Early December testing?

Thanks @ceebee21 - thats good that it only took a month for period to come back! Did you ttc last month or wait for first period?

And how long did it take for you to conceive your recent pregnancy? (Sorry for the million questions haha!)

@Anny27 So sorry to hear that.

I went for a scan at 9 weeks, but was measuring about 5, no heartbeat. Went back the following week and it had grown 1mm so they made me come back another week later (tried to make it 2 but I went against that!), they confirmed it then at what should have been 11+4 l.

I had actually naturally started bleeding on Wednesday 25th September before that last scan at EPU. It got heavier over that weekend..I managed to get a private ERPC for the Tuesday, 1st October - I was scanned in the morning and the whole sac was still there, so went ahead with ERPC that's afternoon. AF arrived yesterday 1st November, so exactly a month after....I believed I ovulated about 3 weeks after if that helps.

Xxx

@anny27 yes indeed, neither of those options sound great obviously! Well either way I hope the best for you xxx

@Gigi318 @Gems7 @Laur89 @Robbo93
I'm on CD16, we DTD on CD8 then from CD13 to today. Might get another session in on monday or Tuesday. I think I ovulated yesterday though? As I havent had EWCM this month but I had really bad ovulation pains yesterday, cramps in my right side and aching that was going into my back.
Hoping for some luck this cycle x 🥺😭🤞👍 now enter the 2ww

Hope everyone is ok c

Thanks anny, and I am sending loads of hugs and also virtual cake to you. Am so sorry about your sad news.

Thank you @Laur89 and @Gems7 ❤

@ceebee21 how long after erpc did you get your first period? If i dont miscarru naturally this week i will have an erpc next week so wondering how long it takes. Is this baby number 1 you are trying for?

Welcome @planeteer :)

Hi, can I join?

CD2 for me, 1st AF after MMC and ERPC.

Hoping that this month is the one for me xx

Hi ladies, can I join?

Trying for #2, but cycles are all over the place and Ovia has already given up on me, haha. Currently CD 40, and no sign of AF or BFP. Pretty sure we’ve had no luck this month, and am hoping for a shorter cycle next time to be in with a shot before Christmas. Lovely to electronically meet you all, and lots of luck to you x

@Anny27 Oh angel I am really really sorry to hear that. Absolutely gutted for you, sending you and your family lots of hugs, you keep strong 😘 xx

Thank you @Ellsbells112 :)

Next steps are wait for a week and see if i miscarry naturally and if not i have an appointment at the EPU on friday to rescan and then talk through the options (either surgery or medical management). Not surewhat my preference is tbh :S

I think i may have to wait for my first proper period before trying again but i am not sure, havent had that conversation with the doctors yet xxx

@anny27 I'm so so sorry 🤗🤗❤🥺 oh sweetheart if I could hug you irl!! You're so strong ❤ I am just so sorry, please join us, we arent all fertile at the same time anyway! What happens now? Do you have to wait for the process to happen naturally? Xxx

Hey ladies i wondered were you all were after the last thread got full.

Unfortunately i'll be joining back 😭 having a missed miscarriage at 10 weeks (not miscarried yet but scans have confirmed that baby doesnt have heartbeat anymore :( )

Not sure if my cycles will be alligned with you lot anymore but wanted to follow your guys journey anyway as you're all so nice!

@Ellsbells112 no tests planned for him just yet.

@Gigi318 hiya lovely. Yes glad to get the ball rolling but at the same time I don't want to hear if my body is not functioning the way it should 😭

@Gigi318 hey huni, and hiya girls
Sorry I've been a bit quiet, I think we are all taking the same approach this month aren't we and being way more relaxed with it all.
I am on CD10 but that is literally all I know. I have no idea when I'll ovulate, not checking CM, not doing anything at all. Only DTD naturally when me and my OH want to. Feels so much better this way. I haven't had any OV type pains at all yet like I usually have by now, I feel completely fine and have ever since AF finished so who knows what's going on in there.
Good luck to you all 😘

I will now be trying again and testing in dec. Lovely AF arrived this morning 😩 was planning on testing next week 😭😭😭😭

@Gigi318 hey there stranger! Ah that's
good that you're taking a relaxed approach nothing better than not stressing!
I don't know, today I'm cd15 but I dont actually know if I'll ovulate cd14, 15 or 16 even! I havent had much EWCM at all, just some on Thursday! This cycle seems weird but I'm trying not to think about it! How are you? Xx

Hi ladies! How are we all? So sorry I've been MIA, I'm taking a much more relaxed approach this month and really loving it so far. I definitely feel less consumed by it all. I'm just doing my opk (woohoo) and then forgetting about it for the rest of the day. It's a huge help! I'm about CD12 now!

@Ellsbells112 how are you doing chick? So are you 1DPO today. I'm thinking of using preseed next month if need be. Hopefully we won't have to 🙊

@Robbo93 it's good that you have that in place just in case babe. How are you feeling??

@Laur89 how are you doing babe? Where are you in the cycle now?

@Gems7 how are you doing chick?? Where are you now??

@charlie0692 lovely to see you here too chick xx

@robbo93 😂😂😂 it's nice to know it's not just me 🙈 @ellsbells112 fingers crossed for us all this month xx

@Robbo93 yeah so still it's good to start now and see if theres any issues. How about your partner will he get checked too?

Yeah when you want it so badly it's hard not to feel down when it's all around you!

@charlie0692 don't feel bad hun, I think every woman who is TTC is the same...
I walked past dude the other day carrying a baby and I cursed him under my breath. No idea why as I don't know the poor chap but jealousy is a bitch 😂

@Ellsbells112 only since January, so not quite a year but near enough!
You can only try, fingers crossed it works for both of us! X

Hey @Robbo93 that's awesome! Definitely good to have the ball rolling! How long have you been trying? This time around I havent had as much cervical mucus so I think it's a good thing I got preseed! I havent had pain like I normally do every month either but still hoping it's all working x

@charlie0692 I know it sounds awful but I totally get you, sometimes it's so hard to stay positive when its not happening to you and you just yearn for it so badly 🤗🤗

@Togstiree welcome aboard! Good luck to you too x

Hi everyone, I'm in the fertile period too, got a feeling I may have ovulated yesterday, I had some mild on off cramping all afternoon. Af due 14th. Feeling really down at the minute, I've found out in the last few days that a friend, my cousin and a work colleague are pregnant and I cant help but feel really jealous, I know that's so bad but I cant help it x

Hey Ladies. Good luck to every one.
Got married in September and TTC#2 #1 was miscarriage almost 10 years ago. Been off the pill now for 3 weeks. Due Af in 12 days.

Hi @Ellsbells112 I think I'm entering my fertile period too & I have also purchased preseed so I'll try and use it this month!

I had a gynae appt (for something else) but I touched on TTC. They've booked me in for day 21 bloods and then again for the following month to see if I'm ovulating and I've also got to have bloods done when I start my AF to test my FSH levels? Glad to finally have the ball rolling I suppose! Xx