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TWW. AF DUE 30/11 ANYONE ELSE IN THE TWW

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Mothertoone2 · 20/11/2019 07:47

Hey all!

AF is due for me on 30th November, I don't plan on testing early unless there is obvious signs or symptoms. I'm currently 3dpo. Even though I probably won't be able to help myself haha.

Anyone else in the same boat?

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Lucy5546 · 28/11/2019 15:33

@Shuckle wow congrats. Made up for you. I think im around the same DPO. I think ill be testing after work tonight!!

PandaPink · 28/11/2019 14:56

Congrats @Shuckle we are about the same I am 15dpo!

ScaredFlamingo · 28/11/2019 14:35

@Shuckle So happy for you!!!

ceebee21 · 28/11/2019 14:29

AF arrived for me yesterday sadly.

On to the next bus I go.

Congratulations on the BFPs

Xxx

Shuckle · 28/11/2019 14:19

Pretty good afternoon line on a proper frer 😁😁😁🎉

TWW. AF DUE 30/11 ANYONE ELSE IN THE TWW
ScaredFlamingo · 28/11/2019 14:05

@elizabethbennet3rd Don’t give up hope yet!! Remember, it could still be too early to get a BFP.

I’m starting to convince myself I’m out this month but not sure why until I’ve got results or AF. Cervix is still high but I dunno if that means anything?!

ElizabethBennet3rd · 28/11/2019 14:01

@ScaredFlamingo not certain, the EWCM lasted 4 days so anywhere between 11 and 15 DPO today. Plus I am only on cycle 2 after DEPO (took 3 months for periods to return before I counted cycle #1). Expected to see AF at some point over the next few days and symptoms were so strong I thought a test would show up BFP if that's what's causing them Sad. Don't really know what to think now.

Shuckle · 28/11/2019 13:58

@CrazyCoonz oh my god haha, least you'll remember the story when you look at the wall!

Oh wow... haven't really thought that far ahead yet! 7th August apparently!

ScaredFlamingo · 28/11/2019 13:49

@elizabethbennet3rd
How many dpo are you? My Dr told me it was too early to do a urine test yesterday and I was due on AF yesterday so it might just be still too early. Some people are lucky and get BFP early, some have to wait. I’ve googled it to death...! My Mum didn’t get hers until a week after missing AF!!
You’re not out until she shows...!!

ElizabethBennet3rd · 28/11/2019 13:44

So I caved today and tested with FRER. BFN Sad. No idea what to think now. Symptoms all still there, no AF, but also no BFP. What gives? Is it possible that I have an ultra long cycle? Miscalculated ovulation date? So many questions and no way of getting answers I suppose. Keep waiting I guess....

CrazyCoonz · 28/11/2019 13:31

@Shuckle Congratulations, what's your due date? We've had so many of the same symptoms. I woke up at 4.30 today wide awake and starving. Needed to make tea and toast. Tried not to wake DH so kept the lights off then walked into a wall and spilt the tea all down the wall! We have strange looking wall in the hallway now.

I've also had the weird gushing feeling you described. It's really causing me anxiety, have to keep checking I'm not bleeding but it's just clear CM.

Lucy5546 · 28/11/2019 11:11

@Shuckle im not too sure i dont know exactly what day i ovulated but i had EWCM about 15 to 16 days ago. Not much symptoms since.

ScaredFlamingo · 28/11/2019 11:08

@shuckle I’m 16 dpo if my ovulation date is correct

Shuckle · 28/11/2019 11:07

@Lucy5546 sounds like you would be okay to test with a FRER now - do you know how many DPO you are? I tested with a cheapy frer today at 11DPO and got a light, but good visible line. Absolutely nothing on a regular IC.

Shuckle · 28/11/2019 11:06

@ScaredFlamingo how many DPO are you today?

Lucy5546 · 28/11/2019 11:05

Hi ladies. Need some advice. Im driving myself insane with symptoms. Theres not much but i have light cramps for the past few days and my CM varies from creamy white to watery. Im CD 31 today. Last two cycles were 28/29 days.

So should i test or is it too early? TBH im scared of testing too early and getting BFN and i keep thinking AF will show.

ScaredFlamingo · 28/11/2019 10:57

I am now starting to need to pee quite more frequently... I’m not convinced until I get my BFP but this is f$%ked up if not haha!

ElizabethBennet3rd · 28/11/2019 10:11

@Wackadoodle84 I said i would hold out until at least Friday, but getting increasingly impatient today. Also have busy weekend coming up with the in-laws visiting, so I'll be needing wine...need to kinda know before I accidentally get s*faced!

Shuckle · 28/11/2019 10:11

Thankyou ladies Smile. Trying not to get too excited yet as it's still early days but i'm going to take the positive from it that at least I know my body is capable of getting pregnant Smile i'm a bit nervous, bit shocked, not really sure what to do with myself - was in such a daze this morning I forgot to brush my hair!

I'm either 11 or 12DPO (think I ovulated very very late at night on the day) and AF would normally have been due Tuesday 26th Nov but slightly varying cycles mean it could have been Sunday 24th Nov - Sunday 1st Dec. Symptoms i've had (assuming today 11DPO):

-Tingling boobs/hot sore nipples since 8DPO
-Metallic taste in mouth 8 & 9DPO
-Backache 10 & 11DPO
-Sore "pressure" feeling (not quite cramp) 6DPO onwards
-Nausea 9DPO onwards
-Heartburn 2DPO onwards
-Tinge of pink CM - 8DPO
-Creamy CM - 8DPO onwards
-Lots of CM/"gushing feeling" - 10DPO & 11DPO
-Very vivid dream of being pregnant last night - which woke me up at 4.30am

Hope that's helpful. Rooting for you all still and will keep you updated/hang around xxx

Wackadoodle84 · 28/11/2019 10:07

@VaggieMight cross post there, sorry to hear the bleeding is still ongoing, such a worrying situation made all the worse I’m sure by all the uncertainty and waiting between appointments.

I really hope everything works out for you and will be keeping fingers crossed for a nice rise in hcg tomorrow. Am here if you need to chat xxx

ScaredFlamingo · 28/11/2019 10:07

@Wackadoodle84 I only had them done yesterday morning... today might be a little early?! I’m also not sure I wanna know today. Tomorrow I’m working from home and so if my partner so maybe I’ll call then?

ScaredFlamingo · 28/11/2019 10:05

@ElizabethBennet3rd Symptoms sound good?! Fingers crossed.

Blood results will take a few days but I may try and call tomorrow afternoon. If no result (and no AF.. due yesterday but she can sometimes crop up a day late so let’s see!) then I’ll do a test Saturday morning. So nervous and torn.. I’ll be shocked if I’m pregnant but if I’m not then AF has some serious explaining to do.

Wackadoodle84 · 28/11/2019 10:04

Awh @Shuckle am absolutely delighted for you ! What fantastic news 🥳

@ElizabethBennet3rd, my gut feeling is I am not pregnant this month, I’m genuinely ok with that though, maybe after a few months of bfn it’ll be more upsetting, but this is just month #1, I’m already planning for next month, I do shift work so myself and DH are making plans for my next fertile week which I will be on nights for and have also booked in for acupuncture which I have never tried before

Is Friday your test day? Your symptoms certainly sound on the mark for a bfp ! Will keep everything crossed for you that Shuckles bfp is the start of a trend 🤞

@scaredflamingo maybe worth ringing gp surgery and seeing if any results back, are they likely to tell you over the phone?

@LEBW when are you due to test?

VaggieMight · 28/11/2019 09:59

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ScaredFlamingo · 28/11/2019 09:55

@LEBW Thank you!! I’m still not convinced either way. If I’m pregnant I’ll be shocked and if I’m not then my AF has some explaining to do..!! How many dpo are you?