End of November, jump on board pt 2!

Hi everyone. Im back 😁 wow i feel like i missed a lot the last few days. Trying to catch up. Sorry about all the losses and BFNs. I have my fingers crossed for everyone due to test soon and of course congrats to the BFPs.

I had a great few days away. Took my mind off TTC and symptom spotting!! And over indulged in the wine and food 😂. So im on CD24 no idea of DPO. Barely and CM in comparison to last week. Cervix is still very high but not as soft??? Im not sure if thats just normal for me though. No other symptoms at all. Think im out this month!!

How is everyone else?

@MrsC89 Yes it’s still early for you, hold off as long as you can or you’ll spend your days like me looking at what appears to be a negative test desperately trying to see something

@sh84 I'm sorry to hear about your little boy.
I had one frer left from earlier in the year, I have got another 2 pack sat in a drawer, I will not test now until probably Sunday. May make DH hide them from me!

@MrsC89 I’m so sorry, must’ve been awful for you, I lost my little boy in August, managed to conceive again in October but was a chemical so desperately hoping for something this month, if AF isn’t here by tomorrow think I’ll just do the last FRER & boots digital so I’ve got no more tests in the house & im not checking for a line every 5 mins then I’ll just wait it out

@Skygirl1983 you arent out yet though!

@sh84 termination for medical reasons. At the 12 week scan we found out I was carrying conjoined twins, they shared a heart and had no chance of separation if they made it to full term, but that looked extremely unlikely.

@sh84 🤣 don't worry we are all there with you! This ttc sends us all insane! Xxxx

@MrsC89 yep already compared it to previous positive test today too. I’m really sorry for being ignorant but what’s TFMR?? I think if they’re grey/white they’re not classed as positive, I think that’s what an evap/indent line is they have to be pink/blue to be a true positive as it’s the hcg that turns the line pink or blue but I was also under the impression that evap/indent lines only show after the timeframe not within it. So basically what you can take away from this is that I’m totally clueless, hoping, clutching at straws & imagining lines that may or may not be there lol

@mellymoo86 welcome back to the UK!

@Skygirl1983 I'd be so tempted if I were you, all your symptoms sound good!

I'm 10dpo today, I usually start a period between 12 and 14dpo. My FRERs have arrived today , so I will be testing tomorrow but expecting BFN; will keep everyone updating first thing!

Xxxxx

@Skygirl1983 do itttttttt!!!! Don't be scared, at least you'll know and like you said test again later or wait for AF. I have a good feeling about this one anyways xxx back in the UK whoop whoop!!!

@sh84 this is going to sound proper crazy, but I checked today's test against my previous positive test (pregnacy ended in August due to TFMR) and the line is in the correct place.
When is a line not a line? Some sort of not funny joke for us TTC!

@Skygirl1983 I’m 13dpo, AF due tomorrow. I’ve got a boots digital that I’ve been saving, last month when I got a BFP I tested with second MU using FRER & boots digital at 13dpo, maybe tomorrow I’ll use it, got 1 FRER left too.

@MrsC89 I saw your other post & was like I’m in exactly the same boat, I thought that if any kind of line shows within the 3mins then it’s a line but I also thought that it’s the hcg in urine that reacts with the line & turns it pink therefore if it’s not pink then it’s not a true line.

These things need to be more idiot proof for people ttc/desperate for a BFP/lines eyes/crazy women in the tww lol

@Skygirl1983 I think I'm 8dpo, and will now continue to go mad until next thursday when af is due

@Skygirl1983 being my normal psycho self I have gone from room to room to try and get a photo that doesn't look like I'm crazy!

Ok so 100% going crazy here. Thought after last night feeling rubbish and sore boob this morning I would take a frer to stop me testing and wasting money for the next few days.
Theres a faint line on it!
Right place and everything!
@Sh84 same as you not FMU came up within the 3 minutes

What is people’s knowledge/experience of the infamous “evap lines”. Did a FRER using FMU today & a very faint line came up within the time limit, it’s not a true pink colour but was visible to the naked eye, not as thick as control line. It’s still visible now 6 hours later, more with light shone on it. Are evap lines real?? I thought any line after the 3 minute timeline should be disregarded. Going mad here 🤯

@Skygirl1983 True. End of the day I'll keep trying whilst seeking advice so it won't hurt. I'm literally boarding the plane now, will message once I land. X