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TTC after pregnancy loss - Thread 33- huddle up and bring on the BFP's

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Mumlili8 · 17/11/2019 00:01

Welcome to the 🐧 huddle. This a safe place to get and give support for everyone who has experienced the loss(es) of a pregnancy and baby. Pregnancy and child loss is the most awful thing anyone can experience and it can also be the most lonely time too. I hope you find this thread to be of some comfort.

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Avocuddles · 23/01/2020 06:32

@Treaclepie19 tentative congratulations, you clearly timed your one go just right!

Treaclepie19 · 23/01/2020 06:27

Thank you! I have no clue. We thought we were in with no chance at all this month as we only dtd at cd14. That was 12 days ago.

kkr168 · 23/01/2020 06:25

Congratulations @Treaclepie19 how many dpo are you?

Treaclepie19 · 23/01/2020 06:21

I am in shock 😱😱

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Sunflower1608 · 22/01/2020 20:10

@Mumlili8 was your frer first morning wee? That may be why its a negative. You've had 2 positives. Maybe try again first wee, it's still early testing lovely. Fingers crossed for you

MrsG3 · 22/01/2020 19:40

@Mumlili8 good luck for tomorrow, fingers crossed for you 🤞🏻

Treaclepie19 · 22/01/2020 19:39

@Mumlili8 as the others have said, I've always had lines fainter than that with my first positives. Fingers crossed for you!

I feel like af is coming. Day 25. My cycle has been like 28, 23, 23, 27, 24 the past few months so it could be good or bad.

Morganmom · 22/01/2020 19:32

@Mumlili8
Hoping the best for you! BFP!

tmc14 · 22/01/2020 19:19

@Mumlili8 I know I can’t make you feel better but just to say both my pregnancies had fainter lines than yours, with some negatives too, at 12dpo. One resulted in my son & although I miscarried the second, it wasn’t until 8.5 weeks that the baby stopped growing. I realise you don’t want to get your hopes up but I don’t think you’re out yet. Keeping absolutely everything crossed for you xxx

Avocuddles · 22/01/2020 19:03

@Mumlili8 wishing you good luck for tomorrow xxx

BunnytheBlueWhale · 22/01/2020 16:01

Oh @mumlili8 it’s so touching that you want to protect your DH but make sure you have the support that you need. I’m sure your DH wouldn’t want you to deal with anything on your own but testing again tomorrow is a good idea and hopefully you will have some good news for DH soon x

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Mumlili8 · 22/01/2020 15:58

Thanks ladies I'm not hold out much hope though as I've been here so many times with even stronger lines and it was still a cp or mc so I guess I'll just have to wait and see. Not sure how much more I can take though. I'm not tell DH as the losses have broken him so much and can't bare to do it to him again x I'll let you know how fmu test goes tomorrow

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Avocuddles · 22/01/2020 15:45

Sorry @Mumlili8 this is the image similar to mine (mine was possibly a bit fainter?)

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Avocuddles · 22/01/2020 15:43

Hi @Mumlili8 I'm working away today and don't have a photo of my easy@home but found the picture online before which looks pretty much the same as mine did at 10DPO.

Those clearblues definitely look positive to me so I guess all you can do is test again tomorrow. I'm crossing my fingers that this isn't another chemical and that with some strong first morning urine you'll get a clear line....



BunnytheBlueWhale · 22/01/2020 15:41

Fingers crossed @Mumlili8 Definitely at least one BFP in there x

LASandOtto · 22/01/2020 15:41

Very odd, the CB does look positive to me. Maybe wait to take another with FMU?

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Mumlili8 · 22/01/2020 15:39

@SunStruck tbh only about a hour. With other pregnancies by now I had a much darker line so it's either a false alarm or yet another cp. 😔

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SunStruck · 22/01/2020 15:37

Sorry we posted at the same time! But two of your Clearblue showed a faint line? That's very strange! How long did you wait with FRER?

SunStruck · 22/01/2020 15:36

@mumlili8 that definitely looks positive to me!!! Yeah update us after you've taken a FRER please 😊 I'm crossing everything for you 🤞🤞🤞

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Mumlili8 · 22/01/2020 15:35

Gutted seams to be a false alarm

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LASandOtto · 22/01/2020 15:07

Yes it was @Mumlili8. My CB Monitor asks to test from 3 days before AF is due - I did a test at 11 DPO, 12 DPO (both negative) then couldn't be bothered and didn't bother at 13 DPO, then morning AF was due I thought ok, I'll do one last one and that was my positive at 14 DPO. Clear blue are less sensitive tests so, try a FRER?

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Mumlili8 · 22/01/2020 15:02

@LASandOtto was that with this pregnancy

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LASandOtto · 22/01/2020 14:38

@Mumlili8 this looks like a BFP to me?!!!! 12 DPO is still great, I got a BFN at 12DPO and my BFP on 14DPO. I had tested early too and then given up, and then it ended up as it did with a positive in the end so don't give up hope!!!!

Get a FRER and update us! Don't worry if you stopped the progesterone, just go back on it today!

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Mumlili8 · 22/01/2020 14:09

Oops pics help

TTC after pregnancy loss - Thread 33- huddle up and bring on the BFP's
TTC after pregnancy loss - Thread 33- huddle up and bring on the BFP's
TTC after pregnancy loss - Thread 33- huddle up and bring on the BFP's
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Mumlili8 · 22/01/2020 14:06

Right I'm totally confused now bfn 10dpo but today 12dpo bfp. I think my chart is wrong and I ovulated a day later or these tests are far too light for 12dpo hence on to loss number 9 😔. The test strip was from a clearblue digi that said not pregnant. Only problem is after the negative at 10dpo I stopped the progesterone I've used a pessaries since the positive today but now I'm scared to death that I buggered up and it's another loss. Help I'm going crazy. I'm off in search of a frer now so will update soon.
@Avocuddles did you say you used easy@home pregnancy test if so do you have any pics. I've done two today but can't figure out if it's a evap or vvf positive

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