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11dpo and BFN

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NicoleR14 · 17/12/2019 19:50

Me again I'm becoming a burden on this site I think 🙄 lol, 11dpo is it still too early to test? Had BFN at 9dpo and again tonight with an amazon cheapie but having bad cramping in lower belly between my legs and lower/middle back feeling bloated and very sore nipples to touch I have never had cramps before AF! AF due on 21st am I out this month? Had no implantation bleeding so l presumed I was out would love any advice please! Thanks in advance!

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NicoleR14 · 19/01/2020 10:15

I think it was wishful thinking anyway I haven't even ovulated I have no idea where I am in my cycle thank you @ArjaD! When will you be testing?

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ArjaD · 19/01/2020 10:03

Aw no, sorry @NicoleR14 😞😞

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NicoleR14 · 19/01/2020 09:57

Bfn's for me this morning I really thought there was a line on that one strip test last night! I must of got a faulty batch of them 😢

11dpo and BFN
11dpo and BFN
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ArjaD · 19/01/2020 07:14

@NicoleR14 I'm sooo excited, really hoping your test this morning is a bfp! 🤞🤞🤞

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NicoleR14 · 18/01/2020 21:44

I've got a 3 pack of clear blue in the house but I'm scared to use them because they are notorious for evaps also!

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Nmew · 18/01/2020 21:40

Aww @dizzy85 I’m so sorry to hear that, I hope you can get it all sorted ASAP with the docs!

@NicoleR14 I Definitely feel like I can see something too! Could be worth a frer tomorrow?

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NicoleR14 · 18/01/2020 21:40

Not yet I'm going to wait till morning and retest with fmu! I hope it's not an evap🤞🏼

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dizzy85 · 18/01/2020 21:36

@NicoleR14 I think I can see something too 🤞🏻have you done another test?

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NicoleR14 · 18/01/2020 21:26

I picked up the wrong one I have the opks and pg tests in the same drawer it wasn't until I had dipped I had seen it was the pregnancy test and it had a line straight away but v faint I haven't even ovulated this month I wouldn't even know how many dpo I am!

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ArjaD · 18/01/2020 21:21

I think i see a line !!!!

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NicoleR14 · 18/01/2020 21:19

Ladies am I going mad or is there a line? X

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11dpo and BFN
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dizzy85 · 18/01/2020 20:40

@ArjaD oh I see haha 😂 well hopefully you can hold out 😆

ArjaD · 18/01/2020 20:10

Oh don't get me wrong, I tested at 8dpo and regretted it 😂 so waiting now. No more till af is due x

dizzy85 · 18/01/2020 18:56

@ArjaD I really hope so, I know it's so frustrating I'm gonna have a good chat with the doctor on the 6th but means I'll just have to not try this cycle as the fertile weeks before the appointment 🙄. Oh wow you've done good to not test yet, when do you think you'll test?

ArjaD · 18/01/2020 18:52

@dizzy85 ooooh no I'm so sorry 😔 let's hope they can treat it without surgery. So many things are impeding baby making atm, the world seems to be going mad.
I'm 10dpo and trying to hold off testing.

dizzy85 · 18/01/2020 18:34

Hey everyone, hope alls good, has anyone tested yet or anything?

Well I'm now feeling quite crappy, basically found out 6 years ago I had a gallstone and they said I'd probably have to have my gallbladder removed which I decided to just leave it and see how it goes but recently I've been having constant pains, only mild but enough to notice it's there have got drs on the 6th of feb but pretty sure their gonna tell me to have it out and now OH thinks we should put ttc on hold incase I need surgery which I know is the right thing to do but obviously I don't want that, but I'm probably gonna have to go on a waiting list which will all take however many months, I'm gutted coz I don't want it out and I just wanna keep trying 😭😭😭

ArjaD · 18/01/2020 17:10

😂😂😂😂 OMG some men hahahaha

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NicoleR14 · 18/01/2020 16:48

@ArjaD I agree I threatened him with that earlier I could understand if this was our second and he wasn't too bothered but its our first time ttc so he has been told he will be attacked made to get baby dancing and not just by me which made it so much worse 😂😂

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ArjaD · 18/01/2020 16:33

@NicoleR14 kick his butt 😂😂 steal the keys and tell him he can have them back once you're pregnant 😂

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NicoleR14 · 18/01/2020 15:26

@Nmew your lucky mines is more interested in his new Morris minor he bought he absolutely loves it he's been spending all his time fixing it up for the old car shows this year! Ladies can evaps be green when inverted?

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ArjaD · 18/01/2020 12:49

Aw @NicoleR14 why is hubby refusing? Mine is so exciting that I've finally agreed to a second baby I can hardly keep him Away! I've had months too with no cm and no pos opk. Not sure what that means, i guess it's possible we don't ovulate every month, or the eggs just hide better sometimes I hope 🥚🤞🤞

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NicoleR14 · 18/01/2020 11:04

@sunshinexx95 congratulations on your bfp! How many weeks are you now?

@Nmew hopefully I haven't had any cm either I'm worried my body won't ovulate this month at all and I'll be out before I even start haven't dtd for 5 days now and dh is basically refusing so I doubt I have much a chance this month anyway!

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Nmew · 18/01/2020 10:14

I have only been doing opks for 2 cycles @NicoleR14 so I don’t have much experience. Though both cycles were totally different results on opks for me. Hopefully it’s just a fluke cycle or bad opk batch or something xx

@Sunshinexx95 huge congratulations on your bfp! And thank you for the tips, I have been thinking of trying acupuncture if this cycle is a bfn. Wishing you a happy healthy pregnancy x

7dpo here and symptom spotting is slowly creeping it’s way in lol heartburn, which let’s be honest was due to something I ate, but a gal can hope lol

Sunshinexx95 · 18/01/2020 08:03

Hi guys, SmileBear
I was on this thread in December and then fell pregnant when I least expected it with stress at work and stuff but I didn't obsess that much about getting pregnant in December. I still thought of getting pregnant but I didn't constantly do ovulation tests. I only did them once I though I am ovulating and that is all.

So I just wanted to tell you why I think I got pregnant. This is crazy but I don't know if this has anything to do with me getting pregnant.

First of all that month in December

  1. I stopped obsessing but didn't stop thinking of course that is impossible
  2. Me and DH started eating Manuka honey the strongest ( I know there r rumours it doesn't work but my mum told me to try it anyways)
  3. I did acupuncture and she told me that my lower back was locked. And that I might be able to get pregnant this month. I laughed and said yeah sure, what ever if I get pregnant I will let u know. But I could feel difference when I left the acupuncture. I could feel some kind of uterus cramps just like the blood was rushing down just minutes after I left, I thought I was imaging it to be honest. And I did the acupuncture one day before ovulation.
  1. I did some massage ... and she said ur lower back is very tense. I thought that couldn't be a coincidence..

So honestly of all three I think all of them worked. I can't tell what exactly did the magic.. but if I have to choose I would probably say that Manuka honey worked for my husband and acupuncture for me. Because my husband was feeling full of energy that month.

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NicoleR14 · 17/01/2020 22:33

Starting to get a bit worried now on cycle day 22 have had no cm or positive opk is there something wrong with me? Has anyone had this problem before 😢?

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