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Early December testing?

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Laur89 · 25/10/2019 13:29

@Gigi318 @Ellsbells112 @Gems7 new post girls! How are you all? I can't remember who else to tag!

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Gems7 · 17/11/2019 10:02

@Anny27 big hugs for you mrs, can't begin to imagine how upsetting this must have been for you. It can only get better now xx

@Ellsbells112 Hey hun, I am 11DPO today (or I think I am anyway) Spotting should start weds then AF full force on Thursday. If that doesn't happen then I will test on Friday. I really am not hopeful though. I don't feel anything. I don't feel pregnant at all. Last cycle I noticed lots of creamy CM after OV and in the days leading up to AF but this cycle so far I've not had any at all since I OV..
Why is every cycle so different!? Aarrghhh it just confuses us even more doesn't it! I don't think this is my month at all. I'm hoping (well not hoping but you know what I mean) that AF comes when I think it will because at least I'll know I have predicted OV spot on for the third time in a row so next cycle so can give it a really good go (again)
How are you anyway? Still no AF I see.. when was she due? There's still hope if she isn't here 🤞🏻
Hope all the rest of you lovely ladies are all okay. Who is out this month and who is still in? Xx

Laur89 · 17/11/2019 09:46

Oh goodness @Anny27 that sounds so horrible, sending lots of love and strength to you!

@Ellsbells112 I'm doing ok thanks, got back from holiday yesterday. Still no af, don't know when it's due, but somehow I just have a feeling this isn't my month either! 🤦🏻‍♀️

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Ellsbells112 · 17/11/2019 09:42

@Robbo93 how are you? Has spotting stayed away? Xx

Ellsbells112 · 17/11/2019 09:42

@FingersCrossedXXX
No! Gah bfns every day and no af I'm losing my mind! The first month this has happened but I know its going to come I dont feel pregnant at all! I'm so annoyed though as I obviously ovulated late and missed it 🙄 ffs
How are you?

@Gems7 @Laur89 what's going on for you girls?

FingersCrossedXXX · 17/11/2019 09:27

@anny27 So sorry you have had to go through that. Hope you feel a little bit better today.

@Ellsbells112 @Robbo93 any sign of af yet?

Anny27 · 17/11/2019 00:14

Thank you @ellsbells112 and @robbo93 :)

Yes @champooPapi in hindsight, the surgical option would have been better from the start! I can advise anyone who has to unfortunatley go through this that i would choose that now having been through both haha! So sorry that you had to go through this as well! its a very humbling experience and makes you appreciate things a little more!

ChampooPapi · 16/11/2019 23:14

@Anny27 that is absolutely awful, it must have been terrifying. In those moments you really have no idea what's next it what really happened or is happening, I am amazed by at your strength and you have been so brave today. One day at a time and yes, thank God for the nhs. I felt exactly the same when I came out of my surgical management 4 weeks ago. Just wallow, it helps! Let us know how your doing tomorrow if you can, I really think surgical is better then the pills as now you know everything is ready to heal and you can restart your journey now only looking forward.

To the future 💜

Ellsbells112 · 16/11/2019 18:53

@Robbo93 we DTD till cd16 then havent since it's now cd28, so I'm hoping I didnt ovulate later and that's why my period isnt coming (it's still early doors lol i have the whole day to come on i just normally come on morning or early afternoon or even friday evening) my cervix feels really hard and bigger too?? It normally feels really hard when I'm going to come on though so I dunno. Glad yours still hasn't shown xx

@anny27 ahh I'm so sorry hunnie that sounds so awful 🤗🤗❤❤ I hope you feel better soon xx

Robbo93 · 16/11/2019 18:28

@Ellsbells112 did you not DTD after predicted Ov then? Why do you think you maybe missed your chance?
I still have nothing .. so strange! I have 1 FRER left and 1 cheap test. Xx

Robbo93 · 16/11/2019 18:10

@Anny27 oh my goodness! I'm so glad you're home and okay. What a traumatic experience you've been dealt recently. Sending lots of love xxxx

Anny27 · 16/11/2019 17:53

Afternoon ladies! Ended up being admitted to hospital after too much blood loss and had to have emergency erpc. Its been a horrific 48 hours but glad to be home now!

So soppy but thank goodness for the nhs ❤

ChampooPapi · 16/11/2019 17:25

@FingersCrossedXXX with not really knowing exactly when my period is combined with wanting a clear test it just makes sense for me personally to be cautious about early testing. I think lots of people come on late too with AF so a few weeks into December is probably wise, I've got a 20 month old and a 9 year old so I'm not especially clucking for my bfp. Will be a different story in a few months if j don't catch though I'm sure

Ellsbells112 · 16/11/2019 16:42

@FingersCrossedXXX I know it does the same to me it's so annoying!!
Download ovia too and see how you get on :) and gah! Each month theres a new twinge or symptom!!

@Robbo93 I was shopping too😂 kept going toilet but I'm getting bfn on the clear step preggo tests. I do feel like it's going to come though you know that achey crampy feel now which I wasnt having earlier. Let's hope it's good news for you!!! And I just hope that I didnt ovulate late and miss it!! Lol

Robbo93 · 16/11/2019 15:57

@Ellsbells112 same! Was just shopping and had to dash to the toilets cos I thought I'd come on... but nope! Xx

FingersCrossedXXX · 16/11/2019 15:46

@Ellsbells112 No worries. For some people it gives me a drop down and I can select their name and for others I have to manually type it in so I keep almost making mistakes too!

I find it okay and haven't paid for the upgrade...the forums on their seem to be full of scandal...it's like a soap!!

I have no idea if that's a good sign or a bad sign...as long as af hasn't arrived yet, let's hope its a positive. So hard not to scrutinize every twinge or feeling!

Ellsbells112 · 16/11/2019 15:33

Sorry I tagged you wrong @FingersCrossedXXX look above lol

My period hasn't come yet but tmi I feel really wet 🤷‍♀️

Ellsbells112 · 16/11/2019 12:25

@finherscrossedxxx I downloaded it but I dont really like it it just tells me to constantly upgrade lol I use ovia I find it really good and simple to use

FingersCrossedXXX · 16/11/2019 11:41

Ellsbells112 It was good, a little slow to begin with but I liked it. Glad you and the little one enjoyed the cinema. I haven't watched the original Adams family for YEARS!!

@champoopapi I don't know how you have the patience to wait until you are a few weeks late! I know I'm going to be one of the women testing way too soon every time!

Is anyone else using the Glow app to track? Do you find it reliable?

Ellsbells112 · 16/11/2019 11:29

@champoopapi I quite liked it! It wasnt too bad lol but nothing like the original.
Ah I see well good luck for that!! :)

ChampooPapi · 16/11/2019 10:41

@Ellsbells112 hope the Adams family wasn't too painful, heard its a pretty weak effort. I have no idea about when my periods due, when I actually ovulated, literally clueless about every element of it all this month, bar having a lot of sex of course!.

I used to be due af around the end of the month so that's what I'm going with, but will wait until I'm a few weeks 'late' to test if nothing appears.

May start tracking things next year if I don't conceive when I actually know when my periods are supposed to come.

Ellsbells112 · 16/11/2019 09:37

@Robbo93 that's good to hear!! Progress 🙌🙏
Af hasn't arrived yet for me but I'm sure it'll come at some point today. I'll be so annoyed if its late as I'm never late and that would mean I ovulated late and missed the opportunity anyway xx

Robbo93 · 16/11/2019 08:44

Morning girls

Has the wicked witch arrived for you @Ellsbells112 ? Hope you had a good evening at the cinema! Xx

I'm CD31 today, no blood since the one wipe Thursday afternoon, predicted 12DPO (longest ever for me!) and a BFN on a FRER this morning!
I either ov'd later than thought or the b6 tablets I've been taking are already helping with my LP

Ellsbells112 · 15/11/2019 22:23

@FingersCrossedXXX that's okay lol
I really enjoyed the joker, what do you think of it? I watched the Adams family it was so good :) my son wants to watch the old version now too haha

FingersCrossedXXX · 15/11/2019 20:57

@Ellsbells112 Nope, might be a good thing as the hubby is already complaining he's tired 🙄 I keep forgetting it'll show up before I ovulate on the tests so thanks for reminding me!

What did you go and watch at the cinema? Currently watching The Joker at home.

Ellsbells112 · 15/11/2019 20:53

@FingersCrossedXXX you might get it in another 2 days pr so.if you're due to ovulate on 20th I think it's a 24-36 hour window

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