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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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2020 Bumps (hopefully ;) )

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Skygirl1983 · 16/12/2019 16:00

Thread number 4!!

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Littlepea90 · 19/12/2019 20:42

@nt1992 I’m done, this is ridiculous. I’m not even responding to that. I’m so annoyed.

Right girls I’m out for a few days, I’ve got my FW coming up and as supportive as you’ve been I’m not coming on here to see bs like that. I just want to concentrate on hopefully conceiving. Good luck to all you lovelies testing soon and I’ll pop back soon with a BFP 🤞🏾

nt1992 · 19/12/2019 20:35

@Vipie the fact you have just told to grown women to have a look at their maturity before becoming parents just proves that you are being rude.

Vipie · 19/12/2019 20:34

@nt1992 I wasn’t being mean, just saying she menarche next grateful that’s all. I think it’s pathetic that your trying to cut me out., what a supportive group!
@Blondeandbroody @littlepea90 your both very immature, maybe consider your attitude before becoming parents. This is a discussion and I’ve not been rude at all

nt1992 · 19/12/2019 20:29

@Littlepea90 thank you. Oh & you can roll your eyes as much as you want 🤪😂

Littlepea90 · 19/12/2019 20:27

@nt1992 completely agree, why join to be horrible to people. There’s always a bad apple (or two) but I agree with the other girls, don’t leave. We’ve got such a lovely community going here and I honestly think non of us would’ve been slagging you off. It doesn’t matter if you’ve had 1 child or 10 you’re on this journey with us.

nt1992 · 19/12/2019 20:06

@Unicornsparklez I meant to add, squating is the best way I find mine. Hope that helps

nt1992 · 19/12/2019 20:05

@FutureMrsSmith I think this will be a great idea.

No photo limits.
Better notifications.
And not just anyone can jump on.

FutureMrsSmith · 19/12/2019 20:02

Hi ladies!
Me and Nt1992 are moving over to a WhatsApp group. If you guys wants to join us then PERSONAL MESSAGE me your number and I can add you in 😊

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Skygirl1983 · 19/12/2019 20:02

@Unicornsparklez you can ask anything! I can never find my cervix but that's because mine is so far back! They need google maps to find it when they do my smear!! But I believe there are some videos on YouTube that can show you how!!

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nt1992 · 19/12/2019 19:45

@Unicornsparklez you can ask whatever you like here love!

It took me a while to find mine if I'm honest. I think it takes a few times to find and get used to.

But if the nurse struggles to find it then that could be why you're struggling too😆

Unicornsparklez · 19/12/2019 19:42

If it’s safe to ask here.. else I need to find a new thread 😂

I tried to locate my cervix after a bath today. By Lord is that sucker hard to find. Literally don’t know if I’m doing it wrong or it’s a good hider. To be fair all my smears in the past the nurses have had trouble finding it so that’s probably why I can’t find it myself...

Any tips on locating or shall I reside myself to the fact I can’t use that to help me learn about my cycle? Confused

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Skygirl1983 · 19/12/2019 19:39

People are entitled to have an opinion but theres no need to be nasty about it and clearly upset someone and get personal. Keep your shitty comments to yourself. Dont come on here and stir it up. This is not why these threads are created. They are here for support, advice and sometimes a bit of laugh!! No need for things to get personal!

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nt1992 · 19/12/2019 19:34

@Littlepea90 it really is like mean girls. Horrible how 1 person can turn such a lovely friendly thread upside down!

nt1992 · 19/12/2019 19:33

@FutureMrsSmith replied x

FutureMrsSmith · 19/12/2019 19:29

@nt1992 sent a private message. X

Littlepea90 · 19/12/2019 19:28

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nt1992 · 19/12/2019 19:26

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nt1992 · 19/12/2019 19:25

@Vipie I have not once made out that I am not grateful for what I have? I know I am blessed already! I don't need her to tell me that.

We're all here for the same reason and we were all fine until she shared her unnecessary and unwanted opinion.

Everyone is entitled to their say but sometimes it can be put a lot nicer.

Blondeandbroody · 19/12/2019 19:25

@Vipie I'm just calling a spade a spade love! No need for her to come into this thread and say what she said, to belittle somebody clearly having a tough time TTC, like we all are in our own way! Otherwise we wouldn't be here!

Blondeandbroody · 19/12/2019 19:23

@nt1992 if they do then they're just as bad as her!

You post what you want lovely I know I will and me and you are just as nuts as each other hahah

don't let it bother you! They're in the wrong, not you xxx

Vipie · 19/12/2019 19:23

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nt1992 · 19/12/2019 19:21

@Blondeandbroody apparently someone else in the thread has been referring to me on another thread saying the same things about me that she said earlier. I just don't know if I feel ok being here now if someone feels that way about me

Blondeandbroody · 19/12/2019 19:19

@nt1992 don't let some nasty person belittle you and your feelings. Your feelings matter and this is your place to vent without judgment. Only small minded people do what she did! We got you x

nt1992 · 19/12/2019 19:16

@Blondeandbroody still here just sitting at the back for now💕

Blondeandbroody · 19/12/2019 19:09

@nt1992 you still with us lovely? Xx