End of November, jump on board pt 2!

@Louu99 that's like a good girl!! you are brave darling! Yes! We all are here, with you. Next month is ours hopefully. Chill now. You can do it!!!

@Louu99 just keep doing whatever makes you happy and relaxed. You seem to be in a good frame of mind with it all. And exactly what you said at least you know you can get pregnant. And you have all of us here to talk too. Im glad i joined this thread everyone seems very friendly.

I will keep my fingers crossed for you. Look after yourself.

@Louu99 sending big hugs!!!!!! 😘

Hello all. I'm currently taking everyone's advice and relaxing in the bath with some candles, a bath bomb and designated survivor on the iPad.

I've had heavy bleeding all day now, and small to medium clots when I go to the loo. Definitely red blood and it's kind of sticky, like it is when I get my period normally.
I've been upset all day, took a frer and wasn't surprised to see it's negative.

Coming to terms with the fact that I'm no longer pregnant, the pregnancy vitamins will have to go back in the cupboard for another time.
I'm really sad about it all. Going to see my doctor first thing tomorrow and ask for more bloods and just take it day by day from there.

Good news is at least we know we are fertile and can get pregnant, silver lining and all that.
And even better news is I'm with you girls for another go! Xx

@Louu99 how you feeling? Has there been anymore xx

@Louu99 that’s the problem with finding out so early isn’t it. Bleeding doesn’t always mean the worst, I know words like that don’t help at the moment but there is literally nothing you can do, it’s just a waiting game to see which way it goes but try to be seen tomorrow if you can then they can test hcg levels & they usually repeat it 48 hours later to see if they are increasing or dropping, then you’ll have a clearer picture of what’s going on x

@Louu99 thinking of you and keeping everything crossed for you. X

@Louu99 I know it's hard but try & not stress my lovely😟 got everything crossed that everything is ok ❤️

@Louu99 sorry to hear that, I agree with @Skygirl1983 just try to have a relaxing day and take it easy. You still don't know what the bleeding is 100%, see a doctor and take it from there. I know it's easier said than done but try not to worry 🤗

@Louu99 don't stress sweet!
Just remember how many women continue to have monthly bleeding & don't know they are pregnant. It could be completely normal for you.
Just keep us all updated as I'm sure I speak for the rest of us that we will all be thinking about you 😘 and hoping for the best. X

@Louu99 💔💔 Keep hopeful xx

I'm not holding out much hope. Still bleeding semi heavily and there's clots and everything too 🙁🤷🏼‍♀️

Sorry been quiet, been distracting myself buying Christmas decorations & getting drunk 😂. Back now, only a couple of days left of AF thank god!

@Louu99 sorry to hear you're having some bleeding, hopefully all is ok! ❤️

@Louu99 oh no!! Dont get too upset though, you hear all them random stories 'I didn't know I was pregnant' and they had light bleeding almost all the way through!
I don't think you have to be referred to the early pregnancy unit, you could be able to just turn up. Try ring them even for advice?

@jam234 I'm sure my friend would find it comical I've shared his daddy tickle time saying 🙈🙈 But yes welcome to the mad house ! I was the same about trying to avoid opks but the planner in me just HAD to know! It also narrows down when to dtd a bit so my OH can get a break 😂

Thank you @Skygirl1983. Im glad others feel thw same as me. Its helping me reading everyone elses storys. I laughed at the start of this thread at daddy tickle time 😂 i dont think ill use OPKs for a while they may just send me over the edge!!

@Louu99 im sorry to hear this. But i have heard of people still having bleeds during pregnancy. Hopefully it doesnt get any worse for you.

@Mystie thanks, I'll do that first thing tomorrow and hopefully the results will be in by tomorrow evening xxx

@Louu99 sorry to hear you are *worrying

@Louu99 I'm sorry to hear you are working but it's not uncommon to have bleeding around the time of your expected af. Some women bleed for a few months around that time each month. Definitely don't give up hope, the blood test is a very good sign. My advice if you want confirmation would be to have another blood test this week to make sure your hcg levels are doubling as they should do. Hugs 🤗

@sh84 I'd have to be referred and the GP isn't open until tomorrow. I guess they could send me for bloods tomorrow to see what my hcg is doing, if anything.

Just sitting here crying, can't believe it 🙁

@Louu99 Wtf!! Why??? But my sister too had bleeding last week, but she is still pregnant. Don't worry. Just relax today and if it continues test tomorrow. Testing will help you decrease your stress

Ahh @Louu99 so sorry to hear this, same thing happened to me last month. It may be nothing so just keep that in mind, do you have an early pregnancy unit at your hospital that you can contact as they can monitor hcg levels, you may need to be referred by GP though. It’s so shit as you just want it to be really obvious either way, full blown AF bleeding or nothing. I feel for you, I really do x

@Skygirl1983 that's what lots of people have said but I'm in full on panic mode. Gonna have a lazy day watching films and relaxing and just hope it stops. I've got tests here but I'm too afraid to take them incase it says negative 🙁 x

@Skygirl1983 and no pain. I haven't had normal period pains at all. Felt like I've been very bloated and had some wind type pains, but nothing period related. And now this bleeding. I'm devastated x