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2020 Bumps (hopefully ;) )

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Skygirl1983 · 16/12/2019 16:00

Thread number 4!!

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Skygirl1983 · 17/12/2019 12:03

@Blondeandbroody me neither seeing as my AF isnt due until the 27th!! 😂😂 and if I do poas on xmas day and its positive I cant drink any prosecco 😂

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Blondeandbroody · 17/12/2019 11:16

@Skygirl1983 mines not 😭😭😭. 😂😂😂 I wouldn't announce in Christmas Day anyways so it's probably right haha x

Skygirl1983 · 17/12/2019 11:10

My name is the first on the list!!

2020 Bumps (hopefully ;) )
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Littlepea90 · 17/12/2019 10:34

@Skygirl1983 I’m just glad there’s other women who are planners. I had a women in work keep saying it’ll just happen, don’t stress, it happened so quick with me. Well good for you Sue Hmm going to start the okp next week, I’ve bought 100, think I’ll have enough Confused

Littlepea90 · 17/12/2019 10:30

@mellymoo86 ooh good luck! No I’ll be ttc next week and over NY so hopefully January good news. It definitely is a waiting game, but I have little patience Confused

Skygirl1983 · 17/12/2019 10:19

Welcome to all the new ladies. Feel free to join in our obsessing!! Sending huge clouds of baby dust to us all for 2020!

@stepmumma91 love the scan. Hope you are keeping well. Definitely stick with us and keep us posted with how you are doing.

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nt1992 · 17/12/2019 09:49

Thank you @sojo44 @Blondeandbroody fingers crossed I get peace of mind soon!

sojo44 · 17/12/2019 09:41

@nt1992 a line is still a line!! Keeping my fingers and toes crossed for you! 🥳

@CiaraJ01 40min flight! Ha! Then it's definitely all about those free duty free samples! ✨✨ we fly to Scandinavia (my part of the world) after Christmas so I'll definitely be doing the same if I haven't ovulated by then!

@Littlepea90 I'm only on CD 3 today, desperate to get AF over and done with now and ready to track ovulation

@Mrssendy omg yes! I had a friend as well who got pregnant first time without even trying (and much faster to what she even expected) and she keeps telling me to relax and not to think about it. Grrrrrr! If only it was so easy 😂😂 good luck to you as well! Xx

It's awful this time of year isn't it, trying to balance Christmas festivities and being good for TTC!

Blondeandbroody · 17/12/2019 09:38

@nt1992 exciting! Fingers crossed for you that they get darker so you can relax ❤️

I took an IC this AM cause that's all I have left and I am resisting the urge to go buy more until Thursday... BFN not even a sniff of a line.

Still hoping it's just too soon, AF due tomorrow so we shall see if she arrives!! I have this horrid feeling now that she is gonna show. 😞

The only thing giving me a shred of hope still is my boobs, they are ALWAYS sore every single time before AF without fail even on some months when I didn't have an AF bleed on the pill I still knew when I should be having one cause my boobs would be sore... and even now day before they're fine, not a little bit sore or tender.

Dunno what it means but it's different so it gives me hope lol.

nt1992 · 17/12/2019 09:23

@CiaraJ01 I've had lines on FRERs & Asda's own, faint lines but they are there. I think I'll remain on the edge until they are super dark I'm just a worrier😂 thanks😘

CiaraJ01 · 17/12/2019 09:14

@nt1992 a line is a line!! 🥳 Wjat test was it? Everyones different so if evening works for you then go for it!

@Mrssendy oh that sounds interesting. We have no plan 😂 We do it for fun and then once I get a +OPK we DTD as much as possible so more than once a day if we can or every day as a minimum. Might try your method if I don't get a BFP this week! I've had trouble sleeping this last few weeks on and off, falling asleep and staying asleep. So I was listening to pink noise originally to try switch off. But now just a ten minute sleep meditation before bed... does the trick!

@sojo44 Lol it's a 40 min flight so forget the airplane, itll be duty free singing its Chriiiistmas! 😂

nt1992 · 17/12/2019 09:13

@mellymoo86 thank you, it's all a long waiting game 😂

mellymoo86 · 17/12/2019 09:11

@Littlepea90 Hi there 😊 I plan to test this coming Sunday. How about you?

mellymoo86 · 17/12/2019 09:10

@CiaraJ01 Yup just one hole! 😁 Are you in holiday mode yet?

@nt1992 Hmm that's odd. As if ttc wasnt already messing with our heads, now this. Keep hopes up, it still sounds promising and I hope the sticks get darker 🤞🏽

Littlepea90 · 17/12/2019 09:09

Anyone testing later this month or ovulating? Hoping for some Christmas announcements Smile

nt1992 · 17/12/2019 08:43

Thanks girls! @stepmumma91 @Mrssendy

stepmumma91 · 17/12/2019 08:41

@nt1992 I was 5 weeks before I got any decent line on an FRER so don't lose hope! If you're past AF date, you could try a digital? I got a positive digital the day AF was due.

@sojo44 thank you! Yeah all good here thanks. Lots of nausea but no sickness. Pretty tired and gone off loads of foods, but I can't complain really!

Mrssendy · 17/12/2019 08:41

@nt1992 good luck!! Hope the line will get stronger in the next few days! Keeping my fingers crossed tightly for you! Xx

@sojo44 oh my gosh I agree with you! I soooo want to slap people who say that! Envy someone I know who seems to have to just blink then boom she's pregnant said that to me and I so want something bad happen to her! Oh gosh I don't know how I become this horrible person since we TTC! Anyway! Good luck to you! Xx

Mrssendy · 17/12/2019 08:37

@ciaraJ01 hello! And thank you! TBH I still don't know if I understand completely about SMEP - but it standa for Sperm Meet Egg Plan so we DTD every other day after af finished then DTD on the day we get +OPK and then the next 3 days, and the. 1 day break, and 1 more day DTD. After that DTD during the TWW is just for fun. I still don't know if I understand it correctly but I thought might as well try, eh? Grin

What kind of meditation you're doing btw if you don't mind me asking? Xx

sojo44 · 17/12/2019 08:36

@CiaraJ01 fingers crossed for you!!! Otherwise make sure make the most of airplane wine!

@stepmumma91 aaah!!! Congrats! How are you feeling?

I decided to try Ovusense this cycle (or what we call the foof monitor 😜). Hopefully it'll be helpful with PCOS and all that.

Now I just need to try chill (easier said than done). "If you stop thinking about it, it'll happen" Ffs. I'm ready to slap the next person who tells me that. 😂

nt1992 · 17/12/2019 08:00

@stepmumma91 don't be silly! Your advice about the faint lines even after AF was due is a little reassuring because I'm going crazy here😂

stepmumma91 · 17/12/2019 07:57

@nt1992 not at all, sorry! I'm useless at that stuff 😂

nt1992 · 17/12/2019 07:54

@stepmumma91 my FRER arrive today. I seem to get clearer results at nights for some reason. Did you keep track of your CP?

stepmumma91 · 17/12/2019 07:46

@nt1992 I was getting really faint FRERs even after AF was due (So faint that I couldn't see a line but DH could). Was getting clear positives on CB though. Can you go to docs and ask for a blood test? horrible to be limbo not knowing what's going on!

nt1992 · 17/12/2019 07:41

Tested with FMU 2nd line is still very faint but this is the first I've had a 2nd line with FMU. Bit worried as it's not getting darker.

With my last pregnancy I was still getting faint but noticeable at 5/6 weeks pregnant.

Will that be next week if I am pregnant?

Sorry girls just trying to make sense of it 🤦🏽‍♀️