2020 Bumps (hopefully ;) )

WTF has happened people. This thread is for the people following & supporting each others journeys. I’m way too invested in everyone now for it to end, I want to see everyone get their BFPs first.
Some people are just idiots & say what they like without realising that there’s actual people’s feelings involved, would they say that to a persons face- probably not, it’s much easier to type whatever you want without worrying about the consequences. I can’t see the original messages but get the idea, it doesn’t matter how many children you’ve got, what cycle you’re on, ttc is ttc & it can be really soul destroying & having people that actually understand the journey makes the world of difference. Where else can you talk about cm, cervical position, DTD so openly, I think the sense of anonymity helps too, people say it’s easier to open up to strangers. It all seems a bit bully-ish to me & I hate bullie, don’t let them push anyone out, this is our thread, if you want to be supportive & add something constructive to the group then post away otherwise F off, seriously life’s too short to be full of hate & negativity. 😡

@sojo44 that is good film!

The one with Matilda in it?

Oh god!!
I've just logged in and caught up! What the actual fuck!!! I watched miracle on 34th Street (favourite Christmas movie ever) last night and went to bed with my heart 3 sizes bigger and then come to read all this. ☹️ I really hope this thread doesn't die because of that, it's my favourite one and keeping me sane with the TTC journey being able to talk and read about all your experiences with some laughs along the way!

Hope you're feeling better @nt1992 ! Don't let the haters get you down. Easier said than done I know, but please don't leave because of it!

@CiaraJ01 time with the in-laws was so so good. Chilling, eating, walking in the woods. I've read some horror in law threads on MN and it's really made me appreciate mine even more! 😂 how is back home?? Wooohooo! That's work done! Keeping my fingers crossed for your BFP!

@Littlepea90 im the same, I keep my DH away from all the "boring" parts so it doesn't feel like a chore. Now just hoping it all goes to plan 😂😂 CD6 wooohoo! I think I'll drink for Christmas and Nee Year, unless I find I ovulate and then maybe won't. Though predicted ovulation at the moment is after the festive period so I may be in the clear 🧐 it's so hard isn't it to make up excuses on why you're not drinking on a day like New Year's Eve (at least for me as I do love a glass of wine).

@Skygirl1983 your yesterday morning sounds awful! Hopefully today is better AND it's Friday

Cervix, oh god!! I found that too hard to track and gave up 🤓 so I'm very impressed with you ladies being able to do it!!

Morning everyone. Here's to a positive day for everyone x

Hi everyone,
You all seem like lovely, funny people - I've been following you for the last week or so. Just wanted to say I'm sad how all this turned out - we all have our own journeys and no one should be nasty or judgemental about anyone else. Anyway, you guys give support and info to those following the thread, as well as to those who join in. I hope you'll come back and give some updates. Good luck everyone!

@Blondeandbroody I hope so, because I'm far too invested in everyone's journeys now I've been watching for so long I need to see everyone get there BFP!
@nt1992 yeah I'm might do thank u, I am much more of a lurker though 😂 so hopefully this thread will continue xx

@CiaraJ01 join the WhatsApp group!! 😁

Oh my word! What has been going on?! I can't see the messages from ChampooPapi but I'm pretty sure it's nasty! How could somebody be so cruel like that? TTC is very hard and I find coming to this type of thread relaxing because most of the time you just can't say it in real life. I also want to say that TTC is hard whether you are trying for your first one or second or third and so on and no need to say something rude to people. I've been a lurker on this thread and find comfort reading as I feel like I'm not the only crazy one doing symptoms spotting. I's be very sad if people leave. :(

@Mum2boyss more than welcome to join us in WhatsApp group lovely😘

@Mum2boyss it's my favourite thread and hopefully once the agro has died down it will continue x

what a shame it's come to all this, it was such a lovely supportive thread. I've only commented a few times but I read it everyday since thread 1 and all your journeys really help me feel like I'm not a crazy lady on my own. X

Oh dear!! I've literally just logged on after dinner with my friend and caught up. Can't see some messages.

Definitely no room for conflict and bullies in this group. Everyone is different and have their own stories. Whether it's ttc one month or 100 months it really doesn't matter. Don't comment until you walk a mile in someone else's shoes as they say.

Anyways I've just logged onto my desktop to private message you my number @FutureMrsSmith hopefully you got it? The desktop version makes my eyes hurt lol.

@Vipie it was far from general chat! I reported the comments and they were deleted so what does that say??

@Mangaroo I am fine thank you, hope you're well🥰

Haha oh that's so funny 😂😂😂

But on a serious note just let the thread continue it was a great friendly and supportive thread so leave it so it can continue.

Yours truly,
Thee Blonde fool 😘

@itsbeenalongtime wow, so it’s rude to say the other woman was just sayin be grateful then I’m getting abuse of stupid Pea and Blonde fool and I’m the one in the wrong. Why don’t you read how they’ve been!

@Manaroo I don’t know. Some people took some comments to heart when it was just general chat think they all gone to a secret group. It’s pathetic really wouldn’t bother, their nasty childish girls.

How are you anyway. I’m 4 months ttc. Currently on tww 🤞🏻

@Vipie you're the one who is pathetic. Go back and read the comments you and that other tit left to see why people are so pissed off with you. Go away and leave others in peace to continue the thread.

Oh wow, what has happened here today?! 👀

So sorry people are now feeling uncomfortable here, this has been such a great group!

@nt1992 Hope you are feeling okay, good luck with the journey ahead, hoping to still hear from you! ❤

Wow this is pathetic horrible girls all of you

@Blondeandbroody that's what I like to here girl🥰😘

@nt1992 @FutureMrsSmith I'm in, I've messaged your smithyyyyyy

@Littlepea90 I don't blame you at all. Uncalled for. Feel free to join us on whatsapp when you feel you're ready, just message me your number & I'll get you added in. Take care mrs💕

@Vipie 🤣🤣🙄🙄