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Lines not getting darker please help??

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June1987 · 03/11/2019 09:24

So I had a miscarriage in August and haven’t had a period since but I have been ovulating.

I got my first positive on 31/10 which is about 12dpo. However the lines since 13dpo haven’t gotten any darker in fact seem to have gotten lighter. I’m so worried I’m going to have another miscarriage. Does anyone have any positive stories or any suggestions.

Weirdly my 13dpo wee wasn’t my first wee of the day it was middle of the day and the 14 and 15th are first wees.

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Leah2021 · 22/07/2022 09:26

Hi there! Probably a long shot, I’ve seen your post was from a while back and would like an update if possible?
I’ve been searching for hours through google for an answer on the same thing. Im 4 weeks + 3 days pregnant and my lines are not getting dark on my pregnancy tests, just like yours. Feel super anxious as I’ve had two recent miscarriages.
How long did you wait to retest or until yours got darker?
hope everything worked out well for you 😊

Janbrin · 08/07/2021 16:42

Hi I took test Thursday I think last week and was faint line come Saturday and Sunday I was bleeding and was a smaller clot on the Sunday I thought maby my period as wasn't fresh red was dark red/ drowny and wasn't as heavy as my normal period and only lasted maby 48 hours, then yesterday for some reason took test showed faint line but darker and very noticeable then went to chemist and got clear blue and said pregnant 1/2 weeks I've took test again today and there not going any darker and had cramps but I had them in my last pregnancy and I no you can have them but can anyone help or advice as the clear blue test was taken 3 days after I first had the brown dark red blood tha ks xx

Flossylou · 05/11/2019 17:55

There is absoloutely no denying that one! Yay! Congratulations

And for the record mine never got anywhere near that dark. So thankfully as hoped the outcomes were different. Thanks

June1987 · 05/11/2019 14:50

Meant to post my one from yesterday! So I’m happy enough with that and just see what happens.

@xblx put the tests down, trust me you will drive yourself insane. If you have a line your pregnant don’t worry about the darkness, just look after yourself and what will be will be. Good luck with everything and congratulations x

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xblx · 05/11/2019 12:17

@June1987 so happy for you hope all goes well, glad you said about the lines in the same at the moment xx

June1987 · 05/11/2019 10:06

Hi, just wanted to do a bit of an update. I phoned the doctor who was lovely but he doesn’t want to do bloods. He said a line is a line and I need to step away from the tests. He said he worked in obs and gyne and said some people’s test lines never get dark and as long as I don’t have any bleeding not to worry (easier said than done right)

So these are my tests from yesterday but I’m not going to test anymore as what will be will be. Thanks for all your positive messages. Hopefully this is a sticky but we will see. Good luck to all you lovely people trying to conceive x

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xblx · 03/11/2019 22:48

Your pregnant!!!
Congratulations

June1987 · 03/11/2019 20:25

Thank you everyone. I’m trying to stay calm and just got to wait and see what happens.

Again thanks for all your comments.

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AliSxo · 03/11/2019 18:43

@June1987 hey I suffered a 5 week miscarriage only last month it's utterly rubbish. I hope your lines get darker and also I did find my lines were darker with afternoon urine as opposed to FMU. Xx

Doubl · 03/11/2019 15:58

Your husband is absolutely right. You're getting positive tests, you're not bleeding and the sore boobs and cramps are good signs of pregnancy. You're not out yet, fingers crossed everything goes perfectly 🤞

MyDcAreMarvel · 03/11/2019 15:41

Your dh is right June , although my lines resulted in a chemical that does not necessarily mean yours do. And I think the info is making you feel worse, is not really reassuring for you.The only thing you can really do is wait and hope.
Take care Flowers

June1987 · 03/11/2019 15:33

@ Flossylou oh sorry I didn’t mean to make you feel bad. I really appreciate your honesty.

I think your right in regards to husbands, I don’t think they really know what to do. Plus mine is generally laid back about most things too.

In regards to jobs, if I was one of my patients I would probably think they were nuts, but you just can’t help it can you.

Thanks again for sharing your experience. I hope you get your bfp soon.x

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Flossylou · 03/11/2019 15:28

The best thing to do is to do exactly what your husband says. Stop testing and just wait and see.

We're all different and if you had faint tests before it could very well be that you have a really hcg starting point, I think we all have different levels.

I hope I haven't terrified you, I feel terrible now. People were honest with me when I asked and I appreciated it - my husband was the same as yours mostly because he was having to deal with all the emotions. I work in public health and I'm normally quite a rational person but I literally lost my marbles for a week.

Really keeping everything crossed for you x

June1987 · 03/11/2019 15:11

@OhTheJoys1 thanks for much for this! My husband actually wants me to come off here as he thinks it’s having a negative effect.

He says it’s positive on every test done, until it says otherwise or I bleed let’s not worry! Very much easier said than done though. Congratulations on your pregnancy, I’m so glad everything worked out for you. x

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June1987 · 03/11/2019 15:07

@Flossylou I’m and nurse and my dads a doctor so I can get get my bloods done but obviously can’t do it till tomorrow. Just want to sit down and cry!

Sorry about your previous ones. It’s so hard to be knocked down all the time.

@sauvignonblancplz thank you for that. With my son the couple I did we’re all very faint but I didn’t keep testing so unsure on what they would’ve looked like.

Unfortunately all I can do is wait, but I’m not hopeful unless I magically get a dark line tomorrow when the frers eventually arrive from amazon.

Thanks all x

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OhTheJoys1 · 03/11/2019 15:04

@june1987

I hope all goes well with this month, but I have been meaning to write a post for a while.

I became pregnant 5 months ago, after 9 months of trying. I too, did many pregnancy tests that kept fluctuating in darkness. I was so worried! I honestly believed that was it.

I did'nt really accept this pregnancy was going to end well
until I felt baby moving at 14 weeks.

I loved mumnet conception board, but looking back, It caused so much fear and terror in me that I really had a hard time in first 11 weeks or so. I Honestly believed that I was having a chemical when my tests were not getting darker but here I am, 5 months pregnant and baby is kicking away as I type.

I also spotted at 5 weeks, 9 weeks and 14 weeks- all fine.

I wish you nothing but luck, but please try not to cause yourself to worry more than you need to.

At present, you have a positive no matter what will be. Just focus on that for now. x

sauvignonblancplz · 03/11/2019 15:01

My test lines never ever got very dark and my current 18mo is perfect. Try and stay positive .

Flossylou · 03/11/2019 14:55

Yes I had loads of symptoms too, I went to the hospital because I was worried it was ectopic so they tested my hcg it's wasn't high as it could of been but they said I could be earlier than I thought- even though I knew that wasn't possible. Then another test 48hours later and it had dropped but I'd already started bleeding before I got the call.

I had an ectopic in January so I was the same as you kept testing because I just wanted the dark line.

I hope I've not been too honest with you because you could have a totally different outcome, I really hope you do.

I don't think the hospital will do any tests because you've got light tests my doctor wasn't really interested i took myself to ane.
Let me know how you get on x

88Rose · 03/11/2019 14:49

@June1987 Hi June, I think HCG doubles every 48 hours. But it could just be low levels as very early on. Why don't you book an appointment with the nurse for a HCG blood test instead? X

June1987 · 03/11/2019 14:47

@Bellasblankexpression no bleeding, just the test lines aren’t getting stronger. So looks like it could be a chemical.

@Flossylou thank you for being honest. Did you have pregnancy symptoms too like sore boobs etc? I’m sorry this also happened to you, it’s so hard every month.

With my son I only did like 2 tests and didn’t think much of it as just took it as positive but since my MC I’m so paranoid and looks like I had right to be.

Here’s baby dust to all x

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Flossylou · 03/11/2019 14:36

I really hope you're not but it's so similar to what happened to me last month, I think I asked the same question as you on here.

Hugs to you, ttc is such an emotional drain but I'm sure we will both get there. X

Bellasblankexpression · 03/11/2019 14:32

Have you started bleeding OP?
I'm sorry if it's a chemical, I've had one and it really messes with your mind. It's why I didn't test early this time, because I felt like I'd rather not know early if it wasn't going to work out.
My first responses looked like yours unfortunately :( it could just be slow building hormone, but the only thing to do is wait and see

June1987 · 03/11/2019 14:23

@FlossylouSo it looks like I’m out! Honestly feel gutted. Don’t think I can go through it again.

Thanks for your help anyway.

I got a positive OPK on 19th October but without having a period in between my miscarriage and this not too sure where I am.

Hope things workout for you and you get your sticky bfp soon.x

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Flossylou · 03/11/2019 14:15

That's what my clear blue looked like last month... I did exactly the same as you and tried a different test but then like you say you have no comparison.

I really feel for you it's such a horrible time that you should be enjoying not worrying... it literally consumed my life for a week last month, I tested early and didn't bleed till 20dpo.

The hospital did say to me that you can have faint tests because you don't always know when you implant it's not an exact science. There's not much you can do but wait, I will keep my fingers crossed for you.

June1987 · 03/11/2019 14:08

@MyDcAreMarvel thank you very much for the help you have given. Unfortunately hubby went to 5 shops all of which didn’t sell FR and our local chemist isn’t open today.

However he did manage to get a clear blue non digital (which to be perfectly honest is a bit pointless as don’t have much to compare it to) but here it is. I managed to wait a few hours but then really needed a pee.

I do feel pregnant as I’m getting few cramps on and off and my boobs are so painful. I’m not trying to get my hopes up though.

What do people think to this? It also looks a bit darker in person but hard to capture.

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