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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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End of November, jump on board pt 3!

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Skygirl1983 · 25/11/2019 20:53

All ready for when we reach 1000 on the other thread!!

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Skygirl1983 · 26/11/2019 10:54

@Louu99 thanks. That is good to know. Will see how the next few days pan out.

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Louu99 · 26/11/2019 10:45

@Lucy5546 welcome to the madness! You'll be hours reading our other posts, there's so many haha

@Skygirl1983 when I had a positive on frer and blood test, the Internet cheapie ones were still negative, so I'm not sure I trust them entirely! X

sh84 · 26/11/2019 10:26

@nt1992 I was doing mid morning then changed to evening. I’ll do mid morning for a couple of days then mid morning & evening until I’ve used all the tests.

I wonder what time of day the egg actually “pops” would be great if there was a more accurate test rather than 12-36 hours 😂

PrettyGirl5545 · 26/11/2019 10:22

I just found out that IC during implantation decreases the chances of conception. Is this true??! God i can't be without it lol.

PandaPink · 26/11/2019 10:20

@prettygirl5545 Happy Anniversary!

Yeah In trying to eat better already just feel constipated. I'd like to get back into my yoga...not that I was very good at it but it relaxed me.

Lucy5546 · 26/11/2019 10:18

Hey ladies. Mind if i join.? Im new to this. Came off birth control recently so i dont really know what is normal for me yet I am driving myself insane!! I think i ovulated about two weeks ago now so i should be expecting AF this week? I have been extremely tired the last few days but i have had a lot on. Any advice you can give me will be greatly appreciated.!! I see you have an older thread i will try catch up on your stories over the next few days!!

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Skygirl1983 · 26/11/2019 10:18

Happy Anniversary @PrettyGirl5545

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PrettyGirl5545 · 26/11/2019 10:10

@mellymoo86 yeees!!

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Skygirl1983 · 26/11/2019 10:03

I did an IC this morning with my fmu. And nothing. And other than queasy I feel nothing else. I have another CB at home but will leave it and if AF doesn't come by Thursday I'll try again.

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mellymoo86 · 26/11/2019 10:00

@Skygirl1983 why don't you do a test today? Maybe wait until the evening and if no AF maybe worth a go?

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Skygirl1983 · 26/11/2019 09:56

@Louu99 that's good then. I hope they can help. The hardest thing sometimes is recognising the need to go.

@mellymoo86 I did FRER on Thursday and CB on Saturday. The CB had the really odd arrow like line but super faint! It's been BFN on IC since then. I just need to get this out of my head but it's so hard!!! :(

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mellymoo86 · 26/11/2019 09:53

@PrettyGirl5545 happy annnniii!!! Is it a wedding anni?

PrettyGirl5545 · 26/11/2019 09:52

I'm 4dpo and i M feeling nothing. Except sore boobs but i don't think implantation would hav happened.. Btw Today's my 10 months anniversary!!!

Louu99 · 26/11/2019 09:51

@mellymoo86 good! Everyone needs a sofa day, especially when you're feeling rubbish xx

PrettyGirl5545 · 26/11/2019 09:44

@PandaPink Try to focus on your diet dear. Take something that will cool your tummy and are healthy. My Mom In Law advises to take greenies especially leaves of solanum nigrum. It removes the heat and is very good for uterus she says.

mellymoo86 · 26/11/2019 09:42

@Louu99 yeah I called in sick today. This is me on the sofa with my sexy toilet paper to blow my nose lol. I hope the GP has some good advise for you, let us know how it goes. @Skygirl1983 you've done a fr or cb already no? For some reason I thought you had.

Louu99 · 26/11/2019 09:39

@PandaPink I know it's difficult but try and wait until your missed period. Or go see the doctor and ask for a blood test to confirm?

@Skygirl1983 unfortunately no. But the doctor is very good so I'm sure it'll all be fine. I hate asking for help, feel like a failure xx

PandaPink · 26/11/2019 09:34

@Louu99 it's not easy asking for help but you are doing the right thing even if it's just someone to listen to you x

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Skygirl1983 · 26/11/2019 09:33

Ladies, opinion on IC tests, is it possible to keep getting a BFN on them if I am pg? I'll give it a couple of days and do a FR or CB.

@Louu99 sounds like a good idea. If you are struggling have a chat with someone. In my area you can self refer to counselling services without going to a GP. Do you have that option where you live??

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PandaPink · 26/11/2019 09:32

@nt1992 @sh84 I think if you dtd twice a week you will hopefully get the right moment without stressing to much about surges.

Okay so this morning's tests, second urine of the morning cos I pee like 3 times through the night. Top test is 25 ml/ul and bottom test is a FRER. Both after 3 minutes. I feel mild cramps and have not had a satisfactory bowel movement all week! I keep thinking af will show on Thurs. How can I be more positive? DP wants me to put the tests down and stop thinking about it until missed period has definitely happened. I think he doesn't want me to get too excited because of what has happened on the past with the chemical and blighted ovum.

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Louu99 · 26/11/2019 09:25

@nt1992 that looks pretty good! I'm trying to be relaxed about it all but intrigued to see if I am ovulating!

@mellymoo86 I hope you feel better soon 🙁 are you off work? Cuddle up in bed or on the sofa and chill out if you are!

I'm off to see the doctor this morning. My mental health has taken a huge hit with all of this stuff, so I'm gonna get some help xx

nt1992 · 26/11/2019 09:15

@sh84 I have been doing them in morning & evening. Never use FMU I read that you're not supposed to but I'm not sure if that's true. I always just do mid morning & dinner time x

nt1992 · 26/11/2019 09:13

This mornings ovulation strips, seems to be building up again. Today is apparently the start of ovulation for me🤷🏽‍♀️🤞🏼

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nt1992 · 26/11/2019 09:12

Thought I'd lost yous!😂

sh84 · 26/11/2019 08:55

@PandaPink I think I’ll test in the morning with second urine & in the evening as it gets closer to ovulation. Don’t even know of OH is going to be around for fertile window yet, just planning incase he is