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11dpo and BFN

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NicoleR14 · 17/12/2019 19:50

Me again I'm becoming a burden on this site I think 🙄 lol, 11dpo is it still too early to test? Had BFN at 9dpo and again tonight with an amazon cheapie but having bad cramping in lower belly between my legs and lower/middle back feeling bloated and very sore nipples to touch I have never had cramps before AF! AF due on 21st am I out this month? Had no implantation bleeding so l presumed I was out would love any advice please! Thanks in advance!

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Nmew · 17/01/2020 18:01

I don’t blame you ladies for testing, it’s so hard not to. I still have 8days until AF is due and I’m not sure I’ll make it that long lol

Bbutterfly · 17/01/2020 14:41

@Trying93 trust us we know that 😂we are just lunatics who like to throw away money.
@ArjaD I hope you are right. It will be my first so I've got no idea what to expect at all xxxx

ArjaD · 17/01/2020 12:52

@Bbutterfly i had not a single symptom my first pregnancy. It was a total surprise to me then to get a bfp. So no symptoms could be great news!

ArjaD · 17/01/2020 12:51

You're right. Just wish I could convince my brain of this. 🤣🤣 No more wasting tests, that's it. Af shows or not. That's that.

Trying93 · 17/01/2020 12:36

Testing at 9dpo is far too early. Very small percentage of women get a BFP that early, you just need to read posts on this site to see this. Alot of people need to wait till AF is late to get a BFP

Wait till the day AF is due otherwise your just waiting money and getting disappointed.

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NicoleR14 · 17/01/2020 11:57

We always cave around the 8/9dpo and test at least we know there's still hope @ArjaD!

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ArjaD · 17/01/2020 11:53

Once again I crumbled last night and tested at 8dpo. Bfn of course. WHYYYYYY

Nmew · 17/01/2020 11:11

@Bbutterfly Well I’m 6dpo today so you can bet I’ll be on the symptom spotting train from here on out 😅
I’ve heard some good reviews of the preseed stuff @dizzy85 can’t do any harm trying it!

Bbutterfly · 17/01/2020 09:03

Morning ladies
@Nmew join the non existent symptom spotting club me and @ArjaD are pros lol
I'm feeling nothing just completely normal no symptoms what so ever I can't even make one up out of something that barely exists lol. I'm going to wait until af due to test... I 🤔. when was you thinking of testing? @dizzy85 yes enjoy your weekend with lots of wine and start again next month... after mall it is valentines month! Xxx

ArjaD · 17/01/2020 08:51

@Bbutterfly how are you feeling?

ArjaD · 17/01/2020 08:51

@dizzy85 maybe a larger concentration of sperm? No idea... We'll see what happens! Still trying to resist testing, 9dpo today and feeling a bit crampy. Hoping it's not af.
@NicoleR14 that's so odd about the boobs. Maybe it's a stress thing?

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NicoleR14 · 16/01/2020 22:47

I bought the his and hers pregnancare vitamins for me and dh have been taking pregnancare pre conception since October but dh started 31st of December in fact I think it's made him want to dtd less than usual! Haven't had a positive opk yet but boobs still been extremely sore even my bra rubbing against them is so painful! Can't get rid of it at all having one of those nights I think! How's everyone else getting on x

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dizzy85 · 16/01/2020 22:18

@ArjaD oh I wonder why it does that? Maybe it helps the sperm get stronger so they can swim faster 😁

ArjaD · 16/01/2020 21:44

At the risk of tmi, my hubby is trying vitamin c as this is supposed to boost sperm count. But it makes it a bit rubbery 🤣🤣🤣

dizzy85 · 16/01/2020 20:31

@Nmew I'll try anything at this point 🤣 I've just been looking at preseed stuff too i might give that a go aswell.

Nmew · 16/01/2020 16:32

Worth a try @dizzy85! I started some vitamins this time, folic and vitamin D. But if I have no luck this cycle I may get the his and hers too!

dizzy85 · 16/01/2020 14:47

Thankyou all, not nice but I'll be ok onwards and upwards, I'm gonna enjoy the chocolate some wine and some peace of not thinking about it for about 5 days lol then back to it. I'm buying the pregnacare his and hers today as I conceived the month I took them so ya never know 😆. Lots of bfp baby dust to everyone x

ArjaD · 16/01/2020 11:34

Aw sorry @dizzy85. Mother nature plays by her rules 😞 8dpo now and desperately resisting testing!!!

Nmew · 16/01/2020 10:38

Hoping so much for you both @ArjaD and @Bbutterfly So you don’t have to wait!

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NicoleR14 · 16/01/2020 10:25

@dizzy85 sorry to hear that hun! I don't think any of us got our bfp last month so fingers crossed there's at least 1 this month!

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Nmew · 16/01/2020 10:21

Aww sorry @dizzy85 fingers crossed for next cycle, enjoy your chocolate!

dizzy85 · 16/01/2020 06:29

Morning ladies, well that's me out this month the ugly witch is here 😭 depressing but at least now I know I can stop guessing. I'll be watching out for all your bfps 🤞🏻and be stuffing my face with chocolate for the next few days whilst planning which way to tackle the next cycle 😆

ArjaD · 15/01/2020 20:59

@Bbutterfly my date somehow is predicted for the 9th, must be because I had a 32 day cycle last month. I am crossing everything for us, but i am passed the stress now. I think eventually things sort of even out à bit 😂 two months of no unromantic DTD may bring the mood back a bit lol

Bbutterfly · 15/01/2020 20:14

Haha @ArjaD just caught up on the chat and I'm doing the same paranoid symptom spotting 🤣 got a couple of spots on my cheek and even though I could only dtd once when I got my positive opk Im still really hoping it's my lucky month! Don't worry about next month, our days fall on the same 10th/11th feb? Hubby is also planning to travel for work and it's those days too! Hopefully the universe will give us our bfp this month so we don't have to miss out next month. Plus yours came home on the perfect day for you this month so it might be fate! @dizzy85 fingers crossed af doesn't turn up for you. It's so annoying isn't it when you get to the point of just wanting her to arrive to just get on with it.
@NicoleR14 hope you get your positive opk soon! Xxx

ArjaD · 15/01/2020 17:02

How's you @Bbutterfly?
Aw I hope af stays Away @dizzy85 - I just realised hubby is away for his offshore shifts during fertile weeks in Feb and Mar so if no luck this month, that's us for a while 😞

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