TWW. AF DUE 30/11 ANYONE ELSE IN THE TWW

@ScaredFlamingo. Nooo!! Sorry she has arrived.!! Think of it in a good way atleast your not in limbo waiting for it or your BFP.

Im still waiting.!! Cramps have returned today. I am hoping that i tested too early but i doubt it. CD32 now.

@ElizabethBennet3rd and @LEBW i am the same. One day i think i could be pregnant and the next im like theres no chance. Its funny how or body's work!!

AF is here. What a bitch... get my hopes up only to come a few hours after I get a BFN!

@LEBW that's exactly what it's like! I convince myself I am, I test - BFN. Disappointment for about a day before I realise AF still not arrived and suddenly start to convince myself that the test was faulty/too early because I might ACTUALLY be pregnant...and here we go again. I think AF needs to show up just to put me out of my misery!

I'm right there with you. Keep thinking no I'm not then thinking oh but I could be....

Next month I've already decided I'm buying one decent test and only and only then will I use it if AF is late. I can't have this taking over my every thought again and getting so sad everytime I get a BFN!

Also read SO MUCH advice/spoke to people who are a fountain of knowledge on tips of how to increase chances, so will put it all into full force next month so hopefully I ring the new year in with a BFP....will not be having a drop of alcohol over Christmas either way booooooooo

@ScaredFlamingo so sorry to hear it's not good news yet. May have just been too early...time will tell. Looks like we're both still playing the waiting game!

@lebw Thanks!

Af still not here, if she doesn’t come I have to re-test. Could have been too early but I expected she’ll be rearing her ugly head soon enough.

@scaredflamingo big hugs. xxxx

Just had result from doctor. Negative..

Any results ladies?

@elizabethbennet3rd I know, me neither!!

If no results and no AF today then I may do one in the morning (if I can pluck up the courage!) I was so keen to test before, now I want to avoid it haha!

@ScaredFlamingo yes only thing I can do is wait. Not good at it though! Good luck with the blood results. Will you do a HPT if they aren't back yet?

@elizabethbennet3rd Wait a few more days and test again. Some people can take a week after missed period to get a BFP on HPT.

I’m calling doctors at 11am to see if results are in...

@Lucy5546 thanks. Not something I've ever really checked. Just wish I could know for sure now though. Still have terrible heart burn and sore breasts. CM has increased this last week and 3 days ago I had a pinky tinged CM happening. Everything screams PG....but not the test. So frustrated.

@ScaredFlamingo i was scared too but i had to test because i was driving myself insane. But seeing the BFN has really got me down today. Of you can wait til your a week late test then.

@ElizabethBennet3rd i usually check mine in the shower. You need to check it regularly to know when its high low etc. Im the same with my BFN yesterday too. Puts a real downer on things. Like where is AF and why is she late if im not pregnant!!

@Lucy5546 @ScaredFlamingo @Shuckle So this is a bit of a stupid TMI question, but how on earth do you check your cervix? I've never done this before. Will I not know if it's high as I don't really know where it usually is? .
Really wanting answers today as BFN yesterday but AF is a no show! Massively down about it all today.

@wantingformytime @Lucy5546 sorry for the BFN but you’re not out until she shows.

I’m now 2 days late and far too scared to test so just waiting for the blood test results because I’m a coward haha!

@shuckle CONGRATS!!!
What a great feeling for you X

I'm 8/9 dpo today. Had symptoms, who have gone and all I've got now is slight CM and had very strong dreams 3 consecutive nights that's I'm pregnant. I also look puffy faced and tired....but nothing that's making me think I definitely could be. Was going to test tomorrow with a frer but I think I'll just wait over the weekend. Don't want a nice weekend ruined with bfn xx

Congratulations @Shuckles!!!!! 😁

Yeah I hate waiting! Due tomorrow or saturday

I tested too. BFN. Its just a waiting game now for AF

So I craved!! Had mild cramps for a while and after a friend announced her pregnancy yesterday (18 friends/family since ttc 18 months ago) I thought it's my time now right? WRONG!!! BFN

@shuckle cervix high but no real cm for me.. just the tiniest watery but I tend to notice I get lots when AF is coming so if is interesting. We shall see!

@ceebee21 sorry to hear that, lots of luck and baby dust to you xx

Thanks everyone, and yes, my cervix went quite high at ovulation and then has stayed in pretty much the same position, last couple of days been barely able to reach it and had loads of CM - I think it varies quite a lot between people though

@lucy5546 thank you! I think I’ve read the same. I have no idea what it usually feels like but fairly straightforward to measure where it is. Fingers crossed for us!!

@ScaredFlamingo im not an expert on cervix but i have read that cervix should be low and firm around the time AF is due. And raises higher around ovulation and early pregnancy. Not sure if thats much help. Mine is quite soft but it's mid way between high and low.