me 3 months aged 38. Good luck :)

BelfastNonBlonde · 21/12/2019 22:03

Married May pregnant August and we weren’t “trying”, just not being careful at all.
Very fortunate I know.
I’m 35.
I wasn’t on any hormonal birth control before.

YorkshirePud1 · 21/12/2019 22:00

I'm 37 and 19 weeks pregnant with our first baby. I conceived the second month of trying, so pretty quickly! I really thought it would take longer so feel very lucky.

jennymac31 · 21/12/2019 21:55

I stopped taking the pill and it took 6 months to conceive DC1 (age 32) and 5 months to conceive DC2 (age 36).

I would hold off ttcing until after the honeymoon though.

Dollop56 · 21/12/2019 21:45

Hi everyone! I was on the pill for about 10 years and I stopped taking it in July last year.
Since then I have had normal periods but have been trying to get pregnant since August. I feel like it’s taking ages. I’m 27. Any advice???

Sammyclaire22 · 21/12/2019 21:10

At 32 It took us 12 months and then it was ectopic so I lost my left tube too. I managed to conceive the month after and now have a 16mo, and I'm on cycle 3 of ttc no2. I personally wouldn't wait if its something you both really want as you dont know how long it will take. I have always had really regular cycles and tracked my fertile window etc etc, oh had tests done for another reason so no idea why it took so long 1st time and I'm assuming this time will be even longer if it happens for us at all (I'm 34 now)

Bringiton2019 · 21/12/2019 21:04

TTC for 8 months with first at 33 ( unfortunately baby was born sleeping)

Aged 34, started TTC for 13 months, we had NHS investigations and DH (now ex) had very low sperm. Referred for IVF but when I went for first appointment I was pregnant.......with twins!!!!

Good luck, don't stress. Congratulations on your wedding x

BabyMoonPie · 21/12/2019 21:02

I think geriatric is 40 now! It took me 8 months to conceive aged 35/36. Now trying for number 2 - I'm 39 and we're into month 12.

Winterdaysarehere · 21/12/2019 20:55

First month ttc at 37.
Second month at 42.

Nat6999 · 21/12/2019 20:54

I also had 4 miscarriages after ds, the last one I was 44 who I lost at 15 weeks. I have been diagnosed with several auto immune diseases & endometriosis, all of which contribute to miscarriages. If you do have the misfortune to suffer any miscarriages, ask to be checked out for auto immune disorders as they are very common in women who suffer miscarriages, but most are easily managed to aid a succesful pregnancy.

3GIANTSTRAWBERRIES · 21/12/2019 20:52

9 months both times, first time I was 36, second time I was 38. Good luck x

Nat6999 · 21/12/2019 20:47

I was 6 weeks off my 38th birthday when ds was born. It took us 18 months to get pregnant to term, I had 2 early miscarriages the year before, the first I didn't realise I was pregnant until the miscarriage, we were getting married a month later & I had just put my late period down to pre wedding stress, I started in pain at work, went to the toilet & realised something wasn't right, a trip to A & E later I knew I was miscarrying. The second one I had a positive test one week & a week later had a very heavy period like bleed, it was a chemical pregnancy. We had just been referred to the fertility clinic when I found out I was pregnant with ds, we had been married 9 months when i found out.

doublebarrellednurse · 21/12/2019 20:46

Should add I'm 31w pregnant now and THAT pregnancy took two years

Was 24 with DS13 and took 3 months to conceive him.

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