End of November, jump on board pt 3!

Hey girls!! Happy new year! What have I missed?? Back from oz now, about 7dpo, been temping etc but didn't get much bding in as was at my sisters house lol. No symptoms just light cramping which can be normal for me.

How is everyone!?

@CiaraJ01 haha AF twins ❤️

I am out of control and keep testing lol! Hoping 6 hours has changed things. It hasn't lol!

I've used a FRER today and it was negative and I've none left now lol only got them yesterday!!!!! which I'm hoping is a good thing because clearly I will just use them if I have them in the house I've used 4 now this cycle lmao!!! Absolutely addicted and crazy!

Gonna wait and test on Wednesday with IC and if AF doesn't show I'll get a FRER and test on Thursday.

I still have a few ICs so I'll probably just blow through them by then haha until I need to get more by that point I am hoping AF is late and there's a better chance of a BFP if I'm getting one x

Hopefully you get your BFP in time to tell OH, are you going to be apart for Christmas's or could you wait until Christmas Day and tell him then? Maybe post him something for Christmas Day to open if you're apart and you get BFP? FaceTime him when he opens it? Xx

@CiaraJ01 it was just a sad face, but on WhatsApp you can make your own characters.

@Skygirl1983 thanks chick, I've tagged as many as I can

@PrettyGirl5545 😂😂

@CiaraJ01 Wow that's a cute name!

Yess! @Skygirl1983 saviour!!

Shall i make one? What to name it? So that we can inform everyone here before we run out

@mellymoo86 lol are u guys planning for a baby or planning to kill all the men of the entire planet!
@CiaraJ01 i use glow app. Which one do u use? Have u or anyone else ever tried this one?

😂😂😂 do I want to know?

Ok who can make the new thread before we run out!

Ok it doesn't @CiaraJ01 lol

@CiaraJ01 Dammit it, my peer pressure didn't work. I wonder if my WhatsApp emoji works on here..



@FutureMrsSmith any sign of AF? I've felt wet all day thinking she had arrived but nothing yet no cramps either.

@Blondeandbroody yep looks like we're AF twins lol! When are you testing again? I fly Thursday without my OH for Xmas, so if I want to let him in on the secret I need to test by Weds!

I've had zero thoughts this month that it's worked, very if it's meant to be. But then as it gets closer to AF it always starts getting my hopes up! I've no idea on CM and CP so i'm blissfully unaware lol!

@mellymoo86 lol I don't think I'll share that homer sperm meme with him, he'll start worrying it's possible!! Fingers crossed we're normal anyway. I've only one FRER left (when I find it) so i can't give in to temptation just yet!! (or you're peer pressure lol)

Just checking in with you all! So I use conceive plus, do most people use preseed? I somehow have managed to not use opks this month, and we seem to have DTD more than previous months.

@Blondeandbroody All sounds very promising. When do you plan to retest and will you use FRER?

@CiaraJ01 are we both due AF on Wednesday?

My hope levels are fluctuating.

I'm at a high hopes stage today after feeling negative the last few days. It's the cramps I'm getting that I never get before AF and the lack of sore boobs which I always get way before AF! It could all be explained as coming off the pill and this is my new normal etc but I just feel like this is different and that's giving me hope! I haven't had any other symptoms other than being extremely clumsy and forgetful but I am like that sometimes anyway.

My CM is also much thicker today and my CP was low the other day so I thought I'm out and then read that it changes so much that it's not a good indicator and since then it's been high medium slightly to one side etc so I'm ignoring that now.

I did take an IC today which was negative but I'm still hopeful. Hope for us both that the witch doesn't show as we get our BFPs xx

@CiaraJ01 Yeah I can imagine his got a little thought in his mind if his little swimmers are working well or if they're all just knocking into each other and dying like homer sperm from Simpson's 😂 I'm sure you're both ok. I looked at my OH sperm months ago, like the colour and consistency and I was like yup looks fine and he was just like 😏 thanks 😂 and you ovulate and have normal length cycles. So yeah it's all a matter of timing now 😊

AHHHH I'm excited for you!!! Do a test DO IT DO IT! Ok don't lol

😂😂 men are probably lucky they dont think they we do or alm our minds would be F*ed 😂

I was totally pessimistic this month until last night... now I'm slightly getting my Hope's up and think Could I be?! 🤞🤞

My OH is slightly worried about his swimmers but after I complained the last time about too much pressure on us both jesus majorly relaxed or at least stopped telling me 😂

@CiaraJ01 😂 They really are. There's a lot more to it and I don't think they understand the way we do. My OH is sort of going with the flow. He knows it can take some time and I think even if he had little doubts he wouldn't tell me to ensure I'm happy. I think it's helped that we are both getting tested alongside ttc so gives us both peace of mind.

I feel optimistic about this cycle. I actually have nothing to base that on whatsoever 😂😂 and I feel bad for being positive. I'm trying to now tell myself it's not positive and I'll get a BFN. This is a total mind f*ck I tell you. Lol

Thanks @mellymoo86. I dont fly till Thursday evening so loads of time. Although I'd like a day with my OH if it's a BFP 🥰 Maybe tomorrow then!! 🤞🤞

I was having the same convo with him yesterday, he really struggles to get around how much luck is involved, even though his sister has struggled lots. Men are such a 'go in and fix it' type people 😂

@CiaraJ01 Yeah I would try the FRER tomorrow or before you take your flight. Your FRER should pick up the HCG hormone by then as it should be 80%+ chance the day before AF and 90% chance on the day of AF.

Haha I'm not that good. Just been doing a lot of reading. There's so much we can do, it's heavily based on when your body is ready and a little bit of luck. 😊

@mellymoo86 ok, in that case tomorrow or Weds!

You're so good at this lol.