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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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End of November, jump on board pt 3!

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Skygirl1983 · 25/11/2019 20:53

All ready for when we reach 1000 on the other thread!!

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Skygirl1983 · 01/12/2019 12:44

Morning ladies. Happy Sunday. Sorry I have been quiet for a couple of days. I had the most horrendous hang over yesterday after a few too many gins on friday! I'm officially off the alcohol again!
@mellymoo86 anymore news to report??

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MrsC89 · 30/11/2019 18:28

Af has arrived with me today. Last cycle was 28 days this cycle was 30 days. Normal for me is 35. Do I now officially have irregular periods?

mellymoo86 · 30/11/2019 17:50

@FutureMrsSmith it is!! 😩 I didn't tell OH yet. I want to be sure of what's happening before I do. I guess I can only know that as more days pass by.

nt1992 · 30/11/2019 17:45

@FutureMrsSmith @mellymoo86 baby dust for us all😘🤞🏼

FutureMrsSmith · 30/11/2019 17:43

@mellymoo86 you poor thing! This must be driving you absolutely mad.....!!! 😔
My OPK looks strong now so DTD tonight and tomorrow & possibly Monday morning as OH is working Monday night.
@nt1992 think we are in exactly the same position! 😂

Lucy5546 · 30/11/2019 17:37

@mellymoo86 i am already goin crazy. OH wanted to start next year but im not a very patient person so after we talked about it we decided i would come off the pill this year and just see what happens. OH cant get his head around the whole ovulation window. He was under the impression we could get pregnant any time of the month. It was a hilarious conversation though.!!

Mum2boyss · 30/11/2019 17:37

@mellymoo86 fingers crossed for u xx

mellymoo86 · 30/11/2019 17:25

@Lucy5546 that's the best way to do it tbh. There will be times you feel like you're going nuts but try to stay calm. End of the day it'll happen when it happens, you're already doing all you can.

mellymoo86 · 30/11/2019 17:23

@Mum2boyss true, you can never tell. But I would have expected the lines to be darker at this stage. I'll test everyday and keep an eye on it.

nt1992 · 30/11/2019 17:21

Welcome @AliSxo 😘

Lucy5546 · 30/11/2019 17:07

@mellymoo86 may see how the next few days go and test again when it stops? The line will either get darker or disappear. Then you will know for sure.
Noi dont use them. Im not long off the pill so i wanted to get to know my cycle before i go full steam ahead. Iv had two cycles 28 days and 32days. I checked cm and cervix though so think i ovulated between 14-16 too. We DTD every other day anyway so when i think im ovulating i just ramp it up a bit haha. It feels like less pressure than way as we are both new to TTC. That could all change soon though haha

Mum2boyss · 30/11/2019 16:57

I had an implant bleed with my first son, wasn't just a little bit I thought at the time it was a light period so u never know xx

mellymoo86 · 30/11/2019 16:56

@Lucy5546 I'm normally the same but it's been so unexpected that I'm still getting my head around it.

Yeah I do. I use the cb ones and also the cheap ones. Normally ovulate cycle day 14-16 so test from cycle day 10 to track. Do you use them?

Lucy5546 · 30/11/2019 16:53

@mellymoo86 i always try to think of the positives. It keeps my mind from racing haha. Hopefully it stops soon and youcan get ready for ovulation. Do you use OPKs?

mellymoo86 · 30/11/2019 16:45

@Lucy5546 yeah that's true...silver lining and all. Will see how things progress from here 😊

Lucy5546 · 30/11/2019 16:40

@mellymoo86 that seems like too long for implantation alri. yea im only new to all this but you could be right maybe it could be a chemical. Or you could be just having an odd cycle.
On the plus side if it is a chemical atleast you know you can get pregnant. Hopefully next month it sticks

mellymoo86 · 30/11/2019 16:35

@Lucy5546 no I definitely ovulated around 11th November so it's been about 18-19 days now. Have a feeling this might be a chemical pregnancy but I've not entirely sure.

Lucy5546 · 30/11/2019 16:28

@mellymoo86 too heavy to be implantation.? I know you said your 18DPO but could you have ovulated later?

AliSxo · 30/11/2019 16:27

Hi can I join? I'm 9DPO - bfn this morning but it's ok as it's early to test x my AF usual symptoms are sore boobs which I have although I've had more CM than usual xx

mellymoo86 · 30/11/2019 16:22

@Lucy5546 it's medium, not heavy or light. I'm so confused and don't know how to feel. This is so unexpected! There was me getting ready for fertile week in a day or two.

Lucy5546 · 30/11/2019 16:12

@mellymoo86 are you still bleeding?? Is it full flow or just a little?

mellymoo86 · 30/11/2019 15:59

I don't know how to feel today 😭

Lucy5546 · 30/11/2019 14:58

@PandaPink thank you. So CD1 here. Good luck to all still waiting!!

PandaPink · 30/11/2019 14:30

Day one of your cycle in when your womb starts shedding it's lining. Whether it's light to begin with or not Smile

Lucy5546 · 30/11/2019 14:13

@nt1992 yes i have always counted day one when it starts too but i have read others count from when its full flow instead of spotting. Hmm i think ill count today as day one anyway. It will make me feel better haha