2020 Bumps (hopefully ;) )

@Lucy5546 thank you. If you weren't doing opks or temping then it's possible you ovulated later I suppose but if you were tracking CM that's usually a good indication. I understand your reluctance to test and be disappointed. But at the end of the day it's the only way you'll know. x

@mrsio ah wow i didnt realise you were pregnant. Congratulations 😁.
No i just tracked CM, cramping and cervix. OPKs and temping would just stress me out. No i haven't tested yet because i am so afraid of another BFN. My nipples are slightly more sensitive than last month but i know they can differ from cycle to cycle. I have had a bit of cramping on and off the last two weeks but i was away and eating things i dont normally etc so i haven't paid much attention!

@Lucy5546 were you tracking ovulation with either opk or temping? Or are you just going by the dates O on an app? Have you taken a HPT? It's really impossible to say what CM or symptoms mean. I'm currently 6 weeks pregnant and the only symptoms so far are slightly sore nipples and some very mild cramping on and off x

@debbs77 I felt exactly like that. I got pregnant the first month with my first. Then when I didn't get pregnant the first month this time I was like what the hell! I've turned 35 since having my son and my cycles felt different this time so I started panicking that we might have issues. I have ended up getting pregnant on the second cycle when we only DTD once and I thought we might have missed O! I know it's easier said than done but the best thing you can do is try and relax about it x

@MrsC89 how are you doing?

*i dont have mich symptoms

Hey ladies i haven't posted on here in a while but i always find this thread so helpful. I need some input. I am currently about 19 DPO CD34. Im not long off the pill but my last two cycles were 29 and 32 days. I track my cervix and CM. The only difference this month is my cervix is quite high and hard. I dont have much CM but when i do its like water. I have much symptoms. I am guessing AF is late due to me being out of my normal routine. Any thoughts??

Happy new year everyone!!!

So after getting AF last month which I found surprisingly upsetting, we are onto the next month of trying. I've ovulated over the last few days and we have been having sex twice a day every day, sometimes three times. If it doesn't work then I've no idea what more we can do!

I've always fallen pregnant first time every time with my other children (different relationships from my amazing fiance now), but it took my fiance and his ex wife 5 years to conceive their daughter (however, not known if this was an issue with him, her, or whether she continued to take the pill in private).

The waiting is awful. I don't like wishing my life away each month, or the obsession I feel with testing.

We have given ourselves until May, due to our ages. If it doesn't happen before then then we will stop trying. If we have another miscarriage then we won't try again for another baby.

Hoping you're all doing well xxx

@mrsio thank you. I used the clear blue, still nothing on it, but also no AF. Post hasnt arrived yet, so not sure if the FRER will be here today.

@GeminiCancer I'm sorry to hear that. I'll keep everything crossed for this cycle 🤞🤞🤞
I'm not feeling too bad thanks. Just really tired. Waiting for the symptoms to hit any day. Trying to enjoy not having them whilst also not panicking that I don't have any!

@MrsC89 I know I should tell you to wait a couple of days and see if AF shows. But in reality I would defo be taking one of the tests today if it were me. I'll keep everything crossed for you 🤞🤞🤞

@Mrsio
I started bleeding 2 days ago.
This would have been when my period would have been due.
I'm assuming it was a false positive and the hcg hadn't left my system yet following m/c.

Try again soon xo
How are things with you? X

@mrsio I have got another clear blue, but hesitant to use it. I should have some FRER arriving tomorrow in the post. Just a waiting game for me right now to see if AF does show!

@GeminiCancer have you done any more tests?

@MrsC89 I'm so sorry. It could be a chemical. Have you got any more tests to take?

@itsbeenalongtime I'm pretty sure I can see I line!

So little update from me, decided to test this morning again with FMU, couldn't get a FRER, but used a clear blue early detection. Couldn't see anything on it. AF was due today, no sign. So I'm thinking chemical?

@itsbeenalongtime How exciting! 🤞🤞🤞

Thanks @Mangaroo Hopefully it'll be a little clearer in a few days 👏🏻

@itsbeenalongtime I can see it clearly!!!

Inverted maybe shows it a little clearer?

Is it just wishful thinking or can anyone else see something?

@mumworkstudywine Exciting! We are also trying for the second. No luck yet but hopefully soon. 🤞

Hi @Mangaroo! This will be my second, hubby's first. I have a 7y/o DS from a previous relationship :)

Hello @mumworkstudywine ! Good luck, hope your bfp comes soon. Is this your first time ttc?