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11dpo and BFN

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NicoleR14 · 17/12/2019 19:50

Me again I'm becoming a burden on this site I think 🙄 lol, 11dpo is it still too early to test? Had BFN at 9dpo and again tonight with an amazon cheapie but having bad cramping in lower belly between my legs and lower/middle back feeling bloated and very sore nipples to touch I have never had cramps before AF! AF due on 21st am I out this month? Had no implantation bleeding so l presumed I was out would love any advice please! Thanks in advance!

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ArjaD · 29/02/2020 18:32

So storm Jorge is in the UK? Nice and sunny here in Spain, was sunbathing while the wee guy had his nap today 🤣 how's everyone doing? Fertile week coming up next week for me.

ttc999 · 29/02/2020 16:04

Hey, I’m 7 dpo, but not thinking too much at the moment... how about you? Xx

Donnat89 · 29/02/2020 15:40

I'm so glad all my hormones seem to have settled down again I feel sane again haha . Fingers crossed for everyone in their next cycle xxx

dizzy85 · 29/02/2020 15:32

@Bbutterfly hope your doing ok too

dizzy85 · 29/02/2020 15:31

@NicoleR14 hello, how come your hormones are all over the place? I'm about 2/3 DPO now not really anything going on yet it's usually the second week the madness starts. Hope your ok.

@ArjaD hope your having a lovely time in sunny Spain you picked the right time to go we have storm George over here now 😂

@Sungirl11 that's great you have a decent dr that actually sounds like she cares too hard to find these days. I'm on iron tablets aswell as I have anaemia I hate taking them.

@ttc999 how many DPO are you now?

@Donnat89 happy dtd times 😄

@Nmew glad to hear everything went well at your scan 🥰

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NicoleR14 · 29/02/2020 13:50

@donnat89 that's good I think my predicted ovulation is the 13th of March! But will get dtd soon
@ttc99 It was hard not to do one! I did test a day before af but I'm not sure what implantation cramps are supposed to feel like sorry I'm not more help!

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ttc999 · 29/02/2020 13:10

I’m just trying to relax and trying not to do a pregnancy test... how do you guys manage to stop yourselves? Also what are implantation cramps supposed to feel like? Are they light cramps or just mild sharp twinges?

Donnat89 · 29/02/2020 08:38

@NicoleR14 all good here AF now finished so lots of DTD again xxx

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NicoleR14 · 29/02/2020 08:23

@ttc99 sorry!

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NicoleR14 · 29/02/2020 08:23

Sorry I'm been a bit Mia 😂 now on cycle day 4 af has stopped I'm still quiet sore with it but apparently because my hormones is all over the place and trying to get back to normal it's fine! @ArjaD enjoy your holiday make sure you get in loads of dtd 😉 @sungirl11 I'm so glad they are doing something for you now it can take so long and so many Dr's just wave it by like your silly and you know nothing but we all know our own bodies and how we feel we know when something is wrong but they brush us off like we're stupid so I'm glad one of them has actually listened to you and is going to help! @dizzy85 @donnat89 @ttc how are you all getting on?

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ArjaD · 28/02/2020 13:38

Hols from sunny Spain! Gearing up for plenty dtd 😂🇪🇸 how are we all? Great to hear about the GP being so helpful, I think we all need one like that!

Sungirl11 · 28/02/2020 00:35

Hi girls, i finally had the chance to see my GP. She is new and said that the blood test i had done in Aug was not complete, more things should of been looked at. So she has requested a full blood test and will also look at progesterone etc... and she suggested to get my husbands sperm tested too. She also said the period was not normal for so long so has told me to take iron tablets and will see if everything is ok with my blood (which i have two extractions, one two days into my next period and the other a week before the following period).
If anything is abnormal i suggest you visit the GP as i found she was really helpful and coaching in this adventure!
Meanwhile we are still trying haha
How are you all doing? I believe we have all just gone through period so around ovulation or just before right? Good luck to all!! Happy hubbies these days 😊

ttc999 · 27/02/2020 14:23

And of course I’m guessing you’ve done a pregnancy test before your period... xx

ttc999 · 27/02/2020 14:11

Also stress can affect your periods too... but as I don’t know your background etc. I would definitely suggest seeing your gp, good luck xxx

Donnat89 · 27/02/2020 14:01

@NicoleR14 I agree with @ttc999 if it's not normal I would contact your GP and get it checked out . Xx

ttc999 · 27/02/2020 13:03

Hi, would advise if you’ve noticed a change in your periods, would be an idea to book with your gp for bloods to ensure you’re not anaemic and potentially an ultrasound to just double check things xx

dizzy85 · 27/02/2020 12:01

@Bbutterfly we've definitely been busy dtd 😆 we managed the last 7 days but had one day off between might do tonight and tomorrow for extra luck then I need a rest 😂

@ArjaD hope you have a lovely holiday and let's hope it brings you luck for your bfp

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NicoleR14 · 26/02/2020 22:37

@ArjaD it sounds lovely hopefully being on holiday helps everything relax and your body decides to conceive! I have a question and wondering if anyone has had this the last 2 periods I've had have been quiet easy not too sore but today I am in alot of pain and af didn't start properly until around 12pm and came quiet heavy filled a pad within an hour but now has basically stopped and only when wiping it's more pinky red no clots but I'm still in quiet a bit of pain.. Any ideas?

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ttc999 · 26/02/2020 22:19

Aww everyone going on holiday such a good idea! We’re not away until May, but it’s so much more relaxed on holiday! I really do think stress affects fertility Angry

ArjaD · 26/02/2020 19:19

@NicoleR14 going to Alicante tomorrow. Fertile week starts around the 4th of March so we'll get busy over there 😂😂😂 back on the 6th. I really hope to see some bfps in March. It's been a while!

Donnat89 · 26/02/2020 16:32

@Bbutterfly I'm the same I am just counting down to ovulation 🤣🤣 I hopefully only have 2 days left of AF . Fingers crossed for everyone trying again this month ! Least we can all be crazy together during the next TWW

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NicoleR14 · 26/02/2020 16:23

At least we all have the joys of getting to dtd and wait for ovulation 😂 going to order some opks so I can get checking again I wish I could shorten my cycle so I wasn't waiting so long to ovulate again! @ArjaD where are you off to on holiday again?

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Bbutterfly · 26/02/2020 16:15

@Nmew that's lovely and has gone so quick! I hope the nausea wears off for you soon. Hopefully we will all be joining you soon with our bfp!
@dizzy85 you've definitely caught it then! Go get busy 😂 @NicoleR14 sorry you're af turned up, I'm already waiting for ovulation day lol only on cd2. Here we go again xxx

Nmew · 26/02/2020 15:36

Hi @ArjaD I’m doing ok, lots of nausea, appetite has disappeared and always tired lol but grateful all the same that everything is fine so far! I had an early scan and all was well. Currently at 8+4.

Sorry to hear of the bfn and the witch returning for you ladies. Fingers crossed this cycle has some baby dust floating around for you all! I’m a little quiet in the chat but I keep an eye in hopes I hear of some lovely bfp soon!

ArjaD · 26/02/2020 15:28

Good luck girls! @Nmew How's the pregnancy? How far along now? ❤️❤️

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