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Early December testing?

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Laur89 · 25/10/2019 13:29

@Gigi318 @Ellsbells112 @Gems7 new post girls! How are you all? I can't remember who else to tag!

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Ellsbells112 · 17/11/2019 21:08

@Robbo93 I know right lol and also some people do get late positives it does happen 🤷‍♀️ but I've just convinced myself I'm going to come on at some point. I've got no cramps but I've had a pressure feeling for 2 days x

Gems7 · 17/11/2019 21:03

I did a cheap test with an afternoon wee aswell today... BFN 👎🏻
Felt nauseous all morning so I was like 👀
Why do we do it haha 🤣
Xx

Robbo93 · 17/11/2019 20:36

@Ellsbells112 at least we're in this together lol

Ellsbells112 · 17/11/2019 19:47

@Robbo93 cheap test and late wee no good!! Loool I honestly dont know what's going on either

Robbo93 · 17/11/2019 19:00

@JEMMA18 yes Jemma, I have been suffering with a shorter LP.. normally start spotting about 6-8DPO and then full flow around 8-10DPO

@Ellsbells112 cheers hun, I do think I'm out tho. Just took a cheap pg strip (granted late afternoon so not greatest time to test 😂) and not even a hint of a 2nd line. Thought they'd be something there if it's 2 weeks since predicted ovulation tomorrow? X

Ellsbells112 · 17/11/2019 18:45

@FingersCrossedXXX haha yeah just DTD as much as possible!!!! Cover all bases, it's not that bad of an idea ;)

Ellsbells112 · 17/11/2019 18:45

@JEMMA18 I dont understand, so you would only have a 12 day luteal phase? Is that normal for you? What's telling you you only have a 12 dayluteal phase?? I'm okay, keep feeling like I'm going to come on, not with cramps but like that "feeling". I've been walking around for 2 days with a pad on lol and nothing. How are you?

FingersCrossedXXX · 17/11/2019 17:16

@Ellsbells112 hmm I was hoping it'd be in a day or 2 but I just pee'd on another OPK and you can't even see a second line really at all. I did have a few ciders at lunch though when out for a family meal so maybe it's just really diluted! Who bloody knows. Will just DTD tonight anyway to make sure! Haha.

You all seem to be on a similar cycle so should all hopefully have an answer either way soon!

JEMMA18 · 17/11/2019 17:05

@Anny27 I'm so sorry to hear that hun :( I hope your feeling better now 💖

JEMMA18 · 17/11/2019 17:04

Hey ladies. Sound like we are all in the same boat with he confusion of cycles 😕 mines really confusing me. Im 9DPO yet id be due to see AF in 2 days.. I dont understand how I can ovulate less than 2 weeks before AF arrives. Had anyone else ovulated less than 2 weeks before AF? Anyway I dont feel close to AF at all. And I stupidly keep testing and getting BFN 🙈
I'm going to test again the day AF should arrive and just see..
How is everyone feeling today?

Ellsbells112 · 17/11/2019 15:21

@Robbo93 ohhh fingers crossed then!! Xx

Robbo93 · 17/11/2019 14:59

@Ellsbells112 I'm guessing tomorrow if I'm 13DPO today? Xx

Ellsbells112 · 17/11/2019 14:51

@Robbo93 me too, but definitely could still be too early to come up on a test for you? I'd say leave it till the day af due (when is that?)

Robbo93 · 17/11/2019 14:37

@Ellsbells112 yes you mentioned the wet feeling yesterday because I remember saying I had it too. My knickers (sorrrrrrry) are wet again today and the CM is clear but a little stretchy.
I've not been this far in my cycle before I don't know what to think 🤔 I have no symptoms at all not even for AF (I've had a couple of waves of nausea but they last about a minute at a time..) and the FRER I took yesterday was negative!
Doesn't explain why I had the little blood on Thurs afternoon and nothing since .. (the blood was 1.5 days before taking FRER)

I hate this game 😩

Ellsbells112 · 17/11/2019 14:27

@Robbo93 I dunno, i just know first response pregnancy tests are best lol. Mine goes watery before af or dry, I felt wet yesterday and then (tmi) but last night we DTD and it was like ewcm a little bit and yellow tinged, I dunno if i said that already lol so I'm 🤷‍♀️

How do you feel? Any symptoms? Xx

Robbo93 · 17/11/2019 14:16

@Ellsbells112 yes travelling can deffo mess around with your cycle apparently.
I've just been and brought some boots early result tests. Anyone have any experience with them?
My CM has gone watery and sloppy again - a bit like what you get before EWCM. What does everyone else's go like before AF? Xx

Ellsbells112 · 17/11/2019 13:57

@FingersCrossedXXX
It's been a waiting game the last 2 weeks!! 🤣🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️ ffs I have no patience if its gonna come just bloody come so I can try again!! Haha how many dpo are you now? How dark are your opks do you think you'll ovulate in a day or 2?

@Laur89 did you enjoy your holiday? It's so annoying isnt it 🙄 I'm 15dpo and still waiting on my af with bfn this morning

FingersCrossedXXX · 17/11/2019 13:49

@ElsBells112 Just a waiting game now then!

Ellsbells112 · 17/11/2019 13:37

@FingersCrossedXXX
I really have no idea because I dont even feel like I'm going to come on? I havent had any cramps since friday lol I'm baffled honestly.

I'm 15dpo now assuming I ovulated when I think I did :)

ChampooPapi · 17/11/2019 12:14

*a week later by af turning up

ChampooPapi · 17/11/2019 12:13

Testing after af is due is definitely for the best, I also think your pregnant for a while so finding out at only a few weeks can not only make the pregnancy even longer but you have a chance of it not sticking then being 'devastated' when your period turns up a few days after a bfp pregnancy test.

Where as testing ten days/ 2 weeks after your due your period should give you a really strong positive with a high chance of a good outcome.

I know everyone is different so if you can cope with the dissapointments of seeing negatives or getting a positive followed a week by af turning up then crack on, but it's not for me!

FingersCrossedXXX · 17/11/2019 11:26

@Ellsbells112 Already been getting in a bit of practice Wink How many dpo are you? Could it still be too early to show?

Ellsbells112 · 17/11/2019 10:52

@Robbo93 I dunno maybe...but I just dont feel pregnant. I just want it to come so I can start again...😐 maybe it came late because I travelled? They say it can affect your cycles and I went Italy when i was on my last period.
Glad yours has stayed away!!! Super exciting xx

@FingersCrossedXXX
Oh good! That's awesome so soon to be doing lots of BD!! Haha
That's nice, I'm going to go gym and just tidy up etc, make a nice roast chicken.
I know what you mean but surely it would come up on a test by now? I just think it'll come late

FingersCrossedXXX · 17/11/2019 10:14

Seems like you are all still in for the chance! Hopefully at least one of you will get that bfp! I have a lot of friends who didn't feel pregnant and were.

@Ellsbells112 I am good thanks, just a pretty chilled Sunday for us today and may pop to see my parents later. Finally getting a slightly darker ovulation test but still not a positive but hopefully in the right direction.

What's everyone up to today?

Robbo93 · 17/11/2019 10:04

@FingersCrossedXXX @Ellsbells112 Nope absolutely nothing for me! CD32 for me and a predicted 13DPO 🤣 what the hell is this torture lol. I daren't take another test after yesterday's BFN.

You may still have a chance ellsbells if the sperm is of good quality..

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