2020 Bumps (hopefully ;) )

@ChampooPapi if you have left before could you not have just left this one without saying anything to cause upset?? As i said in my previous post TTC is very stressful for anyone so to put somebody down like that when you dont really know them is just uncalled for.
Sometimes saying nothing is better than having a go at somebody!

We can comment, because you’ve deliberately offended someone else. So I highly doubt you were sending well wishes 🙄. There’s enough struggles for us all without us turning on each other. This thread is a safe space and personally it’s nice to unleash some of the crazy without being judged. To be honest what makes you judge and jury on how grateful someone should be from a few comments you’ve seen on here. You don’t know her personally. I’m sure she loves her child, we get that desire for a baby, so if she wants to moan she will.

@mellymoo86 I don’t know why, but all three of mine include the same three days days, but the other three days are all out from from each other. Like you said I’m inputting the same data 🤷🏾‍♀️ I’ll just have to cover all bases.

@nt1992 I've missed what was said but we support each other and that's the point of this thread. It's hard enough TTC and be a woman in general in this world- if someone doesnt like the content then find another thread but keep any other comments to yourself.

Dont let a bully win 💕

@nt1992 I didnt see the comment, but please dont leave because of someone that hasnt been with us through numerous new threads. We are all supporting you, and you would do the same for us 😍

Wow! What have I missed?! I can’t see the comment, but can see it was a nasty comment aimed at someone else.

@ChampooPapi you can’t just jump into a thread and abuse other members. Everyone is here is so nice and supportive, I get you might not agree with everything, but you don’t have to be nasty. Maybe this isn’t the thread for you 🤷🏾‍♀️

Hey ladies i commented on the previous thread a couple of time and have been keeping up with this one. After what i have read today i feel like i need to post. Some of the comments have been uncalled for. TTC is a stressful time for anyone. Regardless of how may children or pregnancies the person has had.
I have read previous threads this particular group have been on and the girls who have been on this for a while are all so lovely and supportive for everyone. I myself have seen other threads and have simply left because i didnt agree with some comments. I would never put another woman down that i only 'virtually know'. At the end of the day we are all on these threads for the same reason. Move on if you are not happy with the discussions.

@nt1992 dont leave because of one comment. You seem quite close to others on the thread. Dust yourself off and continue on being you.
Sorry for the long post!!

Everyone has their own struggle whether they are trying to conveive their first or their 10th! Just because you’ve been blessed with a child already doesn’t mean you can’t express your feelings or experiences TTC again. It’s not fair to expect someone to just suck it up and be grateful they already have a child/children. Then you might as well expect everyone to be more grateful in one way or another & where do you draw the line. Im personally TTC #1 and am around 6 cycles in now and perhaps I should be more grateful to be going through this journey without any diagnosis of any medical condition that could impact my chances of conceiving but that doesn’t mean I shouldn’t share my experiences and worries in my own journey as that appeared to be what the thread was for. We all have our own story and I don’t think anyone should be made to feel that theirs doesn’t matter or that they aren’t entitled to share it. I thought this was supposed to be a support network

@nt1992 don't go!! I have no issue with you posting I post just the same as you but if certain idiots don't like it then they can take themselves away from this thread. Or keep their opinions to themselves.

TTC is hard I'm in my first cycle and just had a big old winge I do feel bad doing it because I know other people have struggled for longer etc but that doesn't mean the way I feel is invalid. The way you feel is just as valid as anybody else. There's always somebody worse off or better off than you but that changes nothing! Please don't go x

@ChampooPapi you're an ass!

@ChampooPapi 👍🏼

@mrsio im not staying somewhere that people are talking about me. And that's all I'm going to think about now every time I check in😒

@ChampooPapi Please back off and leave her alone. Don't be so hateful.

@itsbeenalongtime that has really upset me that someone who doesn't know me at all can comment on my life and my children. I don't feel like I want to be here after that. I'm here for all the members just as much as they are for me. Thank you for your kind words

@ChampooPapi that was unnecessary. The whole point of this thread is to be a safe space where we can let out all the feelings/craziness.

@nt1992 don't go please x

@nt1992 Long time lurker here but couldn't help commenting after reading that post about you. Just nasty. I've got a son, it doesn't stop me being disappointed every month or mean that I enjoy being his mum any less! Post away...that's what this forum is here for. If others don't like it why do they follow?

@mellymoo86 @Blondeandbroody @CiaraJ01 @mrsio @Skygirl1983 @FutureMrsSmith @Louu99 @Mangaroo @PrettyGirl5545

Good luck to all your girls, I'm leaving this thread. I'm sorry if I have been a pain. I hope yous all get your BFPs soon.

Have a lovely Christmas & take care 😘

@ChampooPapi ok.. totally out of order.

Hey all! Hope everyone is well. To update I am now CD28. I had spotting CD24 & 25 then it stopped. I took a cheapie test I found in the drawer yesterday and BFN. Ive had an intense headache and some mild nausea the last 2 days but think I’m just symptom spotting or wishful thinking. AF came last month CD31 but because of the info I’ve inputted my Flo app has changed my predicted AF to CD 33 (25.12) so will just have to see. I have no cramps or swollen boobs so still a waiting game for my AF due date!