End of November, jump on board pt 3!

7 dpo creamy white cm but I'm slowly getting dry. That's how i gear up for AF usually. I know that I'm Out this month. New year please bring a lot of BFPs for us when you come.

@PandaPink this is your time to enjoy! You can dream and plan and celebrate. Let go off the negativity and build positive emotions. Take your hands off from those sticks haha

@PandaPink Haha, that is funny you had to do another test to confirm! :-D
Yes, keeping it a secret is just as consuming, great you have someone you could confide in!

I thin it's because we are thinking about it all the time. People who get pregnant by accident are not thinking about wanting to be pregnant so don't have the disappointment of not getting achieving it cycle to cycle compared to us whom it consumes from month to month so therefore when they do its a big shock and hence an 'accident' but statistically they will have DTD around the fertile window at some point and not gotten pregnant first time but not known about it because they weren't wanting a pregnancy or trying.
That's just my theory haha

Good morning all fingers crossed for some BFPs today. I disclosed my bfp to a close friend at work who made me do another test to confirm and I feel loads better now somebody knows. I'm suffering insomnia though so getting about 4 or 5 hours a night hence being awake at this time.

@Mum2boyss tried to hop on hahahahaha love it!

@MrsC89 I know! But I'm cycle 16ish so now I'm thinking is it ever going to happen 😫.

How the hell do people fall by accident!

@MrsC89 tell me about it, seems so small doesn't it 😏

@Maisy24 Well, that's a way to make me less hopeful! 😂
When you see the chance written down doesn't it just make you question the people getting pregnant by accident?!

@Maisy24 yeah I found the same info online. Ah man! I wish it just remembers each month so the odds get higher as time passes.

@nt1992 u can't see it very well on pick but the last one from tonight is the darkest one so I hope so!! Just hope it's not pcos fibbing time me ha.

Hubby works nights 😩 tried to hop on earlier while kids were at school but he wasn't having none of it haha and tomora he walks in door I walk out then I walk in n he walks out so 🤞🏻for Saturday being the day, chuffing work getting in the way of dtd haha xx

@mellymoo86 I just googled and it's 20! And it says 15-20 for 35.

@Mum2boyss looks to be getting stronger plus the cramps I'd say get on it 😂🤞🏼

@Blondeandbroody love it! 😂

I just want my downstairs to decide what it's up to then I can jump his bones lol!

Sounds like a good idea.. just going to try and eat better and try and enjoy the new urges I'm feeling I feel like a frustrated teen again 😂

Well I just don't no what to think 🤷🏼‍♀️ ignore cycle day I've got pcos, I've read that having that can affect the result on these? I've had period cramps for 2days, could I be about to ovulate? I just don't no haha, any ideas lol xx

@mellymoo86 I'd be interested to know what the chances are for 30+ women each month.

@FutureMrsSmith haha yes you should, thanks for the recommendation, it’s so helpful to have people to talk to without boring my friends who aren’t TTC to death!

@EightiesBaby oh thank you! I kind of guessed FRER but AF was doing my head in I knew it meant period but couldn’t figure out the letters!!!

@Elmlee that’s so exciting that we’re starting at the same time we will be able to help each other being pretty much at the same starting point x haha I’m trying really hard to not jump my OH bones every day cause he’s very insistent on not making DTD just about babies and keep it spontaneous and fun! but I’ll just have to find ways to make it seem spontaneous

Hey ladies

@Blondeandbroody I tried to message you on the other thread you were on!

We have literally started out journey within a few days of each other which is exciting TTC Buddies! 😊!

I've been off my pill nearly a week ish on Saturday. Been bleeding since Tuesday.

Got my hormones back quite quickly. My husband has been away since Tuesday and I'm dying for this all the stop downstairs so I can jump his bones 😂😂 help

Cervix feels slightly higher, more wet and I'm not sure if it seems more closed🤔🤔

Slight cramping tonight, not sure if that's because ovulation is really soon or what but it's unusual. I feel wet aswell (TMI) so could be ovulation 🤞🏼

@Blondeandbroody FRER first response early response test and AF aunt Flo/ aka period xx

@FutureMrsSmith yep! We all start off like I'm not doing this I'm not doing that but do we do it? YES😂🙈

@Louu99 how are you doing lovely?😘😘

@Blondeandbroody glad you've joined us on here! I should be earning commission 😉
And I think I speak for all of us - we are all psychos when it comes to TTC, even when we vow we won't be 😂

Hope you don’t mind me joining three threads in!

I’ve come off the mini pill just over a week ago now and me and oh have agreed to just go as natural as possible with it and not regiment it or focus too much on fertility windows and ovulation. But with me obvious understand basic female biology I know when I’m supposed to ovulate so just trying to stealthily encourage DTD more during that time haha #psycho!

Any advice for a newbie, first child for me it’s his second.

Also what do the following mean:

AF
FRER

I think I’ve figured out the rest and it does tell you with some!

Sorry for being dim!

Anyone know what the percentage is for us 30+ ladies of conceiving every month? I read it's 20% but thought that was for under 30's 🤷🏽‍♀️

Just tested. BFN!! Just need AF to hurry up now so i can move on to the next month!!