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11dpo and BFN

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NicoleR14 · 17/12/2019 19:50

Me again I'm becoming a burden on this site I think 🙄 lol, 11dpo is it still too early to test? Had BFN at 9dpo and again tonight with an amazon cheapie but having bad cramping in lower belly between my legs and lower/middle back feeling bloated and very sore nipples to touch I have never had cramps before AF! AF due on 21st am I out this month? Had no implantation bleeding so l presumed I was out would love any advice please! Thanks in advance!

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NicoleR14 · 23/12/2019 19:40

@ArjaD thank you! Fingers crossed it's really there I'm scared to think it's real 😂!

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ArjaD · 23/12/2019 19:30

I see it. Exactly like mine when i was pregnant with my boy ❤️❤️❤️❤️ I am super super excited for you!!!!!

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NicoleR14 · 23/12/2019 19:26

@ArjaD I had taken another one about an hour ago and a very faint line came up straight away I think it could be possible! Need to retest in the morning not telling the hubby yet until I know for sure!

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ArjaD · 23/12/2019 19:21

I see a line!!!!!!!!!! 🙏🙏🙏🙏

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NicoleR14 · 23/12/2019 17:15

I haven't I've just got the one steps! I'm going to retest with one of those in the morning if another line comes up I'll get a frer! I'm hoping it's not an indent 🤞🏼x

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everpessimistic · 23/12/2019 17:10

@NicoleR14 I can see what you mean but I think it’s just an indent 😭 have you got a FRER

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NicoleR14 · 23/12/2019 16:13

Am I going crazy imagining (wishfully thinking) there's a line on this one step test? Someone help please I feel like I'm going mad I said I wasn't going to test again but these came in the post today!

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NicoleR14 · 23/12/2019 13:26

I agree hun! I've stopped testing and just waiting for af to arrive as I've had bfns since 11dpo! It's Christmas I think it's time for a Malibu and lemonade there's always next cycle but as they say your not out until af arrives!

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everpessimistic · 23/12/2019 12:48

Still no BFP! I’m not due AF yet I imagine she will show up somewhere between tomorrow and the 27th 😭 I’m stopping testing now because this morning put me in such a bad mood when I got the negative and I don’t want to overshadow Christmas by feeling sad

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NicoleR14 · 23/12/2019 11:29

@Nmew I haven't tested this morning but still no af for me either she's now 3 days late 🙄!

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Nmew · 23/12/2019 11:07

Morning ladies, another frer with a bfn this morning I think. Still no AF

Anyone else?

Nmew · 22/12/2019 21:54

Aww sorry @everpessimistic fx for you.

No sign of AF for me yet either.

I guess we will see what tomorrow brings!

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NicoleR14 · 22/12/2019 16:35

Hopefully some of us get a bfp this month there's no way we're all getting negatives! Still getting cm but no sign of af frightened to test again incase it's bfn!

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ArjaD · 22/12/2019 15:38

Aw 😢😢

everpessimistic · 22/12/2019 14:10

BFN 🙄

Nmew · 22/12/2019 14:07

The worst kind of waiting game! Fx for you @NicoleR14 I’ve also heard about people getting bfp late too. Time will tell x

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NicoleR14 · 22/12/2019 13:03

Hopefully! I've lost hope I don't think I am pregnant I think it's just a waiting game for af 😢 x

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ArjaD · 22/12/2019 12:26

I read a few stories where ladies didn't get a bfp till they were like a week overdue so fx xxx

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NicoleR14 · 22/12/2019 12:24

I got another bfn this morning 😢!

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ArjaD · 22/12/2019 11:43

@Nmew aw i was super happy there for a mo lol!! It's still possible, I'm really hoping it will be bfp!! Fx fx fx

Nmew · 22/12/2019 11:01

BFN* lol 😂 even my typos are doing some wishful thinking!

Nmew · 22/12/2019 10:38

No AF yet today ladies, did a frer on fmu and I’m like 99% sure it’s a bfp. Thought I might have saw the tiniest of tiny something but reckon it’s just indent/evap or my crazy hopeful line eyes lol will see if AF shows up any later today.

How’s everyone else doing?

Nmew · 22/12/2019 00:32

I totally understand, it’s such a lot of pressure we put on ourselves. I feel like we have all these expectations and have just never really been shown a realistic view on how hard ttc can be when all we see is bfp and get told from a young age how easy it is and how careful we need to be. And just really wanting a family on top of that just makes it super tough!

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NicoleR14 · 22/12/2019 00:16

@Nmew it does cost far too much I bought some hgc strip tests off amazon and cb from home bargains 2 tests for £4 I thought was good considering it's £9 for 2 in boots but after my bfn tonight I'm scared to test tomorrow af is currently 2 days late and I'm starting to worry incase there's something wrong with me and with me and DH being so set on ttc I feel like I'm letting him down!

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Nmew · 22/12/2019 00:13

Becomes so costly @NicoleR14 I got some frer since they are on offer, have some ic and a cb digital. And I am not buying anymore, so if AF comes I’ll just have to not test loads! Might get DH to hide them lol

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