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It’s happening again and I can’t do this.

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PCOSCanPissOFF · 05/12/2019 15:51

In July I started bleeding 2 weeks after my period finished and sure enough, I miscarried the day I found out I was pregnant at 6 weeks 5 days.

I’ve just now been to the loo and found brown discharge a week too early to be my period and I know exactly what that means. I’m 8 days away from my period due date (cd29) so I tested and sure enough, I’m pregnant and in exactly the same way as last time, I think I’m miscarrying Sad

I’m not sure what I need or why I’m posting. I am wishing so hard for this to not be a miscarriage and to be something entirely different, but in my heart I just know and I’m broken all over again.

Does anyone have positive stories where a bleed at 4 weeks hasn’t been a miscarriage? I don’t know if hope is what I need but I desperately want to hold on to the fantasy that this could be a baby for a while longer Sad

It’s happening again and I can’t do this.
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Mrsmummy90 · 05/12/2019 18:46

I had some pink and brown discharge with both pregnancies and they were very sticky babies. Both dd's are sat next to me and screaming at me as we speak 😂👍

HL123 · 05/12/2019 18:34

Hi @PCOSCanPissOFF, I had some light bleeding a few weeks after conception (I didn't actually know I was pregnant at the time, thought it was period starting), and I'm 12 weeks now. Hope for a positive outcome for you Smile

Sammyclaire22 · 05/12/2019 18:33

I spotted at 9dpo and then tested positive next day so must have been implantation. She's 15m now! I also bled heavyish several times in the first 4 month's of pregnancy due they think to erosion of my cervix flaring up from the hormones. Each time freaked me out for mc and I had a colposcopy again to be sure all was ok (history of abnormal smears) but all was well. Best thing you can do for you and baby is try and relax... happy hormones :) easier said than done I know! X

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PCOSCanPissOFF · 05/12/2019 17:21

Bleeding has stopped Confused

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whiskersonkittenss · 05/12/2019 16:23

I had a huge bleed at 13 weeks. Started off as brown bleeding then ended up as gushes of red with massive clots.
Baby is absolutely fine and im 27 weeks now!!

I have everything crossed for you

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PCOSCanPissOFF · 05/12/2019 16:21

Yeah I’m 10 days DPO, surely I wouldn’t be getting positive tests this early if I was only just implanting though?

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catlady3 · 05/12/2019 16:20

I had a bleed around 5 or 6 week and another (quite shocking, went through my trousers and everything) around 7 weeks, I'm now at 28.

DCIRozHuntley · 05/12/2019 16:18

It could be implantation bleeding. Are you about 5-10 days after ovulation at the moment?

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PCOSCanPissOFF · 05/12/2019 16:15

I’m hoping things work out so badly. This baby is so supremely and completely wanted.

It’s so similar to how my miscarriage started, I darent hope, but I want to believe it’s going to be ok and hearing stories like yours is really helpful Flowers

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peachgreen · 05/12/2019 15:54

I had brown bleeding at 4 weeks and 6 weeks in both my pregnancies. One ended in miscarriage, the other was a completely healthy pregnancy with no complications. It's so hard, I know, but brown bleeding doesn't always mean bad news.